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Does your son or daughter know you swing?
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over a year ago
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My daughters and son in law know I meet men for sex. It's no big secret and they don't make a thing about it. If I was still with their dad and meeting couples I wouldn't tell them |
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Kids are cleverer than you know, it will not take them long to work it out for themselves, the more you try and hide your lifestyle the more they will find out. Our kids worked it out and they know what we do, we do not talk about the details or discuss swinging with them, but, because we are more laid back nowdays, our kids have benefited and now have a more open and relaxed relationship with us.
Todays kids are more worldly wise than we where, do you really know what your kids are upto at party's and when they go out with mates ??? and who are we to judge with what we get up to lol  |
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We have 3 grown up sons and we'd like them to know we have an open relationship as we believe they should know that there are alternatives to monogamy. But we'd probably not mention the swinging until society has stopped programming people that swinging is immoral. |
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"I can't think of anyone who would. I certainly wouldn't, I don't even tell my friends or anyone outside of swinging.
Anecdotally though I have heard of adult family members at clubs etc,"
We've told our close friends and they haven't judged us, at least not obviously. In fact our friends have been more open with us since we shared with them about our lifestyle. |
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My daughter found out when she was 18. A friend of hers saw me on here. It was a tad uncomfortable for a long time, as the whole family found out but I have played it cool, never discuss it and carry on regardless. It's my life, not theirs. |
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over a year ago
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No way...it's nobody elses business. Swinging and family life are very much 2 separate things. I feel no need to shout about my sex life with anybody else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No way...it's nobody elses business. Swinging and family life are very much 2 separate things. I feel no need to shout about my sex life with anybody else."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My eldest knows ive been to swingers parties with my ex in the past and that i meet men for sex, but not the details and I don't actively discuss it with her. She does take the piss every now and then when one of those Channel 4 programmes pop up, so at least shes not too affected by it.
My youngest has accidentally fleetingly seen me on fab and told her friend at school that her mum should try fab too as I was on it...her and I were both on POF at the time so she innocently thought it was just a dating site...her friends Mum never mentioned it but shes probably on here anyway lol |
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I have never told my kids and I never would but I have a feeling my eldest two who are 20 and 22 suspect I meet men off the internet as they sometimes say things that makes me think they are looking for a reaction, I don't give them one and just carry on like I'm dumb to their comments, if they ever out right asked I wouldn't admit to anything |
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"I have never told my kids and I never would but I have a feeling my eldest two who are 20 and 22 suspect I meet men off the internet as they sometimes say things that makes me think they are looking for a reaction, I don't give them one and just carry on like I'm dumb to their comments, if they ever out right asked I wouldn't admit to anything "
Selective deafness is the way to go. They don't need to know. |
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over a year ago
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I have no interest in my parents sex life,there is no reason on earth why I'd want to tell my children despite them both being adults about ours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My son knows, were very close, I've even been known to drop him at one club as I go around the corner to another. Obviously we don't discuss details but I wouldn't have it any other way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No way...it's nobody elses business. Swinging and family life are very much 2 separate things. I feel no need to shout about my sex life with anybody else. "
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I think the problem is that whenever you see swingers on Jeremy Kyle or other things like that they are always portrayed as odd and usually they have found the oddest looking couples anyway so the normal perception of swingers is rather unfair so if our kids knew it would be difficult to explain without going into too much detail !! |
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"R's sons do, but they're in their 30s. They know what we mean when we say "please don't come round this weekend, we are having friends to stay" in other words you'll catch us all shagging! "
 On the wider topic, I can't see why anyone would broadcast about their sex lives to kids.....but I've known a few who've teenagers found out. |
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We would never tell, or want our kids to know about our private life.
Having said that, we very nearly got caught by one of them, and that was the very first night of us trying swinging, and I was in the throes of my first ever orgasm given to me by another woman!
One of the kids night out in town ended early, so rather than staying at their friends as arranged, they got a taxi home!!!!
Thankfully none of us had stripped completely, as it was like a scene out of a benny hill episode, having heard the key in the door, and all 3 of us running to the kitchen with clothes to put on!!!
So glad I insist on shoes off before coming in the lounge......that extra 20 seconds saved our blushes, and an awful lot of awkward questions!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They don't wish to know nothing... so keep it all well away from them if we ever go out . All older and like to think we are just one happy family here and we are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why the hell would they need to know "
when you go out for the night and need them to look after animals and you say clubbing and they think all over 35s should never seen at a club . lol you say adult club and they think eye eye , lol  |
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