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(For u women) verifications matter ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met people without them and then been the first to verify them.
Men just have a hard time getting meets on here anyway, you have pics up so people can see you and decide if they fancy you, so that's good.
Dunno what else to suggest, am sure people will go on about socials and adding more to your profile. Personally i think if your first message and pics don't interest anyone then you won't have success. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I've met people without them and then been the first to verify them.
Men just have a hard time getting meets on here anyway, you have pics up so people can see you and decide if they fancy you, so that's good.
Dunno what else to suggest, am sure people will go on about socials and adding more to your profile. Personally i think if your first message and pics don't interest anyone then you won't have success. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met guys with no verifications. It does help but it's not the be all and end all. Reading someone's verifications can definitely persuade or deter me from meeting someone so it can go ether way. I don't think I'd be persuaded to meet someone who'd been on the site for over a year and doesn't have a single verification. I also know men with verifications in double figures that struggle to get a meet. I think it's just generally alot harder for men here as they outnumber women a great deal. I think so long as you're polite, non pushy and charming with a few decent pictures and a well written profile you'll get a meet sooner or later x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really get the time to chat on here only just realised I didn't have a profile picture up till today shows how hard iv been trying ????"
Nothing to do with how hard you try, all you have to be is attractive to somebody and they will consider meeting you.
Some people meet straight away and if they fancy you from looks alone then you won't have to much else to get a meet. Some people like to get to know someone, so you'd have to put some effort in there to get a meet.
Also it's not just looks but everything on your profile that people consider, age, location, interests and that stuff too. And yes possibly verifications, as Hilda said it's important to her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks I think I do need to write abit I hate writing bout my self ??
"I've met guys with no verifications. It does help but it's not the be all and end all. Reading someone's verifications can definitely persuade or deter me from meeting someone so it can go ether way. I don't think I'd be persuaded to meet someone who'd been on the site for over a year and doesn't have a single verification. I also know men with verifications in double figures that struggle to get a meet. I think it's just generally alot harder for men here as they outnumber women a great deal. I think so long as you're polite, non pushy and charming with a few decent pictures and a well written profile you'll get a meet sooner or later x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't really get the time to chat on here only just realised I didn't have a profile picture up till today shows how hard iv been trying ????
Nothing to do with how hard you try, all you have to be is attractive to somebody and they will consider meeting you.
Some people meet straight away and if they fancy you from looks alone then you won't have to much else to get a meet. Some people like to get to know someone, so you'd have to put some effort in there to get a meet.
Also it's not just looks but everything on your profile that people consider, age, location, interests and that stuff too. And yes possibly verifications, as Hilda said it's important to her."
well said iv met someone off here but didn't get verifcation from here.i think my problem is I don't want to try to hard most these men beg so hard and that just Ent me you no,onlines completely different to meeting in clubs and pubs , plus to many fakes makes it harder for us normal guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I don't really get the time to chat on here only just realised I didn't have a profile picture up till today shows how hard iv been trying ????
Nothing to do with how hard you try, all you have to be is attractive to somebody and they will consider meeting you.
Some people meet straight away and if they fancy you from looks alone then you won't have to much else to get a meet. Some people like to get to know someone, so you'd have to put some effort in there to get a meet.
Also it's not just looks but everything on your profile that people consider, age, location, interests and that stuff too. And yes possibly verifications, as Hilda said it's important to her.
well said iv met someone off here but didn't get verifcation from here.i think my problem is I don't want to try to hard most these men beg so hard and that just Ent me you no,onlines completely different to meeting in clubs and pubs , plus to many fakes makes it harder for us normal guys x"
Yeah you don't have to try hard, if anything that probably puts people off- nobody likes someone who comes across as desperate.
True about the fakes. Looks like you got things sussed anyway. |
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"Do you look at a guy different on here if he has not got verifications ??? Is it the more the better what's your opinion.  "
If he has no verifications (but is photo verified) then we're ok with that and we have been the first on several guys accounts. If he is not even photo verified then he can't even message us as we've set the filters to stop those guys getting in contact.
We're totally not bothered whether he has 1 or 100 veri's but we do look at those who have verified him. That way we can gauge the kind of ladies/couples he prefers to meet. Lots of veri's shows he has experience in the scene but it's not an absolute to the person in itself.
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