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In a bit of a pickle . . .
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Ok, so here goes.
I'm a heavily pregnant woman in her mid twenties. Huge sexual appetite, yet havent had fun (masterbation or otherwise) since august.
It's not something i've ever wanted to do (meet when pregnant), hence I have not. However, as my due date is drawing closer and the lack of sex is clawing away at me like a second little demon, I must admit I am highly frustrated. Oh so close to investing in a new toy but weary of the effects.
Would it be rude of me to ask have any other mama's had a similar experience and if so, what would you advise?
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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I was once visited by a heavily pregnant young work colleague. She was 7 months into her pregnancy.She was climbing the walls for seX . . It was none of the most passionate and hornieSt meets I've ever experienced. Now have quite a thing for pregnant women. Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a reason as to why you're not having sex with your partner (if not to personal to ask), being pregnent never stopped us, infact sex is what started off labour of our youngest
Hex |
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"Im currently 21 weeks and allI can say hos im glad my fellas home for the weekend.
Masterbate away it cant hurt the baby casual sex with a strange meet could if you catch something"
Congratulations 
This is one of the many reasons I dont wish to meet when pregnant. Baby is no.1 priority. I'm just looking at options as being single and having a high sex drive but no sex is tearing me up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Six months? SIX MONTHS? It must be like you're going cold turkey 
As for being safe, well obviously I'm no expert but I believe it's not only safe but it's the law for a woman to experience pregnant sex.
You won't harm your baby in any way, either by having sex or masturbating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As Hex said, we had sex right up to the end. I couldn't have survived without that lol!
Using toys is absolutely fine when pregnant too...I did with all of mine 
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Nothing unsafe what-so-ever about penetrative sex/masturbation. I too chose not to swing as the health of our Baby came before a short-lived thrill in my books, but then again I was lucky to have Bradley when I was pregnant as I was horny as fuck, but still masturbated like a mad woman too.
So long as you don't do electro-stimulation (use toys that give you electric shocks) or use any of those weird spikey ones, you should be fine.
And if you're THAT worried, just use the tip of a vibrator on your clit.
- Amy. x |
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"Im currently 21 weeks and allI can say hos im glad my fellas home for the weekend.
Masterbate away it cant hurt the baby casual sex with a strange meet could if you catch something
Congratulations
This is one of the many reasons I dont wish to meet when pregnant. Baby is no.1 priority. I'm just looking at options as being single and having a high sex drive but no sex is tearing me up "
Thank you and Congrats yourself
I do feel your pain i was single during my first pregnancy with my twins as the dad took off when i told him I was pregnant and ive always had an high sex drive too so I was climbing the walls not meeting and still getting offers that were oh so tempting but I resisted and I niw have two beautiful amd healthy girls as my reward |
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Toys (clean, phthalate free, and nothing extreme ofc) are completely safe for penetration, and vibes are fine too (used inside or out.) Having plenty of sex is for the best as it helps keep the muscles in trim.
Also (and not everyone will like the thought of this, so stop reading if you're easily icked) your baby will enjoy your orgasms too. |
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"Toys (clean, phthalate free, and nothing extreme ofc) are completely safe for penetration, and vibes are fine too (used inside or out.) Having plenty of sex is for the best as it helps keep the muscles in trim.
Also (and not everyone will like the thought of this, so stop reading if you're easily icked) your baby will enjoy your orgasms too. "
Thats all true I having a very happy wriggly baby after experiencing the big O |
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Thank you folkes. You must all think i'm a bit mental giving previous veris but since the baby's dad and I parted ways, I just havent been the same in that respect. Time to get ordering a few toys as a reward me thinks  |
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"Six months? SIX MONTHS? It must be like you're going cold turkey
As for being safe, well obviously I'm no expert but I believe it's not only safe but it's the law for a woman to experience pregnant sex.
You won't harm your baby in any way, either by having sex or masturbating."
I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine |
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What about the father of your child..
I had such a wacking orgasm when I was 35 weeks pregnant my waters broke.
