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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do most guys seem to think it's a single fems profile when they're messaging a couple? ?! Receive alot of messages all aimed at the fem..hi babe, hi hunni. .Wt? ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also find this quiet annoying. Or when the single guys know it's the male half replying the messages become one worded. I'm not saying all single guys are like that just some of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah that's why I said most. I questioned the last messaged he said sorry I just presumed cos of the pics..obviously didn't read!. Some we get nice polite friendly messages aimed at us both, it's the ones that don't read that annoy you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we get this a lot also, its always funny when the odd guy finds out its the male half and trys to make out he calls all blokes babe with lots of kisses when hes straight, then doesnt message again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not as bad as saying they want to meet the female first as they feel it will help their confidence at a later MMF meet.
At least it makes it easier for the decent ones to make an impression. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them."
So what? So because the pic is of a woman these moronic singles can be excused the ignorance of failing to make ven the most token effort?
We've found that this problem is rife, and is not an age thing either, it's across all age groups. We tend to meet the chaps who are polite, not overly crude, and can at least maintain a basic conversation in text form. We don't fancy meeting people who are unable to be civil. |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
We get this all the time too. I occasionally reply saying there's two of us here; its a couples profile. when Bugs replies and calls time on chats for various reasons you can always tell the genuine decent guys cos they don't get offended when we say that BOTH of us have to be on board lol.
Also the ones that start 'hey sexy, hot body , gorgeous pics' or words to that effect.. They Crack me up- I think wow you're blooming well clever if you can get all that from a shoe pic and a shot of Bugs' arse 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get this all the time, where the messages are always aimed at the fem. Yet when they realise its the name half replying.. We then get ignored or like said above the one word answers, same in chatrooms. They will watch and chat with c on can yet if I appears they completely vanish... Yet they expect to meet... Haa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get this all the time, where the messages are always aimed at the fem. Yet when they realise its the name half replying.. We then get ignored or like said above the one word answers, same in chatrooms. They will watch and chat with c on can yet if I appears they completely vanish... Yet they expect to meet... Haa "
Exactly the same with cams. N goes online and cams, loads of chat. I'm on and zero, even from couples and fems, it's very unsociable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we get this a lot also, its always funny when the odd guy finds out its the male half and trys to make out he calls all blokes babe with lots of kisses when hes straight, then doesnt message again. "
That really happens?
Tempted to make couples profile now just to see... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I'm afraid it does happen all the time.. A lot of our couple friends get the same.. I find it very rude... And yet they ask to meet and when we politely reject their offer they then become rude and abusive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do most guys seem to think it's a single fems profile when they're messaging a couple? ?! Receive alot of messages all aimed at the fem..hi babe, hi hunni. .Wt? ? "
It is one of our pet hates as well... Hubby has to like the Guys personality as well, to want him to join us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me telling me he wanted to take me to Spain and be a couple who has sex with other couples, I was like 'I'm married!!!'"
have had that too.but it wasnt Spain, it was a nice luxury hotel for 2 in London lol i wrote back saying thanks mate, can do with a break away haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do most guys seem to think it's a single fems profile when they're messaging a couple? ?! Receive alot of messages all aimed at the fem..hi babe, hi hunni. .Wt? ?
It is one of our pet hates as well... Hubby has to like the Guys personality as well, to want him to join us"
Absolutely true. C has a small window for wankers, if people are dickheads then he'd likely whack them, so good messaging s these people out and keeps people nice and safe. |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"I always message couples with this:-
Alright dude/dudette,
You watch the footie/Corrie last night?
High five/ xxx
Winning!!!!  "
So funny!
I wonder how many don't watch corrie or footie but would be amused with the use of dudette?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always message couples with this:-
Alright dude/dudette,
You watch the footie/Corrie last night?
High five/ xxx
Winning!!!!
So funny!
I wonder how many don't watch corrie or footie but would be amused with the use of dudette?! "
I don't watch football either so if that ever got a reply I wiuld have to wing it. More a Rugby lad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail "
Spoken like someone who has taken the fake flattery of this site to heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we do have face pics of us both, but in the friends only, as we have come across people on here that we know.... but we have quite a few pics of the both of us!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them.
So what? So because the pic is of a woman these moronic singles can be excused the ignorance of failing to make ven the most token effort?
We've found that this problem is rife, and is not an age thing either, it's across all age groups. We tend to meet the chaps who are polite, not overly crude, and can at least maintain a basic conversation in text form. We don't fancy meeting people who are unable to be civil."
