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How often do you meet and play?
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We both lead busy lives, work hard running our own businesses and when not working we have family commitments so play time can be very limited but fortunately we try to squeeze a naughty night out every couple of months or so. We were just interested in how often others take time out to get naughty??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New to this place, and still looking for my first meet.
Not that easy baring in mind people lead busy lives, distance and the odd time waster here and there.
Good things come to those who wait.  |
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"New to this place, and still looking for my first meet.
Not that easy baring in mind people lead busy lives, distance and the odd time waster here and there.
Good things come to those who wait. "
They certainly do and judging by your profile and your pics we are sure you'll do well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree zoya, alot of people have regular friends with benefits if you want to call it that.
however to find new people that are genuine, reliable and in which you have that connection with, does take some time. |
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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago
Cougarville |
I've been very lucky on the site , when I'm in the mood and have a few hours free I can normally get something arranged at short notice , as long as the guys don't live more that an hours drive away . Pretty spontaneous and exciting a few times a week suits me . It's great being single and getting to choose . I've met some amazing guys and always have a pleasurable experience, not always ending in sex might I add . The secret is relax , don't have any expectations then enjoy every moment ,
I've made some good friends on fab .
Been here since June '11 and feel like part of the furniture .
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I don't meet every week.. I'm happy for it to be once a month or so if convenient where work and family are concerned. I also like to get to know someone before meeting even if this means chatting for a few weeks first.
I do however find it's getting harder to find genuine people on here that are not in some kind of a rush and that actually accom in my area because I can't lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Averages about once/ twice a month. Not on this profile though. x
That sounds perfect. Is that because of Vanilla commitments or just all you have time for? "
Both really. We go to clubs, parties, arrange our own meets, allsorts of different things. We plan ahead and always have a couple of things planned. It's good to have things to look forward to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm lucky enough to have a regular fb, we're both single with no ties so can meet pretty much every weekend. I occasionally attend clubs as I find it much easier than arranging meets on here, kind of given up arranging meets on here, its too much hassle, I just like the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both lead busy lives, work hard running our own businesses and when not working we have family commitments so play time can be very limited but fortunately we try to squeeze a naughty night out every couple of months or so. We were just interested in how often others take time out to get naughty??
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Same here. Too many outside influences hamper play time opportunities. And we do get the time finding people can be next to impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats my bday 11 june so wheres my card please and its such a special occasion for us both I think we should give each other a sexy present in the knack to start with lol I couldn't resist that sorry my bad???? X |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Not as much as I used to. If my local GB organiser gets in touch it can be once or twice a week. If I'm on his shitlist and I sort my own meets out then probably once a month. I'm fine with that though as work and other commitments mean I have plenty to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats my bday 11 june so wheres my card please and its such a special occasion for us both I think we should give each other a sexy present in the knack to start with lol I couldn't resist that sorry my bad???? X"
What ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can vary....work gets in the way. I don't count time spent with my bestie from here (eg last night going round to hers for a home cooked Thai curry or staying weekend in her caravan).
But between these kind of things...probably as often as I want/need to?
It helps having another local fb virtually on tap tho lol.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As often as I can make but it's quality not quantity , travel work family take all time so what's left I use for fabbing but had only a couple of meets and they were at clubs
I don't try hard enough I recon
Golf today , less interesting I know
Happy swinging
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've finally got to the stage where I work a lovely 9 to 5 and my kids don't need me around anymore so all my weekends are mine. It's taken some doing though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On average I meet once every couple of month, if I book holiday I maybe fit a extra meet in, I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal  |
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" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal "
Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far). |
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" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal
Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far)."
Profile police? |
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" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal
Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far).
Profile police?"
Yes those that tell you what's wrong with it. I didn't even ask haha |
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With a couple who we met at a club but made first contact with through fab usually every week , quite often see them twice a week but very happy to sit down have a drink , a chat and a good laugh ,,,,,, its not always about the sex |
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over a year ago
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" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal
Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far).
Profile police?
Yes those that tell you what's wrong with it. I didn't even ask haha "
Just ignore them. Who cares what they think? |
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"I've been very lucky on the site , when I'm in the mood and have a few hours free I can normally get something arranged at short notice , as long as the guys don't live more that an hours drive away . Pretty spontaneous and exciting a few times a week suits me . It's great being single and getting to choose . I've met some amazing guys and always have a pleasurable experience, not always ending in sex might I add . The secret is relax , don't have any expectations then enjoy every moment ,
I've made some good friends on fab .
Been here since June '11 and feel like part of the furniture .
Happy fabbing "
So take it all veris not showing then as you been on a year etc? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often have several meets a day- during the week. Weekends i tend to not have any unless it's with someone i know who doesn't want to sleep over.