That was quite funny..Like having sex when your milk comes in .. I used to tie a towel round me cos it would just pour out .. funny times. |
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"I'm no longer with the baby's father, hence the forum really "
Toys are very safe. I think you are doing the right thing laying off playing till
The baby is born as you never know what you could catch and that could be dangerous. Only 3 months left now, your over the worst. A £5 Anne summers bullet used to sort me out when I was gagging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel envious of all u woman who had such a high sex drive when pregnant 
I'm 5 months pregnant and had no sex drive what so ever, me and the mister are planning a _omantic night tonight though so hopefully that gets me going  fingers crossed |
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"Ten % off lovehoney and you can send back if you dont like it.
sorry you are not with the dad. there are quite a few guys that like pregnant sex on here it seems."
Some things just arent meant to be, but at least I have my little lady to look forward to. Wouldnt change that for the world |
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"Ten % off lovehoney and you can send back if you dont like it.
sorry you are not with the dad. there are quite a few guys that like pregnant sex on here it seems.
Some things just arent meant to be, but at least I have my little lady to look forward to. Wouldnt change that for the world "
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Good luck .. I wonder if you will still be horny once baby is born. I was so busy I didnt bother about sex at all after.
Too much effort. Wich I had known about vibrators back then. I doubt I would have bothered again.
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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago
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Hope You find a fun way to relieve Your tension had a friend who sat on the washing machine on the spin cycle when she was expecting
er stopped it bouncing round the room lol
And all the best for the birth |
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From a midwife friend of ours sex can actually help stimulate labour so if you're 39 weeks that could potentially be an issue...
But the positives of sex, masturbation, and of course cumming far outweigh anything else so go for it! |
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"Hope You find a fun way to relieve Your tension had a friend who sat on the washing machine on the spin cycle when she was expecting
er stopped it bouncing round the room lol
And all the best for the birth "
Bugger! Mine is under the unit
Thank you, It's going to be a good while yet, but hoping once baby is a bit older that I can start visiting T.H. a bit more often |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine "
Ha, well I'm a believer, you must be a nun to have lasted this long, I'm soon to be completely out of action for around 6 weeks or so and the thought of that is bad enough.
If you decide to buy some toys to relieve yourself can I offer my services as goalie, after all this time I reckon you may shoot that little lady straight across the room. |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
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Sex during pregnancy was the best sex I've had in my life... Especially after I left work for maternity leave at 8 months - every day my hubby got home from work I made sure it was the first thing we did!! So many arguments over me being horny and him too tired
Do it, don't hold back on the play time! You're missing out big time!
But yeah, no meets - risking catching stds is potentially harmful to the baby and can cause serious side effects if untreated before birth x |
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"I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine
Ha, well I'm a believer, you must be a nun to have lasted this long, I'm soon to be completely out of action for around 6 weeks or so and the thought of that is bad enough.
If you decide to buy some toys to relieve yourself can I offer my services as goalie, after all this time I reckon you may shoot that little lady straight across the room. "
I didnt think that far ahead! Urgh dont the one thing im dreading is the birth. I'll be asking for all the pain relief they've got. Any of you saucy sods doctors by any chance? |
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had sex all the way through her pregnancy even at the night she started labour pains 4hrs later before she gave birth the same day 12hrs later
though for pain relief she was on gas and air as what she wanted but soon changed to i want the needle  but was too far gone to have it as goes for the mask it didnt last long before it was off and not used again |
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"I'm a born again nun, didnt you know? The one who miraculously fell pregnant from a sip of communal wine
Ha, well I'm a believer, you must be a nun to have lasted this long, I'm soon to be completely out of action for around 6 weeks or so and the thought of that is bad enough.
If you decide to buy some toys to relieve yourself can I offer my services as goalie, after all this time I reckon you may shoot that little lady straight across the room.
I didnt think that far ahead! Urgh dont the one thing im dreading is the birth. I'll be asking for all the pain relief they've got. Any of you saucy sods doctors by any chance? "
You'll be fine.
If you do try just gas and air though, make sure you start sucking that shit up as soon as you feel a contraction coming! Nobody told me that if you start it too late, it's bloody useless! Lol.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any of you saucy sods doctors by any chance? "
Funny you should ask, Doctor James here, I'm not a gynaecologist but I'll have a good look at it for you.
Like Amy says, you'll be fine, don't stress over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a midwife friend of ours sex can actually help stimulate labour so if you're 39 weeks that could potentially be an issue..."
Sex that involves a man can bring on labour because his cum can irritate the uterus. This, combined with the hormone release from both parties can start labour, BUT masturbation and/or having some alone time with your fav rabbit wont risk bringing on labour early, as you don't have the man there being an irritant.
Good luck hun xxx
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