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do looks really matter when swinging ? x
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over a year ago
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More so than in 'real life' I'd say.
I'm not here looking for a life partner. If I was then my criteria would be different.
Saying that, what we all consider good looking can vary... at least that's what I tell myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More so than in 'real life' I'd say.
I'm not here looking for a life partner. If I was then my criteria would be different."
Absolutely 100% this ^^^
You have to fancy them to shag them.
This is why I really don't understand all the pictureless profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.....is it me or was that a silly question?
(Or...having not looked...is the OP not much of a looker?)"
Maybe that was the point of this thread... just a way of driving traffic to his profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. Next.
And in other news a bear was seen defecating in the woods earlier today."
And the Vatican have confirmed that Pope Francis is indeed Catholic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What matters most is that you FANCY the people you're having sex with. Looks do matter to me, but that doesn't mean that a woman has to be a stunner in order for me to enjoy the experience. |
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I cannot believe what i,m about to say..
But I think there does have to be an element if chemistry.....
Personally I would feel comfortable if knowing i,m getting intimate who does,nt like me...
Also i,m sure i,d pick up that vibe in the act....
Ha ha especially if I have to wake her up lol..
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[qte]??p In most cases yes but must also have personality and the right attitude . I was wondering why you asked the question as I thought that the answer would be obvious or is the question to drive traffic to your profile . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simply.........yes.
We want to find the people we play with attractive and want them in turn to find us the same. Can't find a chemistry if there's no attraction for us. |
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Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
Not on here...no.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attraction is what's important and that's not always about looks. "
I think a couple of Women I chat to like my personality more then my looks,
Sexual attraction can be about more then looks but you must have something about you to start with,
(In my opinion) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
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Not for me it can't. If i don't find someone attractive then i don't want them to touch me.
This is why some people end up called creepy when making advances, and others are called flirts. The only difference tends to be the creep is unattractive to the person being persued. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
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Not this one you have to get to the touching phase first by having attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
Not for me it can't. If i don't find someone attractive then i don't want them to touch me.
This is why some people end up called creepy when making advances, and others are called flirts. The only difference tends to be the creep is unattractive to the person being persued."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not at all as far as I'm concerned.
I normally email any prospective NSA partners a small selection of simple logic based puzzles.
I then use this data to pick out the person upon whose face I will eventually spunk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
Not this one you have to get to the touching phase first by having attraction. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are plenty on here who view women as little more than a free escort. I suspect people with that sort of mentality don't care too much for attraction.
Likewise when a profile covers all bases, or seeks nothing more than a bi-female, I suspect that the definition of attraction is a possibly quite liberal.
Doubt anyone would admit to it on the forums though! |
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
Not for me it can't. If i don't find someone attractive then i don't want them to touch me.
This is why some people end up called creepy when making advances, and others are called flirts. The only difference tends to be the creep is unattractive to the person being persued."
Think the term " creep" is a bit harsh.....
In terms of percentages those not all who make advances on you will be desirable by you...
Surely they are doing what is natural....
Does,nt make them creeps.... This only comes into play if they ignore your NO!! Or FUCK OFF UGLY... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of course looks are important but someone I find attractive may not be attractive to everyone else. As much as I like a handsome or pretty face I am attracted to different looking people. Mostly because they have an interesting mind or personality. I don't want model looks and an icy personality. I certainly don't want an ego with no soul. I've been with many variations of a look,I like what I like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For us it's not necessarily looks but there has to be "something". We have out tastes and preferences of course but the naughty spark is what does it for us |
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I met a man a few years back,he was an albino with a very hairy body. Extremely intelligent and very caring. It wasn't an overly sexual relationship,we were more like friends than lovers. He thought he had to have a muscular body to attract women; I only saw a face pic when I first started to talk to him. His body was covered in thick golden hair which I loved. He had a little piece of my heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course looks are important but someone I find attractive may not be attractive to everyone else. As much as I like a handsome or pretty face I am attracted to different looking people. Mostly because they have an interesting mind or personality. I don't want model looks and an icy personality. I certainly don't want an ego with no soul. I've been with many variations of a look,I like what I like "
This exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though this subject throws up another issue for me...
We all know males mostly draw on physical and visual attraction....
Women seem a little more complexed..... can a females attraction be heightened on tactile touch and responses from a fella if initially visually atraction is low??
Not for me it can't. If i don't find someone attractive then i don't want them to touch me.