So I'm offering you a different _iewpoint...!!
and your posting on here is less than civil....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them.
So what? So because the pic is of a woman these moronic singles can be excused the ignorance of failing to make ven the most token effort?
We've found that this problem is rife, and is not an age thing either, it's across all age groups. We tend to meet the chaps who are polite, not overly crude, and can at least maintain a basic conversation in text form. We don't fancy meeting people who are unable to be civil.
So I'm offering you a different _iewpoint...!!
and your posting on here is less than civil.... "
Posting befits the previous postings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a moronic single too then. I've seen people post on here and been looked at by couples profiles I thought were women. Profile pic of a woman and username that didn't give a clue. |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail "
I'd agree to a degree but by dint that its a COUPLES profile in itself should surely mean something?!
A lot of couples profiles are clearly just that- both pic and text wise- yet they still have the issue.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree, there are couple profile names where the name suggests its a woman profile, there's also a lot with names where it suggests before _iewing that it is a man too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a moronic single too then. I've seen people post on here and been looked at by couples profiles I thought were women. Profile pic of a woman and username that didn't give a clue. "
We are guilty of this exact thing. There is a reason behind it but its too long winded to explain here. Have actually been thinking of changing our username to be honest. You have a valid point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no what ya mean lady... ours had to be changed from mrs to mr and mrs as people first assumed i was just a single fem.... so changed it, even though most people know that the mr has his own fab profile for chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I'm afraid it does happen all the time.. A lot of our couple friends get the same.. I find it very rude... And yet they ask to meet and when we politely reject their offer they then become rude and abusive "
Thanks. I did find that funny, but i have my bugbears on here as a single so can understand that it's annoying too.
Never any need for abusive on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why they give abusive when ya say ya not meeting i dont know, its pathetic and childish"
A good third of messages go bad when rejection hits. We think that for some men it's just a case of having an inflated sense of themselves and expecting a one line message addressed to N to elicit instant blow jobs and anal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have even had replys like, you need reoprting and banning of the site as atm we dont do fun meets we only attend the socials... we are on here for us not them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why they give abusive when ya say ya not meeting i dont know, its pathetic and childish"
I had one guy ask if he can meet the Penelope by herself. Then when told to jog on he said i was prob going alone with other women anyway to my partner of 10 years what a dumb ass.
Dont get it we meet single guys on occasions so speak to us both with respect U MIGHT ACTUALLY GET SOMEWHERE!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why they give abusive when ya say ya not meeting i dont know, its pathetic and childish"
At least they show their true colours before you meet them.
Some guys probably are just having a bad day maybe, but i tend to think if they can abuse you over not wanting to meet them then they might be violent irl and would be risky to meet them. Not sure if that's over the top but it's just the impression i get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeh they might have a bad day, but it is no excuse to take it out on some one else, yet they can speak to the women on here like they are a piece of meat, yet they wouldnt dare talk to them like that to their faces |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we got similar the other week, then coz i put back thanks but we dont do fun meets, his reply was along the lines of ya a fat slag, minger etc, he then blocked us, he was reported, he then unblocked us sent us more abusive mail, then blocked us again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I message a Cpl I address my message to them both.
When I take my good friend to a club in Glasgow I get really pissed off from the number of guys that will approach my partner as if I was not with her and did not exist !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we got similar the other week, then coz i put back thanks but we dont do fun meets, his reply was along the lines of ya a fat slag, minger etc, he then blocked us, he was reported, he then unblocked us sent us more abusive mail, then blocked us again"
haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I message a Cpl I address my message to them both.
When I take my good friend to a club in Glasgow I get really pissed off from the number of guys that will approach my partner as if I was not with her and did not exist !!"
yeah,may aswell stay at home lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think it is disgusting when on here they just wanna talk to the fem half, ive had it happen to us at one of the socials, they dissapeared when they realised in person i was part of a couple, and the amount of times we get mail asking if i (fem) will meet alone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we had an abusive message last time we was on here from some guy 44 iirc. said she looks hot,fab boobs ass etc but when she _iewed him she politly said no thanks,his reply was shocking!..fat ass,set of mingers..the lot lol "
You know why they cant get what they want so then get abusive.
Dont think some of them not all get the fact that alot of us are in long term relationships where we are getting everything you would want.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am contacting a couple I will always address it to both parties - it seems basic good manners to me!
