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over a year ago
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As an experience worldly wise lady i must admit i had not heard this term before,PEGGING.While at the hairdressers yesterday i was reading a copy of cosmo and it was an article on pegging in the bedroom??? what on earth is it i thought? and for those like me who have never heard the term before it is when a woman has the desire to pleasure her husband , male partner with a strap-on .The reporter went in to detail saying she had long held a fantasy to pleasure her male partner with a strap-on , she went on to say in a recent survey 70% of women had at one time held that fantasy as it gives them the dominant hand in the bedroom . she goes on to say it took her an age to pluck up the courage to bluntly ask a current partner would he allow her to "do him with a strap on"and she found he and two further other partners including he now "keeper" boyfriends were all to willing to indulge in Anal strap-on-fun .she then went in to detail on what type of strap-on to use/purchase either one with a single strap harness or the one she prefered the double strap harness, some pleasure you as you thrust and some allow you to pleasure yourself as you thrust . she goes on to state on subject and a must of "lube" what to use and advizes you to use water based lubes as oil based destroy latex . she went to say two boyfriends prefered her 4-6" inch strap on and she preferred to wear a double harness and that her now keeper boyfriend has asked her for her recent purchase which is a 9" with a thick girth , double strap on harness. She then goes in to the science of it all that a large % of men have pleasured themselves Analy while masturbating and find it enjoyable as it stimulates prostate gland . she says the hurdle to get over is the trust element as for a male to take a strap on he is required to be submissive and the woman the dominant partner somthing some men cannot cope with or cannot get their heads around .
On a personal level my husband likes me to use a strap-on and pleasure him for Anal sex however it is not a thing we do when we want a quicky and have work the next morning , it is something we save when we have an evening of pleasure planned . My hubbie is in the majority and 3-6" is more than enough for him to take comfortably and i love the dominant element of it all We do as with any anal sex use plenty of lube it is essential, i have also noticed when hubby comes as with a previous boyfriend the orgasm they have is far more intense and they do loose control on par with how us women do when we have a good orgasm and this i believe is down to the prostate gland heightening the orgasm .I must admit i am shocked at some uneducated comments on certain sites from some who say for a guy to enjoy receiving anal he must be gay or at least bi as the article states it has nothing to do with that but is simply another way to pleasure yourself or for you G/ friend,wife to pleasure you and enjoy herself. I from what i read on line also have come to the conclusion most men under 30 seem to be more than up for it than the older guys do perhaps the youger guys are possibly more comfortable with the idea of the woman at one point taking charge in the bedroom . Anyway check the article out in cosmo i think its the jan issue .She however never explained how it got the term pegging???? i came to the conclusion A peg in a hole??  |
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Don't quote me but I believe: The name (and this touches on your followup) came from a poll conducted by Dan Savage a few years ago—a reader wrote in asking for a word to describe this then unnamed sexual practice, and pegging was the winning selection. |
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"Don't quote me but I believe: The name (and this touches on your followup) came from a poll conducted by Dan Savage a few years ago—a reader wrote in asking for a word to describe this then unnamed sexual practice, and pegging was the winning selection. "
A history lesson .. You learn something new every day !!! |
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By *onkersMan
over a year ago
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"Don't quote me but I believe: The name (and this touches on your followup) came from a poll conducted by Dan Savage a few years ago—a reader wrote in asking for a word to describe this then unnamed sexual practice, and pegging was the winning selection.
A history lesson .. You learn something new every day !!!"
i dont care what its called i love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love that this is becoming more and more common, definitely a fantasy of mine that whilst I would still be very wary of bringing up with a vanilla girl for lack of a better term, I'd have no qualms of stating I was interested in it on here if it was an option. |
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Saw on Big Brother last night that Jordan was complaining about having to Peg Alex Reid all the time.
We can't get enough of it can't believe she thought it a chore |
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"As an experience worldly wise lady i must admit i had not heard this term before,PEGGING.While at the hairdressers yesterday i was reading a copy of cosmo and it was an article on pegging in the bedroom??? what on earth is it i thought? and for those like me who have never heard the term before it is when a woman has the desire to pleasure her husband , male partner with a strap-on .The reporter went in to detail saying she had long held a fantasy to pleasure her male partner with a strap-on , she went on to say in a recent survey 70% of women had at one time held that fantasy as it gives them the dominant hand in the bedroom . she goes on to say it took her an age to pluck up the courage to bluntly ask a current partner would he allow her to "do him with a strap on"and she found he and two further other partners including he now "keeper" boyfriends were all to willing to indulge in Anal strap-on-fun .she then went in to detail on what type of strap-on to use/purchase either one with a single strap harness or the one she prefered the double strap harness, some pleasure you as you thrust and some allow you to pleasure yourself as you thrust . she goes on to state on subject and a must of "lube" what to use and advizes you to use water based lubes as oil based destroy latex . she went to say two boyfriends prefered her 4-6" inch strap on and she preferred to wear a double harness and that her now keeper boyfriend has asked her for her recent purchase which is a 9" with a thick girth , double strap on harness. She then goes in to the science of it all that a large % of men have pleasured themselves Analy while masturbating and find it enjoyable as it stimulates prostate gland . she says the hurdle to get over is the trust element as for a male to take a strap on he is required to be submissive and the woman the dominant partner somthing some men cannot cope with or cannot get their heads around .
On a personal level my husband likes me to use a strap-on and pleasure him for Anal sex however it is not a thing we do when we want a quicky and have work the next morning , it is something we save when we have an evening of pleasure planned . My hubbie is in the majority and 3-6" is more than enough for him to take comfortably and i love the dominant element of it all We do as with any anal sex use plenty of lube it is essential, i have also noticed when hubby comes as with a previous boyfriend the orgasm they have is far more intense and they do loose control on par with how us women do when we have a good orgasm and this i believe is down to the prostate gland heightening the orgasm .I must admit i am shocked at some uneducated comments on certain sites from some who say for a guy to enjoy receiving anal he must be gay or at least bi as the article states it has nothing to do with that but is simply another way to pleasure yourself or for you G/ friend,wife to pleasure you and enjoy herself. I from what i read on line also have come to the conclusion most men under 30 seem to be more than up for it than the older guys do perhaps the youger guys are possibly more comfortable with the idea of the woman at one point taking charge in the bedroom . Anyway check the article out in cosmo i think its the jan issue .She however never explained how it got the term pegging???? i came to the conclusion A peg in a hole?? "
There used to be pub in Nottingham called Peggers (commonly known as Pretty Windows). I bet whoever named the pub didn't know the meaning. |
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I recently experienced my first strap on with a fabulous couple on here. A dream come true! Intense and so enjoyable. Incidentally, I told an ex after years of plucking up the courage that I'd love to try a strap on. She always pestered me for anal so thought it might be ok for me to try... She said I was disgusting and dumped me! Harsh. |
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