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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instead of getting so wound up about people whose criteria you don't meet and concentrate on ones that do. The sites got the tools for you to find people looking for men only, the search section is pretty good like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter."
Ah yes, another rant by a man who hates the fact that some on here will not just fuck anything that moves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter."
Everyone has a choice, everyone has a type, everyone has the type of person they don't like. It cuts both ways - the vast majority of women on this site don't interest me in the slightest. Why would anyone meet anyone they're not attracted to? Of course we all make 'demands', it's just that some of us do it a little more subtly than others...
What's your point caller? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What?
If you don't like peoples 'demands', don't pander to them.
And no, I don't look like brad pitt and am not exceptional by any stretch of the imagination yet don't see the same issues you do.
If you look for problems, you will find them, so my best suggestion is concentrate on the people who would like to meet you and don't worry about what you can't change, you'll just annoy yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter."
Personally I think you're setting yourself up for a lynch mob. People are free to request whatever they want. Just cos they want a Brad Pitt lookalike doesn't mean they're going to get one, in fact they probably won't, so they're setting themselves up to fail anyway. So don't sweat it, just go for those more open minded people who don't see looks, being exceptional, or a film star lookalike as that important. They're probably full of themselves anyway..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP - no offence, but you could try making your profile more appealing by completely re-writing it, and adding some nice photos.
You're not doing yourself any favours. |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter.
Ah yes, another rant by a man who hates the fact that some on here will not just fuck anything that moves."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree,another thing is ageism ! Turn 50 and .......forget it cos they think you can't get it up ha !"
Why has age got anythibg to do with that? It's happened to me before...I dare say to a lot of younger guys if they'd admit it....
Perhaps its just because some folk aren't attracted to older guys...just how life is sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm... These threads... Always someone else's fault?
Op we don't go for just exceptional people however they have to of put some effort in to impress us.
Your profile has a cock pick, no
Paragraphs, why not look at your self before blaming others?!
We have put loads of effort in our profile and we gave plenty of pics which we update regulary. You get out of this site what you put in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no problem with women seeking 'exceptional' guys, though I often wonder just what they're offering in return, besides just being women?"
Also everyone's idea of exceptional if different, the type of guy I would go for in real life is few and far on here and most women wouldn't look twice at, but they are exceptional to me I don't go for conventionally good looking men
So remember exceptional could be anyone reading the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't had any real issues. I've found that chatting to ladies or couples via messaging etc. in the same way as you would in a bar pays dividends. That is, act normally, be sociable and don't show them your knob in your opening gambit.
Could be a controversial thing here, but exceptional males tend to be the ones who communicate normally - it tends to go a long way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads should have their own forum space for all the guys who are socially awkward, and have no idea how to approach other human beings without sounding like a maniac.
Also, spell check. You know when your computer underlines things in red? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't had any real issues. I've found that chatting to ladies or couples via messaging etc. in the same way as you would in a bar pays dividends. That is, act normally, be sociable and don't show them your knob in your opening gambit.
Could be a controversial thing here, but exceptional males tend to be the ones who communicate normally - it tends to go a long way
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Shhh, stop giving the competition tips! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't had any real issues. I've found that chatting to ladies or couples via messaging etc. in the same way as you would in a bar pays dividends. That is, act normally, be sociable and don't show them your knob in your opening gambit.
Could be a controversial thing here, but exceptional males tend to be the ones who communicate normally - it tends to go a long way
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Absolutely agree, I wouldn't meet someone I hadn't established common ground with by chatting on here first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads should have their own forum space for all the guys who are socially awkward, and have no idea how to approach other human beings without sounding like a maniac."
Don't be ridiculous, the site would crash from the weight of posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gav has been turned down a couple of times for not being "exceptional" and not having an amazing body. Yet oddly it's only happened with couplez where the woman hasn't exactly been on top form herself. We don't look for for people in that sense... In fact we make a point on our profile that we don't even LIKE muscle bound big heads.
Everybody has their own likes though! C x |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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Single guy here. Just a word for the men who think they should have the "right"to meet and play with every woman/couple on Fab. . . Please accept that these ladies have preferences/choice. Ranting and raving will get you nowhere fast and possibly makes you look kinda childish too.
I'm nearing 50 and yes, meets are harder to come by. I may be wrong but there comes a time when the older you get the smaller the pool of potential meets gets too.
Couples and single women, given the choice there is on here for them would much rather invite a 35 year old than a 55year old man. That's life. . Accept it . Concentrate on what YOU have to offer not what others should be offering you .
Now, let's all play nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I agree. It's a swinging site ffs, people on here should meet and fuck. Get rid of everyone that excludes single guys, everyone with no pics. And get rid of all the women with no profile that don't meet. As for the people that choose who they meet and who they are attracted to... what the hell???!! Men offer to shag them and they get no reply. They should remember that the men are doing them a favour!
They are wasting time for all the men desperate for a fuck. How can they get on with their lives when they have blue balls? Madness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fthink people just need to interact more, especially on the forums and cams. Sending private messages don't get you too far to be honest.
