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vanilla people making me laugh

By *ampWithABrain OP Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Was just on a erm parenting site and came across a 'sex tips please' thread and cried laughing, they'd have a heart attack if they read here!! Some had never heard of cock rings, thought wearing stockings in bed going 'too far' and using hot drinks/ice cubes as part of a bj revelationary

Are our vanilla friends really so unaware of the pleasures to be had in bed?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

haha i often think this about me and the ex - but if youve never had it or known anything different that is how it would be -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife was like until until we met. Now shes lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own. Dont think its a case of being segregated though. Plenty of men on here and women may i add who arent as broad minded or informed as you may think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will hold my hands up and say that it was only last year I learned what vanilla meant in sex terms! There have been various other terms, such as cuckolding, that I hadn't heard of until we joined here but I would definitely not have said that our sex life was vanilla

Hids

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By *ech2Couple over a year ago

taunton

One of our friends wont evan go in to ann summers as its classed as a naughty shop lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't done any of this in bed. I do go in Ann Summers though

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By *lanwoodMan over a year ago

Alton

"My wife was like until until we met. Now shes lots of fun."

My wife still is.

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By *ampWithABrain OP Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Less what they were saying as how. Then saw another thread today on sex toys, one saying vibrator use 'immoral' ??

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By *he WickedsCouple over a year ago

Swingtown

"Less what they were saying as how. Then saw another thread today on sex toys, one saying vibrator use 'immoral' ??

The giving of pleasure can never be wrong, whether its to oneself or another.

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By *apasmurfkingMan over a year ago

not so Littlehampton

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"haha i often think this about me and the ex - but if youve never had it or known anything different that is how it would be -

I agree with that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats what my wife says, she didnt know any different before she met me.

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By *4nc3rCouple over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

This so much.

We used toys/lingerie right from the start of our sexual relationship (baring I mind we were 18 & 15 and both virgins before that)

I just don't really know what makes some people so informed and others so clueless.

I remember at a general party we had everyone was a bit d*unk and conversation about sex toys came up - I proudly proclaimed I had just been sent a new toy to test out and our friends wanted to go through our collection and see what was there, Not one to be shy I let them and the look on their faces was priceless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. Dont think its a case of being segregated though. Plenty of men on here and women may i add who arent as broad minded or informed as you may think."

I've commented before on how prudish some people were on here and response was we're not all weirdos you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the 50 shades factor has helped people become more liberal when it comes to sex. But there is still a long way to go especially in this country. It still makes me chuckle when I think of my ex and other family members passing round the 50 shades books and being shocked by it. Especially when previous girlfriend introduced me to watersports

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny.... I have to stop myself when out with friends from work who think a sexy massage is a bit full on!!! Few wines later and their eyes tend to pop out with my suggestions...lol

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"Was just on a erm parenting site and came across a 'sex tips please' thread and cried laughing, they'd have a heart attack if they read here!! Some had never heard of cock rings, thought wearing stockings in bed going 'too far' and using hot drinks/ice cubes as part of a bj revelationary

Are our vanilla friends really so unaware of the pleasures to be had in bed?"

Comes across as a bit of a sneery post to be honest - different strokes etc etc

Many people have a varied and exciting sex life without recourse to swinging sites and sex aids .....maybe not us, but lots do !! Remember we're the first to cry foul when other folks sneer at swingers....

Me 2-4

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't think all vanilla people are like that, I agree some are but just because their not swingers doesn't mean they have a boring sex life

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By *uestandpinkCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"I will hold my hands up and say that it was only last year I learned what vanilla meant in sex terms! There have been various other terms, such as cuckolding, that I hadn't heard of until we joined here but I would definitely not have said that our sex life was vanilla

Hids"

Same here, i didnt have a clue what half of it meant. I even thought watersports meant shagging in the shower!

How green i was then!

Pink

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Vanilla shock factor will be re emerging as they all go to see the 50 Shades film and discuss how kinky it is being told what to do or to tie her hands with ribbons and blindfold her!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

depends what you think vanilla is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Vanilla people are only vanilla because us kinksters haven't got to them yet

So do not criticise them, but look at yourself for slacking.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you have to remember also it was a parenting website. ....I've never joined one of them, that's all I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

theres always some one less vanilla than you

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Vanilla people are only vanilla because us kinksters haven't got to them yet

So do not criticise them, but look at yourself for slacking....."

Hmm, but on the other hand some of us actually know exactly what we like, and have a wonderful time without needing any kinky fuckery!! Earthy sensuality is much more exciting to me....horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Vanilla people are only vanilla because us kinksters haven't got to them yet

So do not criticise them, but look at yourself for slacking.....

Neigh......I cannot agree..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the stuff people say on here make me laugh,

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By *r dominatingCouple over a year ago

sunny manchester

Omg sad people me an the wife love trying new things the latest is hot candle wax that turns into oil so you can give an all over body massage while doing this cherry is awesome Mmmmmmm love it on cock also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are our vanilla friends really so unaware of the pleasures to be had in bed?"

Guess the thought of a fizzy bj would give them a heart attack then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oooh

mikki sits n ponders what flavour she is

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Vanilla people are only vanilla because us kinksters haven't got to them yet

So do not criticise them, but look at yourself for slacking.....

Neigh......I cannot agree..

Boo-hiss!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People I work with think I'm a sexual deviant. We're all girls and sex obviously gets brought up and they are so in the dark about stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ud b suprised how many vanilla people are kinky n save face lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are our vanilla friends really so unaware of the pleasures to be had in bed?

Comes across as a bit of a sneery post to be honest - different strokes etc etc

Me 2-4

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People I work with think I'm a sexual deviant. We're all girls and sex obviously gets brought up and they are so in the dark about stuff. "
People in work... the other day I left the room because I felt uncomfortable when "the girls" started talking about who had taken the most enormous sized cook.

I am VERY happy with them having an image of me being pruder than prude, very.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks, you all beat me to it!

"Ud b suprised how many vanilla people are kinky n save face lol"

"Each to their own. Dont think its a case of being segregated though. Plenty of men on here and women may i add who arent as broad minded or informed as you may think."

"I don't think all vanilla people are like that, I agree some are but just because their not swingers doesn't mean they have a boring sex life"

"theres always some one less vanilla than you"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we have always had great sex before we joined here,we joined to see if we could learn more and mix with others, what did supprised us is how many peeps are involved in swinging , so we now feel quite normal

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