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over a year ago
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I Jez was watching a documentary about women who have surgery to shall we say tidy up their vagina. This was based on their perception or their partners perception that they felt their vagina looked ugly.Now for me I don't care if a women's labia are of Un equal size etc as I really feel someone's personality is so much more important. So what are your thoughts ladies and gentlemen? . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I Jez was watching a documentary about women who have surgery to shall we say tidy up their vagina. This was based on their perception or their partners perception that they felt their vagina looked ugly.Now for me I don't care if a women's labia are of Un equal size etc as I really feel someone's personality is so much more important. So what are your thoughts ladies and gentlemen? ."
I've got lips.
They swell when aroused and the guy I meet
likes sucking on them.
Oh and my vagina has lips too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think its really sad to be homest, I don't know if this is an appropriate thing to say no doubt someone will give me a bollocking for it but I have a daughter who 22 who has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin because she feels she don't look normal down there, it saddens me to think so women are made to feel so paranoid about their bits they would consider surgery, we are all different but all normal |
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"I think its really sad to be homest, I don't know if this is an appropriate thing to say no doubt someone will give me a bollocking for it but I have a daughter who 22 who has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin because she feels she don't look normal down there, it saddens me to think so women are made to feel so paranoid about their bits they would consider surgery, we are all different but all normal "
That is very sad that your daughter feels that way. I agree women shold not be made to feel that way. |
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"I think its really sad to be homest, I don't know if this is an appropriate thing to say no doubt someone will give me a bollocking for it but I have a daughter who 22 who has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin because she feels she don't look normal down there, it saddens me to think so women are made to feel so paranoid about their bits they would consider surgery, we are all different but all normal "
Agree. All are gorgeous in their own right. I'm sorry to hear your daughter had such a confidence issue. That's a real shame. I hope she overcomes this and begins to enjoy a fulfilling sex life.
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There was a time in the '70's when publishing pics in girlie magazines started to show the vagina and it seemed to me, with inexperienced eyes, that a chainsaw had been used to make them look red and raw. Thank goodness things have improved such that certain artists have taken mouldings of vaginas and made them into wall friezes - illustrating the sheer variety of shapes and sizes. |
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Once heard an aussie comedian say he loved big labia when performing oral sex, said it was like ten pin bowling with the rails up... still giggle when I think of that x |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"I think its really sad to be homest, I don't know if this is an appropriate thing to say no doubt someone will give me a bollocking for it but I have a daughter who 22 who has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin because she feels she don't look normal down there, it saddens me to think so women are made to feel so paranoid about their bits they would consider surgery, we are all different but all normal "
TV,celebrity and the media have so much to answer for, as does the porn industry to a degree.
The pressure on young people to have a certain body or way of doing things is ridiculous.
I truly hope your daughter is able to find contentment with her body and find someone who will accept her for all the wonderful she is. Has she considered counselling and/ or ways to enhance her confidence?
I have uneven labia, but it has never been an issue and until recently I hadn't even given much consideration to what people may think of them. I am slowly learning to love all of my body and that actually however they look our bodies are all pretty amazing. |
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for some reason the idea of having lips like a teenage girl is what everyone wants. I prefer a womans vagina to look like it belongs to a woman. I think they are beautiful, and it is a shame that society seems to see it different  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I Jez was watching a documentary about women who have surgery to shall we say tidy up their vagina. This was based on their perception or their partners perception that they felt their vagina looked ugly.Now for me I don't care if a women's labia are of Un equal size etc as I really feel someone's personality is so much more important. So what are your thoughts ladies and gentlemen? ."
God help any guy who told me mine was ugly. He'd need a really good dentist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I used to think I was 'abnormal' as I would not be as neat as others in that department, at work we all (girls) would've sat around and chatted about sex/men but whenever the topic of vaginas came up I would be called strange or weird cos when I described mine as not being 'tidy' the girls would all agree they had perfect 'slits' with nothing on show. It was really only through watching porn I discovered how many different types there are and all unique!! Variety is the spice of life eh?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All vaginas are different and unique. I have no preferences. Anyone who makes horrible comments about people's genitals isn't worth meeting.
Yes the media once again tell people what is normal... There's no such thing. Normal is a spectrum that goes from one extreme to the other.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All vaginas are different and unique. I have no preferences. Anyone who makes horrible comments about people's genitals isn't worth meeting.
Yes the media once again tell people what is normal... There's no such thing. Normal is a spectrum that goes from one extreme to the other. "
Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I Jez was watching a documentary about women who have surgery to shall we say tidy up their vagina. This was based on their perception or their partners perception that they felt their vagina looked ugly.Now for me I don't care if a women's labia are of Un equal size etc as I really feel someone's personality is so much more important. So what are your thoughts ladies and gentlemen? ."
Do I prefer a certain look? Yes. Would I turn down a girl I really liked at the last minute because it was overly flappy? No. Would have to be an idiot to. |
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I (R. (male)) love natural vaginas and cunts in their natural form, however resplendent that may be.
It saddens me so much hearing of surgery cutting away beautiful labial lips, shrinking a woman's vagina to some borderline-pubescent feature, etc. In fact - I find all this stuff creepy - I shudder trying thinking of what sort of man (?!) would be attracted to this. When I meet a woman I want her to be a woman in every way including having a sexual grown woman's cunt.
I wish there was something we could do for the contributor whose daughter is scarred by this "pre-pubescent image" and "designer vaginas". When people get into swinging, you see anything and everything and realise there's a whole spectrum out there, including what cunts are like - and all are beautiful and have their appropriate number of admirers.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Man to woman: "you are very red down there, have I made you sore?
Woman to man: "Did you know that historically a woman would wear red lipstick to mimic the state of an aroused vagina?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Man to woman: "you are very red down there, have I made you sore?
Woman to man: "Did you know that historically a woman would wear red lipstick to mimic the state of an aroused vagina?"
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My teacher told me that too |
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"I for one don't feel one vagina looks better than another.But that's my feeling. Of course I respect others may have different views. "
Are you blind? Some look lovely and delicious and very lickable, some look like a side of beef. Equally Annie thinks some cocks look lovely and scrummy, and some look bloody awful. Or weird. Or both!
We can't help what we've got, but we can tidy it up a bit.
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A ladies pussy is lovely. I think odour is a bigger issue. A tasty, sweet pussy is lovely.
Nobody should be ashamed about the appearance of their pussy. If a bloke is put off by the appearance then they aren't terribly good lovers.
Understanding the ladies feelings in playing with their clits, the entrance to their pussies, their G-Spots, and arseholes is the most important aspect. Making a lady feel appreciated and responsive is an art form, not an exception! |
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"Once heard an aussie comedian say he loved big labia when performing oral sex, said it was like ten pin bowling with the rails up... still giggle when I think of that x"
Thats brilliant!! guna nick that saying  |
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