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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never tried, but would love to. Not sure there is anywhere around Gainsborough in Lincolnshire though. N loves to please a group of guys as ften as possible, so dogging is another feather in her cap so to speak  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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It is definitely not for me, I am rather discerning at the best of times! Though that is not a dig at anyone who does enjoy it! I just like to get to know my potential sexual partners beforehand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tried it and as a single guy.....what a bunch of arse.
Took a few times of trying before a couple did once turn up and then they were just into being watched...
In general it's a sausage fest....if you like watching a bunch of unsavoury looking guys jerking off in a car park, go mad.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Random unsavoury cocks dribbling on your car windows and the threat of being busted by the cops. What's not to like?"
Glad we have never been where you based this experience on !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
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You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a couple of women who wanted outdoor fun. I know a little dirt track that leads to fields near me so I go down there.
I have one of there verifications on my profile she stripped naked as soon as I was in my car and drove the Four miles with her wanking my cock.
It was broad daylight....... |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it . "
I'm all ears! which could be used for guidance!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are adventerous and never tried dogging previously so thought we would find out what it was like.
We went to a well known dogging spot and waited.
Was it worth waiting for? Not a fucking chance it was the worst experience we have ever had.
We were sat in our car not doing anything just sitting when a guy came up and peered through the window he wandered off further into the car park where more male doggers must of been, next thing cars started pulling up all around us guys all getting out and standing around our car all looking in, then a big 4x4 pulled right up behind us lights shining right inside our car this pissed us off so we decided to leave the 4x4 obviously didnt want us to go and initially tried to stop us reversing out, after he realised we werent going to do anything he moved out the way and let us leave.
For us it was a crap experience never to be repeated swing clubs only for us . |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it . "
Like I said in my post, I'm not dissing it for others but it is just not for me, I know what I like and dogging isn't one of them and the idea gives me shivers but that is just me, but carry on as you were, like others are not allowed to have their own opinions?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it .
Like I said in my post, I'm not dissing it for others but it is just not for me, I know what I like and dogging isn't one of them and the idea gives me shivers but that is just me, but carry on as you were, like others are not allowed to have their own opinions? "
Of course others are allowed opinions !
My point was merely to point out that opinions on doing something may be different from those who have done it than those who haven't .
And there are those who have that do enjoy it and those who have that didn't .
Those who haven't and know they they never will , may have an opinion but tbh it's irrelevant . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met a couple of women who wanted outdoor fun. I know a little dirt track that leads to fields near me so I go down there.
I have one of there verifications on my profile she stripped naked as soon as I was in my car and drove the Four miles with her wanking my cock.
It was broad daylight......."
Outdoor sex....not same as dogging.
Tried the former several times = great!
Tried the second option once (was persuaded) while I was ok fucking her in the car....having 4 random guys talking on windows and wanking over the bonnet was, frankly, rather a sad and pathetic sight to me....but hey! Each to their own. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it .
Like I said in my post, I'm not dissing it for others but it is just not for me, I know what I like and dogging isn't one of them and the idea gives me shivers but that is just me, but carry on as you were, like others are not allowed to have their own opinions?
Of course others are allowed opinions !
My point was merely to point out that opinions on doing something may be different from those who have done it than those who haven't .
And there are those who have that do enjoy it and those who have that didn't .
Those who haven't and know they they never will , may have an opinion but tbh it's irrelevant ."
How is it irrelevant? The question was Do you go dogging or would you want to? Those of us that have said no and given our reason why, shouldn't be dismissed, we all have our reasons for and against, you do what suits you and let others do what suits them, it's not that hard! And therefore should not attract negative comments on either spectrum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once went to an infamous spot in notts with an ex but the large group of men hanging out there drinking beer were so intimidating and made it so unappealing when I wasn't sure in the first place that we left straight away and I would never ever attempt it again. We have friends who love it and wouldn't judge others but it isn't for me at all, ever and I'm absolutely sure I'm not missing out on anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it .
Like I said in my post, I'm not dissing it for others but it is just not for me, I know what I like and dogging isn't one of them and the idea gives me shivers but that is just me, but carry on as you were, like others are not allowed to have their own opinions?
Of course others are allowed opinions !
My point was merely to point out that opinions on doing something may be different from those who have done it than those who haven't .
And there are those who have that do enjoy it and those who have that didn't .
Those who haven't and know they they never will , may have an opinion but tbh it's irrelevant ."
We've never done it and never would because it sounds desperately grim. That's our relevant opinion  |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it . "
Free true comment we do it.. Love it and also enjoy other types of meets too.... Showing off.. Being watched.. Being joined... Edgy fun.... If you get it right is brill and if we don't happy to have filthy fun together.. Win win |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could be wrong but it just seems like an outdoors gangbang with a bunch of strangers.
Never tried it but it doesn't appeal to me (unless I'm missing something?)
You could be missing something .... depends whetheryou base your opinion on those wwho comment who haven't done it , but like to say what they think of it .
