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in a swing club.do you prefer orgy room or private room?
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A lot of couples prefer private room to orgy room.reason. in a orgy room a lot of onlookers and uninvited guest.very intimidating to some female's and couples. As for me .I don't mind. What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why go to a club to swing in private I prefer open rooms where u can join in if agreed .We are all swingers so be open .I'd love to find a club that you just do it where u sit and everyone is at it
Much more interesting |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Our favourite rooms are the invitation only rooms where, as a couple, we can invite one (or a few!) single men to join us whilst sometimes playing with other couples around us. At La Chambre these rooms are open to view - and it's always fun to have an audience....as long as they aren't too noisy. |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
The Dungeon |
Both are fine with us.
Private room for something more intimate, orgy room for when we want more to join in. There's something about group sex that's just so .... 
Our first orgy was an accident (initially 2 couples + us, large room at abfabs, we left the door open as it was so hot inside and others just came in, watched and other couples joined in  ) All out others have since been planned to some degree either at clubs or hotels.
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"A lot of couples prefer private room to orgy room.reason. in a orgy room a lot of onlookers and uninvited guest.very intimidating to some female's and couples. As for me .I don't mind. What do you think?"
I like the third option you haven't mentioned, the couples room. Cupids have a good one. The one at Amour is nice but last time we were there it needed a sign on the door. My OH doesn't mind so much playing on an open bed but we have had to ask uninvited men not to touch her. As for me, I think I am biologically hard wired to get all protective when there are single men standing just a couple of feet away, sometimes wanking. They must think they are on a porn set.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the parties I've been to, I've seen the argument for private room encounters play out. By that I mean, I've seen people start to play and some of the onlookers start to get involved uninvited.
On an occasion, it led to the onlookers (minus one) being told to skidaddle and the door locked. I did laugh. Lol
I've also been the guy who lost out on full play when onlookers decided to get involved in play I was having uninvited.
So whilst I'm still open to either kind, I appreciate the argument for private play more. |
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We love to be watched. In the pool at Infusion or Partners or on an open bed.
It's the thrill of openly giving a BJ in the bar or being undressed where you stand.
You can do this in a club quite safely. Where else in the world?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to go into a room with my partner of the day and have some time to ourselves, but really get turned on when I know someone is watching and I'm just waiting for that first touch of a strange hand on my body Mmmmm great sensation. |
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"Why go to a club to swing in private I prefer open rooms where u can join in if agreed ... "
 for us most of the time, the same - we are at a club to make the most of it.
Regarding males who stand around in a circle wanking, many are limited to only that activity and are doing no harm - many are nice folk when you chat with them - sometimes we say / invite them "go ahead and wank if you want" if any seem shy about getting on with it. We tend to add "please don't crowd too close and don't spray spunk over us". A common request we and others make is preemptively asking them to put their locker key around their ankles so there isn't the sound like sleigh-bells or Alpine cattle "come the moment"
Lots of activities go on at a club - so for us it's "social" play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why go to a club to swing in private I prefer open rooms where u can join in if agreed .We are all swingers so be open .I'd love to find a club that you just do it where u sit and everyone is at it
Much more interesting "
We often have sex just where we sit when we go to Chams, lots of booths, bar stools good height for BJs etc  |
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Open rooms/couples rooms.
Open rooms are fine, if you tell the guys that they are welcome to watch and not touch until asked to do so. Many respect this, but you still get the odd one chancing his luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u like private I think u need to stay in hotel n not club"
So if I want to go to a club and meet new people, the quid pro quo is that I have to be willing to perform in front of everyone regardless of whether I want to? I think not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u like private I think u need to stay in hotel n not club"
I disagree
I love the atmosphere and the social aspects of clubs,I like dressing up,I like dancing and I like chatting to a mixture of people
Just because I don't always want to fuck in front of an audience it doesn't mean I shouldn't be there
Plus there are only a couple of my longterm playmates who I'm happy spending hours with in a hotel room and I'm not booking a hotel for a meet that only lasts a couple of hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I am biologically hard wired to get all protective when there are single men standing just a couple of feet away, sometimes wanking. They must think they are on a porn set.
