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are some people just to picky
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think so - to have sex with someone (at least when you are not high as a kite on some powder, liquid or herbal stuff - lol ) there has to be an attraction and we all have a certain type/types. We know some lovely people - but would never dream of having sex with them simply because there is zero chemistry that way.
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Oh dear has someone been turned down lol . Everyone has their own criteria of what is attractive and they are entitled to them . We generally find the only time we are told we are too picky is by someone we dont want to fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear has someone been turned down lol . Everyone has their own criteria of what is attractive and they are entitled to them . We generally find the only time we are told we are too picky is by someone we dont want to fuck"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think so - to have sex with someone (at least when you are not high as a kite on some powder, liquid or herbal stuff - lol ) there has to be an attraction and we all have a certain type/types. We know some lovely people - but would never dream of having sex with them simply because there is zero chemistry that way.
Hope that makes sense? as long someone dunna offer u a pink panther you'll have a cracking nite  "
Did you ever see a panther that was pink?
A panther that was positively pink?
Rinky dink panther, rinky dink panther |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think so - to have sex with someone (at least when you are not high as a kite on some powder, liquid or herbal stuff - lol ) there has to be an attraction and we all have a certain type/types. We know some lovely people - but would never dream of having sex with them simply because there is zero chemistry that way.
Hope that makes sense? as long someone dunna offer u a pink panther you'll have a cracking nite
Did you ever see a panther that was pink?
A panther that was positively pink?
Rinky dink panther, rinky dink panther "
Funny guys |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
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I knew you had asked this before.....
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/307337
i'll answer this the same way i answered that...
if people weren't picky... i'd be more worried!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very picky, when someone messages me, I look for reasons not to meet them.
From gut feelings to bad grammer"
You wouldn't meet someone because of bad grammar? Wow!
I would agree if it was "text talk" as that's annoying, but just for a few spelling mistakes or lack of comma's????  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Goodness yes, I'm picky and fussy, and can be put off quite easily...
But I have limited free time, and would rather not meet than have an unpleasant time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Goodness yes, I'm picky and fussy, and can be put off quite easily...
But I have limited free time, and would rather not meet than have an unpleasant time."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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Too picky for what?
Too picky to agree to meet you? Probably. The very cheek of it! How very dare they?
Yes, I'm picky. I'd be concerned about the self-esteem and psychological well being of someone who would shag anyone at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyones preference u could bé the fittest peeps goin but if u cant socialise have poor communication skills and dont no how to party and no personality what good is it ? And when u getting no fun or meets then it is time to look at yaselves where ya going wrong ,picky till the next great peeps we meet happy days  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I could maybe think of some who aren't!!. Every member is entitled to use selection criteria. Would you buy any old car or do you make an informed choice based on the information available ."
I would test drive it first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We pick and choose the people we find attractive. I've seen people in the past who have declared they are very picky and not been attracted to the people they have met. Doesn't make me any more pickier than them. Just means we have different tastes. Some people say they are picky because they only meet tell,muscled men. I just call that a preference for tall,muscled men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams""
Agreed... I can go from sexy lady to stuck up bitch in 3 messages
example:
male: mmmmm wow love your profile and pictures you are so gorgeous/beautiful/stunning fancy a chat/meet/fuck
me: No thanks you are not my type
male: Stuck up bitch / timewaster / it's a sex site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams"
Agreed... I can go from sexy lady to stuck up bitch in 3 messages
example:
male: mmmmm wow love your profile and pictures you are so gorgeous/beautiful/stunning fancy a chat/meet/fuck
me: No thanks you are not my type
male: Stuck up bitch / timewaster / it's a sex site!"
Or blocked some cant take no on the chin thats why cant handle rejection lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fair picky I got told by a couple I don't have the right to be picky as a single man haha I won't drop my standards to get laid I'm not that desperate |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm fair picky I got told by a couple I don't have the right to be picky as a single man haha I won't drop my standards to get laid I'm not that desperate "
Everyone has a right to be picky. |
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everyone has the right to be picky, though some blokes would literally fuck the crack of dawn.
I personally try to go with the mind-set that unless I would be happy to go for a public drink with them and be comfortable being seen by people I know, then its probably best giving it a miss, and rightfully reversed. I know I wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea and expect that to be the case all round. not many gym fit 20 something's would like a 50/60 or 70 year old bloke with a beer belly crawling all over them... there has to be a mutual attraction....
there are more couples and females on here that blokes so they have the ability to be more selective....
a lot of blokes think some women are like mopeds... good to ride on unless your mates see you....lol
no offence intended and am now sure that I will be slated...but that's the way it is, or is it??????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Picky" can mask an imbalance of enthusiasm for NSA sex in a Couple's relationship.
It is not unusual to find the male very enthusiastic about a meet until the little lady gets home and then its "not for us". Looking at veris often shows up things like they had one meet in 2013 and none since. Ce la vie!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Picky" can mask an imbalance of enthusiasm for NSA sex in a Couple's relationship.
It is not unusual to find the male very enthusiastic about a meet until the little lady gets home and then its "not for us". Looking at veris often shows up things like they had one meet in 2013 and none since. Ce la vie! "
we often get called picky or false because our last verification was in 2013 normally by people who don't fit what we are looking/asking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a couple can be hard work, both have different ideas of what they like you can end up turning down so many people because one of the couple has no interest while the other does some may call that fussy but thats life and everybody has their own taste, some may take a hit to please the other one but it's not something we would do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can you be TOO picky?
I don't think so.
most of us are not desperate. so why shouldn't we have high standards?
I just said no to a very cute looking guy because he wasn't flirty enough and I therefore didn't feel appreciated. it feels much better for me to be picky than just take what I can get.
I expect that of other people too by the way. if they don't really fancy me I don't want them to meet me. it would be a waste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its funny how folk call you picky or stuck up when you say "no thanks" or even "no fucking chance,in yer dreams"
Agreed... I can go from sexy lady to stuck up bitch in 3 messages
example:
male: mmmmm wow love your profile and pictures you are so gorgeous/beautiful/stunning fancy a chat/meet/fuck
me: No thanks you are not my type
male: Stuck up bitch / timewaster / it's a sex site!"
Hahaha so true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all - everyone's entitled to have standards and a preference.
Just because you're on this site doesn't entitle you to play who you seek fit- it has to be a mutual agreement/attraction and not one sided. |
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Look at it from A different angle as I dont think people can be "too picky" when it comes to sexual activity. However are people "too vain" would be an all together different expression regarding the same thing.
We all know people have sexual preferences and attractions, but we all also know that "personality" counts for much more than looks in the every day world, and beautiful to some is not beautiful to others, so my question is..how can some people see others users personality or beauty by some half cocked pictures and a few lines.
So for my answer, No. People are not too picky but stipulating, tall, fit and big cock simply does not go down well with me.
The question really us, woukd you sleep with a tall fit big cocked guy who was a complete moron or couldnt string a sentence together, or would you rather an average guy who held your mind, conversationally great and made you laugh |
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