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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I've recently found out how much I enjoy the dominatrix role on my boyfriend spanking and punishing him but I'm quite a novice at it still I wouldn't mind a few pointers on canes and other spanking toys to use also maybe another sub to practice on along side him |
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"I have spanking on my bucket list for this year. Hand and cane pique my interests more. Just need to find the right guy."
It's great fun and I agree with you, you need to find the right person.
And OP, lots of good offers/prices at the moment if you want to treat yourself 
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
"I know this sounds a tad daft, however there are a lot of aspects to spanking; anticipation, fractionation as well as physical stimulus.
Oh nearly forgot, great fun too. Well for us.  "
Yes that is why I want to get it right. I want to experience it all. |
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I found the best place to learn was a bdsm club. where on a quieter night the house dom took me under her wing and first have me receive, before I gave it out. That way you'll respect the sub and not abuse them. It's all about trust. I feel very honoured that the subs I've used let me. I've got to know them quite well now. X |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
"I have spanking on my bucket list for this year. Hand and cane pique my interests more. Just need to find the right guy.
To be or to do Lola?"
To be. I have sub in me but only so far one person has managed to get to it. I'm not into role playing I want to experience this for real.Part of that is spanking. |
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"A hand held rubber flogger is nice - leather can look & feel a bit cheap and the rubberised ones have a bit more control for a novice."
Funny I found it the other way round. But each to there own. Also I find that the leather floggers give a nice sensation when they are stroked over a backside |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"A hand held rubber flogger is nice - leather can look & feel a bit cheap and the rubberised ones have a bit more control for a novice.
Funny I found it the other way round. But each to there own. Also I find that the leather floggers give a nice sensation when they are stroked over a backside "
Reason I prefer paddles with a hard leather side and a soft furry reverse. |
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"i have found that some chopping boards, you can get from your local supermarket, make great paddles "
we have used most, we have one cane thats over 10 years old, will pop it on photos so you can see, as to table tennis bats last about one hour..stinging nettles are nice if you don't want the neighbours to listen in..lol..connie x |
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"I have spanking on my bucket list for this year. Hand and cane pique my interests more. Just need to find the right guy."
I really don't think you're going to have a problem finding volunteers.
(Steps forward) 0/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I've recently found out how much I enjoy the dominatrix role on my boyfriend spanking and punishing him but I'm quite a novice at it still I wouldn't mind a few pointers on canes and other spanking toys to use also maybe another sub to practice on along side him "
You can never be a truly good 'domme' unless you've been a sub. Just my opinion...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a electro-pulse machine (Re-engineered off a slim tone thingy), been thinking of modifying one of the electrodes so it works on a paddle. The other electrode would be clipped to"
Clipped to?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a electro-pulse machine (Re-engineered off a slim tone thingy), been thinking of modifying one of the electrodes so it works on a paddle. The other electrode would be clipped to"
You have mail |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I have a electro-pulse machine (Re-engineered off a slim tone thingy), been thinking of modifying one of the electrodes so it works on a paddle. The other electrode would be clipped to
Clipped to??"
He he........... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have a look round for a website called "Jack's Floggers", his are regarded in the kink scene as being some of the best in the UK. Not very expensive either. If you give him a call or see him at one of the fetish fairs he can provide you with excellent advice.
I have a whole set of canes from him with matching leather bound handles - beautiful! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wasnt embarrassed just didnt know this post was on and couldnt understand why one pic would get so many messages ...believe me he is in trouble ...if he told me before I would of found it funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasnt embarrassed just didnt know this post was on and couldnt understand why one pic would get so many messages ...believe me he is in trouble ...if he told me before I would of found it funny"
Red sky at night, Domino's bf arse on fire  |
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