Have only just started planning meets and it's going well for me but i still have my spontaneous ones as well and enjoy those too. I have a lot of free time and hardly sleep so can do this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When he's home we try to get a meet every night but it varies how long he's home for. could be home 2 days then he's away again or home for 3 weeks and away for 10 weeks. Quite a pain! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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with us both working couple with a child. find it hard getting a sitter. when we do get alone time it can be a few hours in evening. Have had the odd meet in that time but seems rushed. so in all, Not as much as we'd like. never mind time to ourselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try and get out to play once every two or three months. This suits us fine at the moment. It used to be once a month but we found we were getting fed up with it and not looking forward to it us much so had a break. Now we have found a happy medium and are enjoying it much more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to do it a lot more in our 40s. possibly once a week or so at it's peak. Now perhaps once every 2 to 3 months. Tbh we've got fed up of all the fannying around that goes on to get a meet. It's probably us. Being in our 50s like a good book, we tend to get left in the library a lot more nowadays LOL.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rarely. Get more wind up merchants and time wasters than real people at times and it puts me off trusting the potentially genuine guys. That said I have met some great people. Just need to re tune my twat radar... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Twat radar! Love it!
We have to say we've been lucky in the sense we've not been messed around by anyone so far but it's sure to be in the post. "
Can't say I'm surprised ... You guys are a hot couple! Definitely gorgeous and according to the name filthy too - perfect combo!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we meet once a month with the same regular female for 3some fun , like the poster to busy running a business and family for loads of meets . Looking to expand it but our emphasis is on safe fun fun so also enjoy a sat evening cam session with couples and the odd single .Although we are going to be a little more adventuress and meet a couple or two but its just a reat for us not a thing we take serious like ebay f/b lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not nearly as much as we'd like to!! Lol.
Our free time has to be planned with military precision. With work and family we have to. We'd love to have more improptu meets! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i agree zoya, alot of people have regular friends with benefits if you want to call it that.
however to find new people that are genuine, reliable and in which you have that connection with, does take some time. "
It takes a long long time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given work commitments, probably once every 3 mths at present.
For us its quality over quantity everytime and as others have said, this part of our lives is added spice, not normality. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Every 2-3 months depending on work commitments. I might play a few times in a week if I've got plenty of time off but that happens rarely. People have got arsey about that in the past but I've stopped feeling guilty and now see it as another form of filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought I had a regularish friend but he seems to have gone silent and off the boil "
slight cockup on my part. I forgot he was going away. contact has been made, couple of months and things will be back on track |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
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I still haven't found the time to jump in and do it.
Between me working 50 hours a week and mister between 20-60 hours (including both days of the weekend for us both) and then juggling 2 children under 5, can't accommodate in our small flat and can't drive either it's just not been practical yet to fit people in :-/
Not enough hours in the day!! |
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Not as often as we would like. Hubby works 12 hour days Mon to Friday so week nights are out and I work as a barmaid so work a lot at weekends. Add to that our family commitments our time is very limited. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play whenever i want to really! Thought bloody single men never complain about not getting meets, im lying in here in gorgeous lingerie, stockings heels, sexy makeup etc and been stood up because he decided he was tired but waited hr & half to message he wasnt coming!
Grrrr we have feelings too you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a funny old thing. There's no rhyme or reason with me. Lol. A combination of infrequent (fairly) spontaneous meets, planned meets and the odd right-place-right-time play at parties.
And then you have this month, no parties and no signs of a meet. As I said, no rhyme or reason but I have a busy enough life so it never bothers me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tommy works overseas and usually does a 2 month away 1 month home rotation, plus we have two very young children, that being said when he is home for those few weeks we plan and cram quite a few bits in, usually at least 2 club visits which we love, maybe a social and definitely 1-2 meets from our friends list
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"I don't meet every week.. I'm happy for it to be once a month or so if convenient where work and family are concerned. I also like to get to know someone before meeting even if this means chatting for a few weeks first.
I do however find it's getting harder to find genuine people on here that are not in some kind of a rush and that actually accom in my area because I can't lol."
Same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far the average is once every two years....
Mostly due to everything coming into alignment, work, free time, attraction etc etc...
We also drift in and out of having the interest or desire to share ourselves with others |
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I go through phases. I had 17 meets in November, several of those with my fb every week.
By 3 Jan this year I'd already met three guys. But then the last time I had a meet was Saturday.
I've noticed that I'll have a really huge appetite for sex every other month and will go hell for leather. Then I'll have a few weeks off.
I'm often err late for work or late home. I do an inordinate amount of late night shopping and have an awful lot of long lunches and medical appointments. Where there's a will there's a way!
Contrary to popular belief I'm not horny 24/7 lol |
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We like the anticipation and excitement of meeting and always have a good time but not always ending in sex that's about 3/4 who we meet, As a couple In the summer season we could have sex almost every day. Connie xx |
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