"Sub girls are great.
However too many men think to be Dom means to "be nasty".
Good luck, though"
Thats the problem I've had in the past. Men thinking to be Dom means giving me a black eye.
He didn't find it so funny when I blackened the end of his cock with a very well aimed kick!!! |
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over a year ago
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Love kinky games its part of the fun at times ....make for very horny sex exploring the outer limits and living out fantasys can be very arousing. Sud Dom games, dressing up , Bondge spanking yes love all that fires up my sexual appetite. jo xxxxxx mrs g |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub girls are great.
However too many men think to be Dom means to "be nasty".
Good luck, though
Thats the problem I've had in the past. Men thinking to be Dom means giving me a black eye.
He didn't find it so funny when I blackened the end of his cock with a very well aimed kick!!! "
The current trend in "rough" porn has a lot to answer for! We once met a guy who "convinced" us he was a very experienced Dom. I was blindfold and tied and he said he was "going to fuck my mouth 'till I puked, just like the movies". He did this huge, fast quick thrusts as hard and deep as possible.
15 seconds later he was in a choke and arm hold and being shown the door.
Lifes fun! |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"I enjoy playing with submissive women....looking to chat with subs, couples and others interested in the area......lect  "
If your mainly after that sort of play and interaction Fab isn't the best site. There are some pretty good specialized ones if you look about. |
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while we are on this don't forget the women who demand every form of physical stimulation out, give you an earful about not being Dom enough for them, and bend your ear with their demands dressing up role play etc and then call themselves subs...I mean...Some people have some funny ideas about submission too |
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over a year ago
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"while we are on this don't forget the women who demand every form of physical stimulation out, give you an earful about not being Dom enough for them, and bend your ear with their demands dressing up role play etc and then call themselves subs...I mean...Some people have some funny ideas about submission too "
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I think that because obviously it states in the profiles that I am my Masters slave, that all the wannabe Doms contact us.. by that I mean those that think being dom is about forcing someone to do something, rough sex etc..
They are always quite put out when they realise that while I will happily with Masters consent play with dominant men, that the only domination that is given to me is from my Master.
There are to many out there that use the word Dom, to cover up their want to hit women.. I know, I see it often on the bdsm sites, young girls that are asking about how their Master/Dom is treating them.. it makes me want to scream..
Then again to me there is a big difference from being a sub in the bedroom to being how I am with my Master.. It always amuses me when people assume that I am a mindless weak beaten woman.. they are so far from the truth sometimes I dont even bother to answer them. lol
The fact is a true power exchange relationship, be it for fun, or a lifestyle choice, should be about mutual trust and respect.. I know at all times I am loved, protected and respected.. Yes I do chose to have submitted to someone elses will, if told to do something I will do it.. but the whole bit people dont get is that while I may at times be pushed to my limits, My Master has no will to break me... It would serve no purpose.
Yet still we get messages along the lines of " I am a dom guy, and want to come use and abuse your slut"
I dont even deal with these messages now, Master does it for me.. not beacuse I cant... ( as master finds it amusing when I bring them down a bit, and for a dom guy most are funnily very quick to back off from me) but because its about protecting me.
Sorry for the long post but just so many assume that submissive means just about the sex and being spanked etc.. its much more away of being..( well for 24/7 slaves like myself)
I conduct myself in a manner that would not cause my Master shame.. however, those that think I have no say in anything.. they would be so wrong, Master wants a woman that can think for herself, not a door mat.
I see the OP did not last long.. however its something that lots of guys seem to be looking for.. Sadly most dont realise being Dom, is not just about being able to bend a woman over and hold her down.. its about gaining respect and showing that they can think above the act..
Katie.. x |
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Agree with what Katie said
Any one into Sub /Dom Bdsm etc or is new to ot should may be go read 'Spare the roses, send me the thorns'
They may then get an idea at least of what such a relationship is all about |
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"I enjoy playing with submissive women....looking to chat with subs, couples and others interested in the area......lect "
not me but would not mind playing with one of them submissive wowmen you mentioned in the your title.
leads gratefully appeciated  |
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"while we are on this don't forget the women who demand every form of physical stimulation out, give you an earful about not being Dom enough for them, and bend your ear with their demands dressing up role play etc and then call themselves subs...I mean...Some people have some funny ideas about submission too "
I'm with you on that one. They want a Dom who does what he's told. It's a bit back to front  |
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"Some people have some funny ideas about submission too
I'm with you on that one. They want a Dom who does what he's told. It's a bit back to front "
Topping from the bottom is a common thing... not saying its wrong just depends on what they both want.
Katie x |
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"I think its nearly impossible to meet a Dom woman or couple on fab that want to meet a super kinky will do Anything to please submissive male  "
I see more dominant women on here than men.
Katie x |
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"I enjoy playing with submissive women....looking to chat with subs, couples and others interested in the area......lect
not me but would not mind playing with one of them submissive wowmen you mentioned in the your title.
leads gratefully appeciated "
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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago
The Land of Kink! |
"I think its nearly impossible to meet a Dom woman or couple on fab that want to meet a super kinky will do Anything to please submissive male
I see more dominant women on here than men.
Katie x "
I've emailed a few but it never gos anywhere I'm not sure if there as serious as they say they are xx |
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I've emailed a few but it never gos anywhere I'm not sure if there as serious as they say they are xx "
I think there are a few residing around the forums... we get plenty of message's from sub males, but its just not our thing.
We get lots of males who try to show master they are dominant and could meet me. But most haven't the first idea.
Katie |
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"I think its nearly impossible to meet a Dom woman or couple on fab that want to meet a super kinky will do Anything to please submissive male
I see more dominant women on here than men.
Katie x
I've emailed a few but it never gos anywhere I'm not sure if there as serious as they say they are xx "
We have all had a 'no'...doesn't in the least mean the person saying it isn't serious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'n not fully experienced in this myself! but theres rough sex where both participants have an understanding! and sometimes a secret word if it gets to much! alot of this i suppose comes with alot of experience! but like an earlier post said about rough porn! where in my view women are seen to be pretty much raped! i think maybe certain men may get influenced in the wrong way by this, because they like this they think there a dom! in my eyes no matter what you have to respect the other person!! |
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Sometimes Mart exercises his power over Lisa just by not letting her have sex when she wants it, sometimes its by holding her head just far enough away that she can't reach to kiss him, sometimes he gets her really sexually frustrated and wont bring her to orgasm and sometimes he has her tied up and completely helpless and keeps her coming until she begs him to stop.
There are all sorts of ways of being dom/sub, for us though it very rarely involves pain, some spanking, hot candlewax on her bum or the spikey wheel run over her body is about it for us, she likes to be frightened or helpless not injured. |
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"Being submissive is far more than submitting to rough sex.. its about power exchange..
A lot of men can be rough in bed, but not dominant. :D
Katie. x"
Exactly. Submission is just that. It's giving away your control willingly to another person. It's not an easy thing to do and involves absolute trust between the participants. The body and mind can be trained but only if the sub wishes it also. Your mind has to be open or it will never work. There is a dominant and a sub but neither will work without the other. I think many presume S&M and Dom/Sub are one and the same. They coincide sometimes, but some dom/sub relationships use no pain techniques whatsoever. Dom/Sub relationships are not just about rough sex. They're much more intense than that. |
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