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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I get there's like a million single and "single" guys on here and the lady's get if not more messages daily but a no thanks or not for me goes along way! Even weighting on your pro if I don't reply then sorry is fine!
But when you return interest and then get your message deleted sometimes not even read this is really annoying!
I know I'm not alone in feeling this n yes I have had alittle fun off of here but I'm beginning to think I'm going to blind soon!
And yes I know this is more of a rant then anything but needed to be said!
For all you lucky people having fun enjoy the site and each other I can't see me being on here much longer.
Chris
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go to clubs and socials, meet people that way and so stand out from the other 94,000 people messaging them  "
Cheers I've tried msging people on here about local clubs ie addresses but no joy lol will look more into though cheers again
Chris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't rely on here for your only source of sex and be proactive about finding local clubs, why on earth would you pester other people for information that you can find easily yourself by checking out the club review forum? They all have links to their Web sites on there... |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Don't rely on here for your only source of sex and be proactive about finding local clubs, why on earth would you pester other people for information that you can find easily yourself by checking out the club review forum? They all have links to their Web sites on there..."
Good advice. Clubs are a great way to meet playmates, and prospective playmates don't have to second guess what you are like from a few sketchy words on a profile or from a few badly taken photos. However it does take some effort - effort some don't seem willing to make. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't rely on here for your only source of sex and be proactive about finding local clubs, why on earth would you pester other people for information that you can find easily yourself by checking out the club review forum? They all have links to their Web sites on there..."
I ment the club organisers on here sory  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do people think they're entitled to messages and meets on here? Nowhere do the Fab Admin guarantee interest, they just provide a service for us to use."
It's just a common curtercey which clearly your of the opinion we don't need  |
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"Why do people think they're entitled to messages and meets on here? Nowhere do the Fab Admin guarantee interest, they just provide a service for us to use.
It's just a common curtercey which clearly your of the opinion we don't need "
Read the facking FAQs!  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Why do people think they're entitled to messages and meets on here? Nowhere do the Fab Admin guarantee interest, they just provide a service for us to use.
It's just a common curtercey which clearly your of the opinion we don't need "
No reply not interested...
No thanks message not interested..
Message deleted no reply... Not interested...
Message read not deleted might be might not, don't hold your breath though.
Concentrate on your inbox it's the important one, or
better for other single guys constantly check your outbox that way we can be messaging the ladies who might have been interested in you.. I know what I'd rather be spending my time doing..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people think they're entitled to messages and meets on here? Nowhere do the Fab Admin guarantee interest, they just provide a service for us to use.
It's just a common curtercey which clearly your of the opinion we don't need "
Would you really rather have an inbox full of rejection? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd be happier with atleast that and the odd chat that i am getting with friends I've made on here just the friends I've made are further afield then possible to meet or buzzy which is fare enough I mean I understand one liners getting fobbed off but that's not what I'm sending lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as said go to a club. that way you are more than just an asscrack for an avi
people will see you in person and you`ll be able to mingle in person
this works the other way aswell. you`ll be able to see more than a few shots of various female extremities and judge whether you wanna approach someone from seeing them in person
in this respect fab/the net makes the simplest thing way more complicated than it should |
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"Why do people think they're entitled to messages and meets on here? Nowhere do the Fab Admin guarantee interest, they just provide a service for us to use.
It's just a common curtercey which clearly your of the opinion we don't need "
No it's not. I often don't respond to single guys that contact me, why should I and why should anyone else. If they're not interested then they're not interested. End of, move on.
And would you really want your in box filled full of 'thanks, but no thanks' messages?
I get between 1 to 5 messages a day but I know that each one of those messages is sent to me because the person wants contact with me. I'm happy with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't get why you guys need a reply saying 'no thanks' . Isn't delete, no reply enough indication that we aren't interested? If we replied to ever message we received we'd be forever online and some of us actually have a life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't get why you guys need a reply saying 'no thanks' . Isn't delete, no reply enough indication that we aren't interested? If we replied to ever message we received we'd be forever online and some of us actually have a life "
But then how am I going to try and convince you otherwise when you reply saying no thanks. I could send you a dozen messages telling you I'm different, coming up with what ever I think you want to hear,I could do this for days and then get all arsy when I finally realise it's not going to happen. I mean its not like you ladies gave better things to bare doing like looking for what you want, vice telling people what you don't. 
You see how this could become frustrating ? MyOP advice take a no reply as a sorry not interested and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't get why you guys need a reply saying 'no thanks' . Isn't delete, no reply enough indication that we aren't interested? If we replied to ever message we received we'd be forever online and some of us actually have a life
But then how am I going to try and convince you otherwise when you reply saying no thanks. I could send you a dozen messages telling you I'm different, coming up with what ever I think you want to hear,I could do this for days and then get all arsy when I finally realise it's not going to happen. I mean its not like you ladies gave better things to bare doing like looking for what you want, vice telling people what you don't.
You see how this could become frustrating ? MyOP advice take a no reply as a sorry not interested and move on."
Lol that is exactly what I mean.. A lot of men seem to think ANY kind of contact is a come on so ignore, delete is the best way to say HELL NO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't get why you guys need a reply saying 'no thanks' . Isn't delete, no reply enough indication that we aren't interested? If we replied to ever message we received we'd be forever online and some of us actually have a life
But then how am I going to try and convince you otherwise when you reply saying no thanks. I could send you a dozen messages telling you I'm different, coming up with what ever I think you want to hear,I could do this for days and then get all arsy when I finally realise it's not going to happen. I mean its not like you ladies gave better things to bare doing like looking for what you want, vice telling people what you don't.
You see how this could become frustrating ? MyOP advice take a no reply as a sorry not interested and move on.
Lol that is exactly what I mean.. A lot of men seem to think ANY kind of contact is a come on so ignore, delete is the best way to say HELL NO "
So you fancy a bit then? |
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"Naughty pirate ... Looking at your profile/pics... It's more of a HELL YES than a HELL NO lol 
HELLOOOO there lol
Yargh,  "
You smooth talker, you 
When I get a message and they chase it up I say 'FAQ off' |
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