Mind you, to put another perspective I have had a few drawn out conversations with the male half of a "couple" where I am pretty sure the female half doesn't exist or doesn't know she is on Fab (although to be fair that could just be because she laughs hysterically once she see's a face pic!).
As for men getting abusive after they have been told they are not going to get a meet, I do find it rather pathetic and a complete vindication of the original choice by the woman / couple. I wouldn't think many of them have the guts to be violent IRL. Unfortunately it does mean that now women and couples are more likely (and quite rightly) to just not respond to men to avoid all the hassle.
As an extra question, whenever a woman or couple takes the time to reply to me to say I am not their type, or they are not meeting at the moment, or not if you were the last man on earth, I always send a quick note back saying thanks for letting me know and good luck. Is this appreciated, or would people rather just not be contacted again?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I am contacting a couple I will always address it to both parties - it seems basic good manners to me!
Mind you, to put another perspective I have had a few drawn out conversations with the male half of a "couple" where I am pretty sure the female half doesn't exist or doesn't know she is on Fab (although to be fair that could just be because she laughs hysterically once she see's a face pic!).
As for men getting abusive after they have been told they are not going to get a meet, I do find it rather pathetic and a complete vindication of the original choice by the woman / couple. I wouldn't think many of them have the guts to be violent IRL. Unfortunately it does mean that now women and couples are more likely (and quite rightly) to just not respond to men to avoid all the hassle.
As an extra question, whenever a woman or couple takes the time to reply to me to say I am not their type, or they are not meeting at the moment, or not if you were the last man on earth, I always send a quick note back saying thanks for letting me know and good luck. Is this appreciated, or would people rather just not be contacted again?
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Always good to be polite. We are scrupulously polite with people who make an effort when messaging. Sometimes what can seem a drawn out messaging process can be the male half operating a dick head filter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it is classed as good manners, ppl who get abusive or dont be polite to both halves of the couple, wonder why they dont get meets on here, we usually get ones who we decline then they spend half hour saying they would love meet us, i think they think by putting that it will help us change our mind lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we got similar the other week, then coz i put back thanks but we dont do fun meets, his reply was along the lines of ya a fat slag, minger etc, he then blocked us, he was reported, he then unblocked us sent us more abusive mail, then blocked us again"
Next time might just say yeah come meet us send them to somewhere random nowhere near us lol only the rude ones tho.
Would be well funny if a few of us team up send them all to the same place at the same time haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We enjoy chatting to people as well. For us meets are not just a message, we agree to meet, then the meet then bye. It's the build up, hopefully getting to know somebody. We prefer the actual meets to be purely sex, no socialising, we do all the chatting before and after |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it is classed as good manners, ppl who get abusive or dont be polite to both halves of the couple, wonder why they dont get meets on here, we usually get ones who we decline then they spend half hour saying they would love meet us, i think they think by putting that it will help us change our mind lol"
I know what you mean - I try to make sure it sounds like I am saying thanks for thinking about it rather than trying to convince them they ought to change their minds (which I think is rather sad and makes you sound desperate, a very attractive trait ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we got similar the other week, then coz i put back thanks but we dont do fun meets, his reply was along the lines of ya a fat slag, minger etc, he then blocked us, he was reported, he then unblocked us sent us more abusive mail, then blocked us again
Next time might just say yeah come meet us send them to somewhere random nowhere near us lol only the rude ones tho.
Would be well funny if a few of us team up send them all to the same place at the same time haha "
If I start getting numerous couples agreeing to meet at the same time and place I am going to get suspicious ...... (or hopeful about attending an orgy ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your spot on there it does make them sound desperate, and with ppl like that it makes us say no even more, whether they are polite or not
ppl like that are just a waste of fabs time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we notice some don't read especially ones who claim to have read at least a bit of our profile, when its so obvious they haven't... We absolutely love the chat side of fab.. We love the banter and the ones who can hold a decent convo always get on well with us, we just hate the one word mails |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we notice some don't read especially ones who claim to have read at least a bit of our profile, when its so obvious they haven't... We absolutely love the chat side of fab.. We love the banter and the ones who can hold a decent convo always get on well with us, we just hate the one word mails "
'Great tits, fancy me fucking them now?'-classic and sent about once a day in various forms |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them.
So what? So because the pic is of a woman these moronic singles can be excused the ignorance of failing to make ven the most token effort?
We've found that this problem is rife, and is not an age thing either, it's across all age groups. We tend to meet the chaps who are polite, not overly crude, and can at least maintain a basic conversation in text form. We don't fancy meeting people who are unable to be civil.