Like I said in my post, I'm not dissing it for others but it is just not for me, I know what I like and dogging isn't one of them and the idea gives me shivers but that is just me, but carry on as you were, like others are not allowed to have their own opinions?
Of course others are allowed opinions !
My point was merely to point out that opinions on doing something may be different from those who have done it than those who haven't .
And there are those who have that do enjoy it and those who have that didn't .
Those who haven't and know they they never will , may have an opinion but tbh it's irrelevant .
How is it irrelevant? The question was Do you go dogging or would you want to? Those of us that have said no and given our reason why, shouldn't be dismissed, we all have our reasons for and against, you do what suits you and let others do what suits them, it's not that hard! And therefore should not attract negative comments on either spectrum! "
Without wishing to nit pick , the question was have you tried dogging and did you like it .
No opinion was sought from those who hadn't .
Of course anyone can comment , but as I said originally - an opinion from someone on a subject matter they have not done nor have any intention of doing is irrelevant .
Especially when the op wasn't asking for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like some of the experiences some have had must have been at the rougher part of the Country. Been dogging many times send not experienced "unsavoury guys dribbling over the car" or cars blocking us in. Never had a bad experience yet. Dogging doesn't mean you have to suck and fuck everyone there,
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We have never been dogging and have no intention of doing so. We find the activity sleazy and potentially very dangerous in terms of health and the law.
We will not meet anyone who has been or has expressed an interest in dogging. The risks are just too great. |
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"??? have u tried it and do u like it "
Been dogging ever since we first met, back when dogging was just having sex with one's girlfriend in a quiet spot, getting caught by someone out walking their dog, and carrying on because you both found it a turn-on.
Dogging used to be more about voyeurism/exhibitionist than the joining in, which was then known as swinging.
The tv program has changed peoples understanding, and now there are too many men who 'hunt' couples, and who think it is all about massive gang-bangs and free sex. In turn, this has made many of the 'quiet places' full of single, desperate men, and the police.
We still enjoy alfresco sex, but tend to find our own places, don't like to do it in winter when it's too dark to see who's outside (camera phones, etc) and way too cold.
To reassure the person above, we don't find being watched surreptitiously from a bush 20 feet away has many health concerns.
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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"Sounds like some of the experiences some have had must have been at the rougher part of the Country. Been dogging many times send not experienced "unsavoury guys dribbling over the car" or cars blocking us in. Never had a bad experience yet. Dogging doesn't mean you have to suck and fuck everyone there,
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Agree totally with this, just because you are out dogging doesn't mean you are there at the will of any stranger who wants to fuck you, very rare anyone one even gets to touch us, we are into being watched, so it works for us, why do people who don't want to try it rant on about low standards and gang bangs with strangers, it can be whatever you choose it to be, and if no one turns up, we have sex together in our nice warm car and head home satisfied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like some of the experiences some have had must have been at the rougher part of the Country. Been dogging many times send not experienced "unsavoury guys dribbling over the car" or cars blocking us in. Never had a bad experience yet. Dogging doesn't mean you have to suck and fuck everyone there,
Agree totally with this, just because you are out dogging doesn't mean you are there at the will of any stranger who wants to fuck you, very rare anyone one even gets to touch us, we are into being watched, so it works for us, why do people who don't want to try it rant on about low standards and gang bangs with strangers, it can be whatever you choose it to be, and if no one turns up, we have sex together in our nice warm car and head home satisfied."
The voice of reason at last !
This is exactly why we enjoy it too .
We can honestly say that we have never lowered our standards or taken one for the team .
If there's an attraction Sabrina plays and if not she doesn't - just like a club .
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"Sounds like some of the experiences some have had must have been at the rougher part of the Country. Been dogging many times send not experienced "unsavoury guys dribbling over the car" or cars blocking us in. Never had a bad experience yet. Dogging doesn't mean you have to suck and fuck everyone there,
Agree totally with this, just because you are out dogging doesn't mean you are there at the will of any stranger who wants to fuck you, very rare anyone one even gets to touch us, we are into being watched, so it works for us, why do people who don't want to try it rant on about low standards and gang bangs with strangers, it can be whatever you choose it to be, and if no one turns up, we have sex together in our nice warm car and head home satisfied.
The voice of reason at last !
This is exactly why we enjoy it too .
We can honestly say that we have never lowered our standards or taken one for the team .
If there's an attraction Sabrina plays and if not she doesn't - just like a club .
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Yup, this  |
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Must admit not for me. Took a girl who fancied being watched whilst I fucked her which was going well until one guy turned up with a crash helmet on. Couldn't see his face which freaked her and me out. We didn't do it again. |
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"Must admit not for me. Took a girl who fancied being watched whilst I fucked her which was going well until one guy turned up with a crash helmet on. Couldn't see his face which freaked her and me out. We didn't do it again. "
He kept his crash helmet on? 
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"Must admit not for me. Took a girl who fancied being watched whilst I fucked her which was going well until one guy turned up with a crash helmet on. Couldn't see his face which freaked her and me out. We didn't do it again.