It's working for me I can be picky now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a buyers market and no matter how extraordinary the demand someone will always fill it.
Rather than woe is me concentrate on the ones who will meet you. |
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"Yes I agree,another thing is ageism ! Turn 50 and .......forget it cos they think you can't get it up ha ![/quote
That's been far from the case in my experience on here. Some ladies positively prefer more mature gentlemen."
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone likes what they like. I have met a fair few single men and since I have limited play time they were all exceptional. To me though, not necessarily to other people. It goes both ways and I'm not everyone's cup of tea so there is no point whatsoever stressing over the ones I can't have - I'd rather meet the rare few where it's a mutual attraction so we both have an excellent time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter."
Ah, so we're not allowed to advertise if it excludes what we don't want, is that it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads should have their own forum space for all the guys who are socially awkward, and have no idea how to approach other human beings without sounding like a maniac.
Also, spell check. You know when your computer underlines things in red?"
That would be a dark and terrifying place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love that the men are always complaining that women won't sleep with them! It gives me a laugh every time. Clearly we women are just stuck up. It has nothing to do whatoever with the guy having a bad attitude or a bad profile! It's all our fault. Love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely baffles me how men think women shouldn't have any standards / preferences and should just shag anyone that asks. Plus time and time again women get accused of making demands! These are not demands its what they want out of a meet. You can either provide it or not, men have just as much right to select who they want to meet as us women do. If you choose to fuck anyone that's your fault not womens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I agree. It's a swinging site ffs, people on here should meet and fuck. Get rid of everyone that excludes single guys, everyone with no pics. And get rid of all the women with no profile that don't meet. As for the people that choose who they meet and who they are attracted to... what the hell???!! Men offer to shag them and they get no reply. They should remember that the men are doing them a favour!
They are wasting time for all the men desperate for a fuck. How can they get on with their lives when they have blue balls? Madness. "
Just a little tongue-in-cheek then
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a buyers market and no matter how extraordinary the demand someone will always fill it.
Rather than woe is me concentrate on the ones who will meet you. " That's right, desert this end lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ladies - lower your standards and fuck anything! Yeh right! Or alternatively be on here for your enjoyment with people you want to meet. Your choice."
Why do people always refer to George Clooney and Brad Pitt not every like that type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads should have their own forum space for all the guys who are socially awkward, and have no idea how to approach other human beings without sounding like a maniac.
Also, spell check. You know when your computer underlines things in red?
That would be a dark and terrifying place " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads should have their own forum space for all the guys who are socially awkward, and have no idea how to approach other human beings without sounding like a maniac.
Also, spell check. You know when your computer underlines things in red?
That would be a dark and terrifying place " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay my 2 pence worth....I see both sides of this argument and when all things are considered.....the couples/single women are gonna win every time!! .
I use myself as an example.....I've been back on fabs since about April last year, by far and away I'm not exceptional and I'm no model/Adonis type either.
As people have already said to death, everyone has their type and it's their choice....I'm not the greatest looking bloke on her, even I have a wobble every now and then when I wonder "what's wrong with me?" Truth is.....I don't know but I don't think I do that bad, course I don't meet as often as I'd like....but then when you are up against literally 1000's of other men, some need to work and promote themselves that little bit harder.....this is a lesson that you, OP, need to learn and pdq about it, if you expect to have any success.
The mountain will not come to you sir, you, must go to it!!!
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"What?
If you don't like peoples 'demands', don't pander to them.
And no, I don't look like brad pitt and am not exceptional by any stretch of the imagination yet don't see the same issues you do.
If you look for problems, you will find them, so my best suggestion is concentrate on the people who would like to meet you and don't worry about what you can't change, you'll just annoy yourself. "
Simply: this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which "ads" are you talking about? If you search for people looking for single men you will find them. If they say no thanks,or don't reply,they aren't interested in you. They will be interested in other single men |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter."
I'm an exceptional person so why should I not meet other exceptional people? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Sometimes I want to meet a single man - and therefore actively look for them... and other times I want to play with a female or couple and a single man just wouldn't cut it... so yes, sometimes O do exclude single men...
Sorry if that offends you OP, but basically - my body, my rules... or should I just shut up and lie back and think of scotland so you can get what you want? |
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"Yeah I agree. It's a swinging site ffs, people on here should meet and fuck. Get rid of everyone that excludes single guys, everyone with no pics. And get rid of all the women with no profile that don't meet. As for the people that choose who they meet and who they are attracted to... what the hell???!! Men offer to shag them and they get no reply. They should remember that the men are doing them a favour!
They are wasting time for all the men desperate for a fuck. How can they get on with their lives when they have blue balls? Madness.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ladies - lower your standards and fuck anything! Yeh right! Or alternatively be on here for your enjoyment with people you want to meet. Your choice."
As a women that is my thought exactly! |
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"To the OP - no offence, but you could try making your profile more appealing by completely re-writing it, and adding some nice photos.