So I'm offering you a different _iewpoint...!!
and your posting on here is less than civil....
Posting befits the previous postings."
Where did she go, I was looking forward to round 2..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them.
So what? So because the pic is of a woman these moronic singles can be excused the ignorance of failing to make ven the most token effort?
We've found that this problem is rife, and is not an age thing either, it's across all age groups. We tend to meet the chaps who are polite, not overly crude, and can at least maintain a basic conversation in text form. We don't fancy meeting people who are unable to be civil.
So I'm offering you a different _iewpoint...!!
and your posting on here is less than civil....
Posting befits the previous postings.
Where did she go, I was looking forward to round 2..... "
The green arrow of destiny suggests they're quite rude and aggressive. No great loss |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them."
I think its this. Same as people often assuming that its the female posting in the forums because of the avatar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail
I'd agree to a degree but by dint that its a COUPLES profile in itself should surely mean something?!
A lot of couples profiles are clearly just that- both pic and text wise- yet they still have the issue.
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I am easily confused. I would look carefully if I were looking for a couple and address them both,only if they couple were looking for a woman for him or both of them. If she wanted a woman for her man I would address her only. I would look at profile text and decide what to say by that and profile photos. I know there are men who don't read anything and only want to talk to the woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably because on a lot of couples profiles the avatar is the woman and that's what has attracted them.
I think its this. Same as people often assuming that its the female posting in the forums because of the avatar."
I am guilty of that unless they put him at the bottom. Initial letters of names don't help me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some PEOPLE just mail after seeing pictures. Its not exclusive to couples. The same could be said when males from couples profiles, email single fems, asking to meet. Or, when couples mail straight wanting to play bi, etc, etc.
Its going to happen, deal with it, with a reply or blocking.
As some have already pointed out, if your user name and pictures are all feminine and (some, most, lots) guys look with their cocks, then you can't really blame them sending a "hiya babe" message.
Personally, I think its just another way, for (some) couples to be controlling, as let's face it, some love it.
Its the nature of the beast, PEOPLE will email shit, shit goes in the bin...simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail "
Exactly this!
The ones whining the most on this thread have 90-100% pics of the female only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail"
Yes I agree as we mostly see women pics and hardly no male pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the most idiotic ones are the 'do you play alone' ones. My OH always answers these with a yes I do. They seem keen at first until he tells them that its Chris and not Feebs replying. Strangely they don't message us again. Our loss I guess . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mail
Exactly this!
The ones whining the most on this thread have 90-100% pics of the female only. "
At first glance I get this, but then I just think if they are too stupid to read the word 'couple' after the name then its unlikely we will have anything in common |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the most idiotic ones are the 'do you play alone' ones. My OH always answers these with a yes I do. They seem keen at first until he tells them that its Chris and not Feebs replying. Strangely they don't message us again. Our loss I guess . "
Had 1 before. Hi guys etc I wrote back saying male here atm but we're good thanks...He deleted it |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I find the copy and paste ones awesome...
had a long conversation with someone about how we were both doing... me and my imaginary friend had a riot... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mailYes I agree as we mostly see women pics and hardly no male pics "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem with putting both of us front and center is simple... Nobody wants that. People contact us because of me, not Gav. Nobody ever shows interest in him, but I do seem to get interest. It's basic business really! So we have a large number of pics about me, a few about him. Who wants to see 80 cock shot pics? That's not really what people look for...
Plus it says clear as day on our profile we are a COUPLE. The profile text itself talks about both of us. If that's not enough, then it's not our problem really! C x |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"The problem with putting both of us front and center is simple... Nobody wants that. People contact us because of me, not Gav. Nobody ever shows interest in him, but I do seem to get interest. It's basic business really! So we have a large number of pics about me, a few about him. Who wants to see 80 cock shot pics? That's not really what people look for...
Plus it says clear as day on our profile we are a COUPLE. The profile text itself talks about both of us. If that's not enough, then it's not our problem really! C x"
As a single female, I look for pictures of both on a profile to meet. I don't do blind date from either side. I wouldn't meet a couple where I had only seen one of them.