Yes he did. It was like doing it in front of darth vader. Not good lol
He kept his crash helmet on?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, dogging doesn't mean that health concerns are forgotten.
We play safe. Always have, always will "
This is also the case for us .
It's a shame that folk have this misconception of sleazy , dirty and unsavory towards it .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Must admit not for me. Took a girl who fancied being watched whilst I fucked her which was going well until one guy turned up with a crash helmet on. Couldn't see his face which freaked her and me out. We didn't do it again.
He kept his crash helmet on?
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There's playing safe and taking it all way too far |
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"Must admit not for me. Took a girl who fancied being watched whilst I fucked her which was going well until one guy turned up with a crash helmet on. Couldn't see his face which freaked her and me out. We didn't do it again.
He kept his crash helmet on?
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yes he did. Like doing it in front of darth vader |
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Wow, that's weird. The guys round my way don't do that.
It's a shame some people have had a bad experience and it's put them off trying again. It's not always like that.
The first time we went I was nervous as hell, had no idea what to expect and had spent the afternoon googling! It was exciting though and I had a great time.
It helped me immensely that Mr was experienced and being a squaddie could deal with anyone pushing their luck, so I was in safe hands.
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Its been a while since I last went dogging an wont be going again.I was with a very lovely young lady.Were playing,lights on for all to see in,next thing 3 guys were using my car bonnet to play with each other an showing no interest in my young lady or me.We got dressed an drove off,couple of days later found out site had been raided by the police as it was a gay site.Now all fenced an gated,so one less site to go to. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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So what part of you are locked in your own metal box with lockable windows, heating and lighting, do people not understand, if someone turns up with a crash helmet on tell him to remove it or move away, if someone else is dressed as a clown from a horror movie tell him to fuck off, don't get freaked out, 4X4 blocks you in shout at him to move, you wouldn't allow it in real life, just because you are dogging doesn't mean you have to strip off and get out of the car to let everyone do anything, get a grip, you are in control not them, or just start the car and move....lol |
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"??? have u tried it and do u like it "
Its generally rubbish in holy Ireland (Oh paddy that lad has his knob out, be the jaysus)
But if you organise you can get some good results, UK seems alot better for it |
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"I love all the "sleazy" unsavoury" "unsafe" comments, mostly from people who say they have never been. "
Ah, but to be fair, they'll've seen the documentary about it all.
I think really they just can't be bothered shelling out on the animal masks we all wear
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met a couple of women who wanted outdoor fun. I know a little dirt track that leads to fields near me so I go down there.
I have one of there verifications on my profile she stripped naked as soon as I was in my car and drove the Four miles with her wanking my cock.
It was broad daylight.......
Outdoor sex....not same as dogging.
Tried the former several times = great!
Tried the second option once (was persuaded) while I was ok fucking her in the car....having 4 random guys talking on windows and wanking over the bonnet was, frankly, rather a sad and pathetic sight to me....but hey! Each to their own."
Goodness, dont go to clubs that allow single men then, you will burst into tears |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have visited a couple of known local dogging sites on occasion, only when it's been really hot and I've been very horny, never met any couples or women though. Being a bit of an exhibitionist I couldn't resist getting my kit off when there's been no one about, and feeling horny with a semi on I thought I should take the opportunity to experience what it felt like.... It feels wonderful, lol. However, when you think no ones about, it's surprising when you finish up with three or four guys around you appearing from nowhere it seems. I enjoyed being watched that's the exhibitionist bit in me I suppose and the guys did respect the 'no contact' rule and seemed to enjoy themselves.
.On balance though I don't think it's for me.
1. I like to know a bit of history about people. 2. population density whilst not bad round here means there's always ' vanilla' presence passing through (walkers, dog walkers, joggers etc.) 3. A lot of the undergrowth has been cut away to make the areas more accessible and with patrols and WiFi CCTV monitor around I think the 'Risk' factor for me at any rate has become too great. Good luck to all you people made of sterner stuff than me though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what part of you are locked in your own metal box with lockable windows, heating and lighting, do people not understand, if someone turns up with a crash helmet on tell him to remove it or move away, if someone else is dressed as a clown from a horror movie tell him to fuck off, don't get freaked out, 4X4 blocks you in shout at him to move, you wouldn't allow it in real life, just because you are dogging doesn't mean you have to strip off and get out of the car to let everyone do anything, get a grip, you are in control not them, or just start the car and move....lol "
Now how exactly do we get a 4x4 to move it was twice as big as ours and we were facing a big kerb reversing would have done more damage to our car than his and as for getting out and shouting it was about 2am and he was with lots of others now do you really think the wisest thing would be to do this? If you do you have a problem regarding safety or maybe too simplistic |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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Not suggesting using your car to ram your way out, wind the window down and ask them to move, then use your lights and horn to attract attention to them,if they don't scatter as expected, use you phone to call police, its holding you against your will. |
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