Him "
So... wanking in public is like being on a porn set, but having sex in public is not? |
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I like private room if I need to go dirty and kinky.ok with orgy room if I need to become an exhibitionist lol.what I hate is uninvited hands crawling around. To me that is disrespectful and degrading. I don't mind people looking or wanking that's their choice. forceful and pushy attitude ruined most chances for honest and decent single guys in swing club.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried both and prefer a private room. I hate feeling like I'm putting on a show. I can also get a little absorbed in what I'm doing and on a few occasions males have joined in without me noticing. As a single fem, I need to look after myself and a locked room gives me that option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends who I'm with and my mood...hoping to go to eureka daytime soon....and hopefully open room "
daytime at eureaka in the summer we love to play down the meadow, open field sun and fresh air, lots of watchers and players |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends who I'm with and my mood...hoping to go to eureka daytime soon....and hopefully open room
daytime at eureaka in the summer we love to play down the meadow, open field sun and fresh air, lots of watchers and players "
unfortunately its way too cold at the moment but hopefully I will get to do that too one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends who I'm with and my mood...hoping to go to eureka daytime soon....and hopefully open room
daytime at eureaka in the summer we love to play down the meadow, open field sun and fresh air, lots of watchers and players unfortunately its way too cold at the moment but hopefully I will get to do that too one day "
hope you do one day you will love it ,cant wait for the pool to open again in the meantime we spend our time in the hot tubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends? Both and neither lol...
We enjoy people watching, it makes it much more hotter. We don't like people just randomly joining in because it can be a bit of a lottery, sometimes it's nice people and sometimes not, so we like to chat to people beforehand. We have been stung before with horrible people, but oddly it's always been the males... We were with one couple once and the girl was lovely, very caring, open, asked what we liked, you know, lovely. Then her other half decided he didn't want to sit out and joined in... Took over totally, called Gav fat, laughed about his cock, told her to not go near "it", then called me frigid because i didn't want to have sex with him... Utter twat.
So if it comes down to it we vasty prefer chatting to people and getting to know them first before moving onto a private room. C x |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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When we go Chams we like to go on the round bedand see where it goes, if we meet up with another couple we go off to a private room. We don't go on the round bed if it isn't a Saturday as we get fed up with the swarms of single men following every move.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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both - sometimes the private rooms are all busy but space on the bigger beds - doesnt mean you have to play with a crowd - we have simply swapped partners on the big bed and nothing else
- if we were with people who were shy and wanted to be more private we would go into a room (or invite them to ours at a later date)  Sx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Equally happy to do both. Love putting on a show hate wandering uninvited hands but not afraid to dent some egos and say no.
Also happy to go to a private room and have some fun that sometimes outside the norm just between us. |
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"When we go Chams we like to go on the round bedand see where it goes, if we meet up with another couple we go off to a private room. We don't go on the round bed if it isn't a Saturday as we get fed up with the swarms of single men following every move.
Dave "
We've used the round bed on both Saturday and Sunday...both were good...Saturday with couples joining in, Sunday with single guys watching, which we were happy with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer private rooms, I get very self conscious if people just stand watching me and that affects my performance, I prefer to be in a situation where everyone in the room is playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to be watched so the orgy rooms are great but my favourite has to be the camera room, it's private but broadcasted to the whole club. Amazing staring in my own live porn |
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Like both but it depends what I want to do.
Orgy rooms are fun, the scum can be good riotous fun.
But if I want to explore myself and my sexuality with other like minded peps then the private room provided the space to indulge those intimate explorations at a place that comfortable for all concerned and without interruption nor interference, and ensures the enhanced intimacy I need and the others need to hopefully reach fulfilment.
So I guess it depends on: 1) the mood 2) what you feel like doing at the time. |
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We prefer the orgy rooms. We have many good memories of the round bed room at chams
On the bi night it's been so good when there are couples playing all over the room. Constantly swapping from girl to guy. Women playing with women, men on men. Watching others while having a break and then being watched.
Oh my |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Private room. Remember at one club went in to a room at 12 i think and couldn't stop fucking til about half 2. Then carried on in the jacuzzi and then back at the hotel for more til around 8am.
...don't know where all that energy came from but i knew that knowing others were either hearing or close by knowing what was happening was turning me on like no other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only play in private rooms"
This is how we play at clubs now
We used to play on the open beds but from a couple of experiences decided private is better |
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