You're not doing yourself any favours."
Ouch!
We all have preferences. I'm sure you have a few OP. Remember, it's about you're looking for as well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas "
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who??? |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Instead of getting so wound up about people whose criteria you don't meet and concentrate on ones that do. The sites got the tools for you to find people looking for men only, the search section is pretty good like that." |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Okay my 2 pence worth....I see both sides of this argument and when all things are considered.....the couples/single women are gonna win every time!! .
I use myself as an example.....I've been back on fabs since about April last year, by far and away I'm not exceptional and I'm no model/Adonis type either.
As people have already said to death, everyone has their type and it's their choice....I'm not the greatest looking bloke on her, even I have a wobble every now and then when I wonder "what's wrong with me?" Truth is.....I don't know but I don't think I do that bad, course I don't meet as often as I'd like....but then when you are up against literally 1000's of other men, some need to work and promote themselves that little bit harder.....this is a lesson that you, OP, need to learn and pdq about it, if you expect to have any success.
The mountain will not come to you sir, you, must go to it!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who??? "
Here is one definition of Swinging we found.
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Took this from Wikipedia, so it is there for us all to see. Note the bit that says 'in a committed relationship'
We wouldn't think that Wikipedia is biased towards singles or couples, however that is what it said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ladies - lower your standards and fuck anything! Yeh right! Or alternatively be on here for your enjoyment with people you want to meet. Your choice.
Why do people always refer to George Clooney and Brad Pitt not every like that type"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who???
Here is one definition of Swinging we found.
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Took this from Wikipedia, so it is there for us all to see. Note the bit that says 'in a committed relationship'
We wouldn't think that Wikipedia is biased towards singles or couples, however that is what it said."
Oh yes. Wikipedia. A real fountain of true knowledge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who???
Here is one definition of Swinging we found.
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Took this from Wikipedia, so it is there for us all to see. Note the bit that says 'in a committed relationship'
We wouldn't think that Wikipedia is biased towards singles or couples, however that is what it said.
Oh yes. Wikipedia. A real fountain of true knowledge! "
Whatever your views on Wikipedia it is an unbiased description on swinging, unlike the biased views that couple or singles will give. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who???
Here is one definition of Swinging we found.
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Took this from Wikipedia, so it is there for us all to see. Note the bit that says 'in a committed relationship'
We wouldn't think that Wikipedia is biased towards singles or couples, however that is what it said."
"in which both singles... and partners in a committed relationship..."
It says BOTH. Singles are swingers too. ha!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not fed up at all. Each and every one of us has the right to use our own criteria.
Would you meet someone you thought of as a minger? Thought not.... So why should women/couples be any different.
The only person/attitude you can change is yourself....do it or stop whining. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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It amazes us that someone can write a three line message and expect a shag from whoevere they may fancy. If you want to make contact make the effort of joining a club, meet someone there, impress them with your sparkling personality and find you can have a great time without looking anything like Brad Pitt. You dont have to be exceptional, but you have to make an exceptional effort. Its entirely down to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who???
Here is one definition of Swinging we found.
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Took this from Wikipedia, so it is there for us all to see. Note the bit that says 'in a committed relationship'
We wouldn't think that Wikipedia is biased towards singles or couples, however that is what it said.
"in which both singles... and partners in a committed relationship..."
It says BOTH. Singles are swingers too. ha!
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We agree.
Singles in a committed relationship is exactly what it says. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are you like me getting fed-up with the exclusion of single men from the vast majority of ads on here ? . do you think it,s time the site has a section for people seeking single men only ? .are you also fed-up with the constant demands by people on here which range from the sublime to the ridiculous . wot has happened to the good old fashioned "lets meet for some fun" ads ? .instead we see that you have to be "exceptional" or with looks like brad pitt. please let me know your thoughts on the matter."
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"I too have noticed that, and I admit I find it a bit annoying.
But I guess it's a seller's market, and women can ask for what they want.
Although, also, I find myself a bit embarrassed. Technically swinging is between couples, and as a single male I'm kinda piggy backing on the life style.
So.... It's annoying... But that's life.
Nicholas
'Technically swinging is between couples' - says who???
Here is one definition of Swinging we found.
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Took this from Wikipedia, so it is there for us all to see. Note the bit that says 'in a committed relationship'
We wouldn't think that Wikipedia is biased towards singles or couples, however that is what it said.
"in which both singles... and partners in a committed relationship..."
It says BOTH. Singles are swingers too. ha!
We agree.
Singles in a committed relationship is exactly what it says."
No it doesn't. It differentiates between singles and those in a relationship. It says both. Hence two different things. |
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"I've no problem with women seeking 'exceptional' guys, though I often wonder just what they're offering in return, besides just being women?"
Many men don't do themselves any favours with terrible pics, terrible profiles, and zero skill in chatting. That said, there are a lot of really poor quality fems and cpls on here, and they offer literally nothing apart from having orifices that often desperate men will stuff. More fool the men who keep doing this |
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