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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"Have done several times. Wouldn't compromise my standards. "
Don't know if it's just the guys we choose to talk to but so far most of the guys we acually converse with have fairly clear ideas of what they want. I really don't see why guys should be any less fussy than anyone else on here; everyone has preferences. |
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Don't really understand the question/statement.
Are men any different from women?
Of course we turn down sex,can anyone honestly say otherwise? Like many men on here I suspect,i actually reject more than I meet..Ax |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i turned down a meet about 2 hrs ago...
I thought "recovering from pneumonia" was a valid excuse..... apparently not!!!  "
Woman don't believe man-flu exists, so you've got no chance with pneumonia, that'd be considered even less serious.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have turned it down loads of times.
If I'm not up for it, it's not going to happen.
When we were active, Kate's been cocked more times than John Wayne's Rifle but I can't play that way.
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By no means meaning to turn this into a single-guy bashing thread, it would seem that a very high percentage of men turn down offers for sex when you consider the numbers that cop-out, no-show etc.
I've turned down offers for sex but I am married and we have a great sex life. If I were single I'd guess it would be a different story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course, not everyone's compatible. Was invited to a hotel meet on Friday but with no pics available, and a vague profile pic, I ain't gonna meet without establishing that I fancy her. I'm not that desperate. I'm sure she's perfectly lovely but that's not how I play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have turned it down loads of times.
If I'm not up for it, it's not going to happen.
When we were active, Kate's been cocked more times than John Wayne's Rifle but I can't play that way.
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Ooo that did make me giggle xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have done several times. Wouldn't compromise my standards. "
I have on several occasions, if you really don't fancy someone, what's the point of it. I have also. Declined when asked by a couple that were not interested before and we're impolite. I have my standards too even if you would say I was cutting my nose of despite my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've turned down an offer every once in a while. However when comes to saying yes a woman is the one that acts as the gatekeeper. The woman has the power of the decision between the sexual yes and the sexual no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've turned down an offer every once in a while. However when comes to saying yes a woman is the one that acts as the gatekeeper. The woman has the power of the decision between the sexual yes and the sexual no. "
Take the ladies off the pedastal fella, all decisions are equal, guys have the same say as women in who they sleep with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a recent social meet with a couple but didn't really feel any attraction to either of them. They text me a few days later for a play meet but I politely turned it down. I can't play with people I'm not attracted to or don't click with. |
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Non judgmental or motivated question lol
recently I have sent a polite not my type message , and seem to receive a reply expressing great surprise that any man would turn down sex . Absolutely I know I'm not alone however are we in the minority ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Non judgmental or motivated question lol
recently I have sent a polite not my type message , and seem to receive a reply expressing great surprise that any man would turn down sex . Absolutely I know I'm not alone however are we in the minority ?"
I dunno, I don't think so...surely nobody just fancies everyone? Must be that guys are occasionally approached by people they don't fancy or feel they wouldn't get on with? |
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