I have actually contacted a few couples profiles based on a decent picture of them both together... |
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"I think couples should have a profile picture of both of them and equal amounts of solo photos if they want to be addressed as a couple. If your profile looks like you're advertising the woman then expect her to get the mailYes I agree as we mostly see women pics and hardly no male pics "
I agree that there should have more mens pics on cpls profiles, we tried it on our last profile but ended up with loads of mail from bi men which isn't our thing, plus once we done the obligatory hard on shot, the bj shot and the action shot theres not much else paul felt comfortable with, should have seen some of the poses we tried lol xx  |
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"The problem with putting both of us front and center is simple... Nobody wants that. People contact us because of me, not Gav. Nobody ever shows interest in him, but I do seem to get interest. It's basic business really! So we have a large number of pics about me, a few about him. Who wants to see 80 cock shot pics? That's not really what people look for...
Plus it says clear as day on our profile we are a COUPLE. The profile text itself talks about both of us. If that's not enough, then it's not our problem really! C x
As a single female, I look for pictures of both on a profile to meet. I don't do blind date from either side. I wouldn't meet a couple where I had only seen one of them.
I have actually contacted a few couples profiles based on a decent picture of them both together... "
Don't misunderstand what I said, though! We have photos of both of us on the profile, and not just cock shots. But it's just me on the profile pic because it's a tiny image advertising the profile. C x |
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"Yeah that's why I said most. I questioned the last messaged he said sorry I just presumed cos of the pics..obviously didn't read!. Some we get nice polite friendly messages aimed at us both, it's the ones that don't read that annoy you. "
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"The problem with putting both of us front and center is simple... Nobody wants that. People contact us because of me, not Gav. Nobody ever shows interest in him, but I do seem to get interest. It's basic business really! So we have a large number of pics about me, a few about him. Who wants to see 80 cock shot pics? That's not really what people look for...
Plus it says clear as day on our profile we are a COUPLE. The profile text itself talks about both of us. If that's not enough, then it's not our problem really! C x
As a single female, I look for pictures of both on a profile to meet. I don't do blind date from either side. I wouldn't meet a couple where I had only seen one of them.
I have actually contacted a few couples profiles based on a decent picture of them both together...
Don't misunderstand what I said, though! We have photos of both of us on the profile, and not just cock shots. But it's just me on the profile pic because it's a tiny image advertising the profile. C x"
Her bottom works for us on our profile too. Know where your coming from for sure. |
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over a year ago
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I rarely send the first message to a couple, for fear of offending either half of them.
I completely get why couples would be arsed off, but it can be difficult to determine which half of the couple I will end up talking to until they reply.
I will generally talk to them (i.e. both of them) without the linguistic gymnastics of pluralizing everything.
It gets too complicated.
More often than not I will get into the stride with a conversation with one or the other, safe in the knowledge that BOTH will read the messages.
However, addressing a couple as two people is as yet a skill that eludes me. Beyond the basic "I hope you are both well" I won't extend beyond the singular, but not to exclude either party.
Incidentally, I may get mildly saucy with messages, but downright graphic isn't me. Just in case it is Mr answering.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just reply to them as fem and when they say you have amazing figure or such sent body pic of male halve we have just for a giggle lol then they stop doing it |
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The point is, if I am replying to a couple, I feel duty bound to chat the fella up too.
Ok, he may be straight but, if you are going to get off with his wife, you better make damn sure they BOTH like the cut of your jib!
Mind you, decent intros seem to get ignored 99% of the time anyway.
Maybe it's because I'm too nice or, more likely because I'm rats ugly lol
Hope it's the former! |
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"I always message couples with this:-
Alright dude/dudette,
You watch the footie/Corrie last night?
High five/ xxx
Winning!!!!
So funny!
I wonder how many don't watch corrie or footie but would be amused with the use of dudette?!
I don't watch football either so if that ever got a reply I wiuld have to wing it. More a Rugby lad."
This is way better than most of the messages we get! have to say it's rugby for both of us though (thighs, bums, big hands... Mmmm) 
As said though, it's a couple's profile, the clue is there no matter what the profile pic - it's almost always me (her) messaging but I have been known to answer in 'mate speak' with no kisses just to watch the back pedalling  |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"I always message couples with this:-
Alright dude/dudette,
You watch the footie/Corrie last night?
High five/ xxx
Winning!!!!
So funny!
I wonder how many don't watch corrie or footie but would be amused with the use of dudette?!
I don't watch football either so if that ever got a reply I wiuld have to wing it. More a Rugby lad."
I'll watch rugby but pay no attention to the game whatsoever
Motorsport; now that'd get us interested lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get this all the time too...boils my piss quite frankly!
One guy messaged us the other day ' i want your arsehole', we responded with ' don't you think my bf might have something to say about that?'
His genius response 'i don't give a fuck'
Way to get a meet douchebag!! |
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