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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont have that many veri`s 
To be fair four meets in four weeks is quite a lot 
Omg is it?? Really?    "
Haha if thats a lot then im screwed lol!!
I like the battered look of my bedpost though  |
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Very odd response from the bloke. It's a swinging site not a dating one! I wouldn't expect a monogamous relationship at all on here. I have met a lovely lady on here a few times but I certainly don't begrudge her having other meets. It actually turns me on thinking and hearing about them.
Sounds like he needs to seriously loosen up and relax. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"Averaging one meet a week isn't lots does he expect you to be a nun or he could of been all talk and using it as an excuse"
Agree this, averaging a meet per week is not excessive, especially as there will be times when you don't have so many. Sounds like cold feet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a meet planned for tomorrow night, with a guy off here who lives in my town and and someone who I actually know through friends..anyways he was wanting a meet so I agreed..and anyway, I get a message tonight, asking if I was always on here? And he then said he wanted to cancel our meet as he didnt fancy being another notch on my bedpost
I dont have that many veri`s "
I humbly suggest that, perhaps, his attractions to you may have come, initially, from the mutual friendships and not Fab. Did he know you were on Fab before he knew you through friends?
He may actually be looking for more than just physical fun, he may have been interested in a relationship.
Certainly the 'notch on your bedpost' comment supports that theory. Perhaps he concluded that he wanted more than you would be willing to give and decided to save the mutual embarrassment and his own heartache?
Have to say that I am somewhat disappointed with the responses some have made to this post. If this guy knew her as a mutual friend first and was therefore looking for a more mainstream encounter then he has probably saved them both some degree of pain and should be applauded for his foresight, not ridiculed!
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By (user no longer on site)
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You should have messaged him back saying "its ok, I had to get new bed posts last week as the last ones were ruined...you'll be the first one on these!!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My bed post is that notched, i had to get the wood worm an A to Z to find there way round.
Also if you look closely my bed post resembles a scene from brave heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont have that many veri`s
To be fair four meets in four weeks is quite a lot "
. Is it hell... It's a swingers site.. You go girl and have sex with as many people you feel comfy with and if a guy can't understand that then get shut.....simples... . We are all here for the same thing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont have that many veri`s
To be fair four meets in four weeks is quite a lot
Omg is it?? Really?
No its not. I've had 4 meets in 2 days before now lol"
You should be congratulated. Lots of men moan about the male to female ratio and how they can't get a meet. It's only because ladies like you go above and beyond the call of duty that the balance is slightly redressed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a meet planned for tomorrow night, with a guy off here who lives in my town and and someone who I actually know through friends..anyways he was wanting a meet so I agreed..and anyway, I get a message tonight, asking if I was always on here? And he then said he wanted to cancel our meet as he didnt fancy being another notch on my bedpost
I dont have that many veri`s I humbly suggest that, perhaps, his attractions to you may have come, initially, from the mutual friendships and not Fab. Did he know you were on Fab before he knew you through friends?
He may actually be looking for more than just physical fun, he may have been interested in a relationship.
Certainly the 'notch on your bedpost' comment supports that theory. Perhaps he concluded that he wanted more than you would be willing to give and decided to save the mutual embarrassment and his own heartache?
Have to say that I am somewhat disappointed with the responses some have made to this post. If this guy knew her as a mutual friend first and was therefore looking for a more mainstream encounter then he has probably saved them both some degree of pain and should be applauded for his foresight, not ridiculed!
G"
I met him through friends a couple of months ago when I was out on a night out n had a drink n chat with him..seemed an ok guy but he didnt seem particularly interested in me.. then he contacted me on here.. etc etc
I think to be fair,it sounds like he got nervous..and he is definitely not the settling down type..
Fair enough but why make me feel bad for having a good time?
Maybe im a Brazen hussy after all? (I wish)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You should have messaged him back saying "its ok, I had to get new bed posts last week as the last ones were ruined...you'll be the first one on these!!" "
Love this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You should have messaged him back saying "its ok, I had to get new bed posts last week as the last ones were ruined...you'll be the first one on these!!" "
Haha!!
I was going to suggest double standards. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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this is one of the classic threads that if posted by a man, the replies would be an avalanche from women saying 'she is allowed to change her mind and she has had a lucky escape' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps he read you want to explore more of your domme side and decided it was not for him. For some the idea excites but the reality is more than they can cope with. |
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"this is one of the classic threads that if posted by a man, the replies would be an avalanche from women saying 'she is allowed to change her mind and she has had a lucky escape'"
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