This is why some people end up called creepy when making advances, and others are called flirts. The only difference tends to be the creep is unattractive to the person being persued.
Think the term " creep" is a bit harsh.....
In terms of percentages those not all who make advances on you will be desirable by you...
Surely they are doing what is natural....
Does,nt make them creeps.... This only comes into play if they ignore your NO!! Or FUCK OFF UGLY... "
Google "the difference between attractive and creepy", you'll get what i mean. But yeah being a creep is the actions, attractiveness can affect how a person feels about how creepy a guy is, it's part of whether the advances are desirable or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So all you people who have said yes, even a guy or woman who is attractive but has a personality of a brick"
For a one nighter, yes. I even have that on my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mostly do overnights. So a good personality is a must if you are going to spend a all night with someone. That's why I tend to chat a while before I meet xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been thinking about this, if you sat me down in a room full of people. I would obviously be drawn to those who, visually are attractive to me. Give me an hour to chat with them, and my mind I should say would more than likely change.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do you know what? It depends entirely on the situation...on a one to one basis...absolutely they do, as people have said, there has to be an attraction, some kind of connection, however tentative..
However, put me in the zone at a party or club and stick a cock or pussy in my face and I'm probably going to suck or lick it if it ain't hideous...I'm unlikely to go so far as to fuck them though... |
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I can go right off someone within seconds if they talk funny, smell peculiar, I don't like the way their hair is done, but the final clincher is: can he kiss and when he does, does the earth move? If not, no go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have to be sexually attracted to someone...whether thats looks/personality. I can be just as turned on by someones personality as I am to someone who is extremely good looking.
Unfortunately I'm quite bad on here...If I don't find you very attractive from your face pics I probably wouldn't bother to find out what your personality is like.
This is partly the reason why I prefer to go to Meet and greet/parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think about it this way,
All the Women that I come into contact with but I don't find attractive, For similar reasons a Woman who I'm attracted to doesn't find me attractive 
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"I've been thinking about this, if you sat me down in a room full of people. I would obviously be drawn to those who, visually are attractive to me. Give me an hour to chat with them, and my mind I should say would more than likely change. "
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"I've been thinking about this, if you sat me down in a room full of people. I would obviously be drawn to those who, visually are attractive to me. Give me an hour to chat with them, and my mind I should say would more than likely change. "
Then also if you end up talking to someone you don't really find attractive you can be interested in their personality. Most people have something sexy about their body somewhere that turns you on. |
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"More so than in 'real life' I'd say.
I'm not here looking for a life partner. If I was then my criteria would be different.
Saying that, what we all consider good looking can vary... at least that's what I tell myself "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Looks can be down to the way someone moves or smiles which is impossible to tell from a photograph.
Even the way someone talks can be sexy, or not.
Personality is important.
But how someone's mind works is probably the deal breaker for me.
And luckily what's good looking to some, isn't good looking to others so there's hope out there for us all.
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Yep. I've gotta be attracted to someone to want to fuck them. And on here where a couple of pics and a short message are the first impressions then yeah looks are very important. I don't mean every guy has to be a muscly model type but the attraction has to be there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think whether your swinging or not is important sex is sex and you woulsnt walk round in the real wold looking for someone you didn't fancy to shag, so why would you on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think whether your swinging or not is important sex is sex and you woulsnt walk round in the real wold looking for someone you didn't fancy to shag, so why would you on here "
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Looks can be the initial attraction but for me its the personality that keeps me interested. I cant just meet someone and fuck them, I like a bit of chat and a laugh, to do that you have to have an engaging personality. |
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"Looks can be the initial attraction but for me its the personality that keeps me interested. I cant just meet someone and fuck them, I like a bit of chat and a laugh, to do that you have to have an engaging personality."
I totally agree sandy xx
For me its the real life chemistry not the superficial pseduo pictures and on line personnas that make a great meet which is still different to swinging xx
Believe me many of my males friends will give an amazing veri to a lady but say when they got there didnt fancy them but thought they might as well shag her as there !!!
Harsh but true... Guess the prove is whether they d meet you again..
But if you embrace the lifestyle .. then its definatley the combination of looks , chemistry, personality that make the perfect swing playmates xx |
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I would say yes when its swinging but i go into another mode when shooting films as sometimes you may not be attracted to the person, saying this i have had some of my best sex with people who i wouldn't usually choose when swinging. |
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guess ppl have different tastes....