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Good afternoon people, feeling very good about myself right now,
I have arranged a meet tonight, I am sure she is genuine, has some tasty verifications so looking forward to it, however she has challenged me 
Here's the situation, we have been speaking for about a month, have exchanged messages on here and a phone call or 2 over Xmas. We have arranged a meet tonight,
The lady in question has challenged me to push her boundaries beyond the limit, she has asked me to book a hotel room for the evening.
I have done this but as I can't finish work till 7pm she has asked if she can check in at 5pm which I have agreed.
She has just sent me a txt asking me to outline the hornets kinkiest thing what I want to do with her this evening, so I'm stuck for ideas.
So far I have told her to be in the bar area with a short skirt and no knickers on, and sit with her legs open so people could potentially see whilst we drink.
Any more ideas greatly appreciated |
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Without knowing what she is into - it's hard to suggest something that will 'push her boundaries'.
Sounds more like she is trying to see how far you can push yours. Unless you are expert into some way out stuff - could be a disappointment is on the cards. |
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Just looking for possible kinky scenarios, maybe the pushing boundaries has been miss read, ideas such as the door open etc are more of what I am thinking,
Without getting silly about ideas such as having full blown sex in public in the bar which we would not do anyway lol |
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"Good afternoon people, feeling very good about myself right now,
I have arranged a meet tonight, I am sure she is genuine, has some tasty verifications so looking forward to it, however she has challenged me
Here's the situation, we have been speaking for about a month, have exchanged messages on here and a phone call or 2 over Xmas. We have arranged a meet tonight,
The lady in question has challenged me to push her boundaries beyond the limit, she has asked me to book a hotel room for the evening.
I have done this but as I can't finish work till 7pm she has asked if she can check in at 5pm which I have agreed.
She has just sent me a txt asking me to outline the hornets kinkiest thing what I want to do with her this evening, so I'm stuck for ideas.
So far I have told her to be in the bar area with a short skirt and no knickers on, and sit with her legs open so people could potentially see whilst we drink.
Any more ideas greatly appreciated "
As shes checking in 2 hours before you ..presumably on your credit card guarantee Ask her to tie herself up on the bed so she doesnt use room service or nick the Television leaving you with an unexpected bill. Works every time.  |
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"Just looking for possible kinky scenarios, maybe the pushing boundaries has been miss read, ideas such as the door open etc are more of what I am thinking,
Without getting silly about ideas such as having full blown sex in public in the bar which we would not do anyway lol"
but we don't know what she's into. Being watched or potentially being watched might be a huge turn on for her or a huge turn off, she might love the idea of being tied up or hate it, she might be very keen to try watersports or think its disgusting.
This is why any activities that are going to go on during a meet are really much better being discussed with the person you're meeting. I also think it's a tiny bit of a cop out to ask someone else to come up with all the ideas, it means they take no responsibility if it goes wrong or they don't enjoy it. |
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"Just looking for possible kinky scenarios, maybe the pushing boundaries has been miss read, ideas such as the door open etc are more of what I am thinking,
Without getting silly about ideas such as having full blown sex in public in the bar which we would not do anyway lol
but we don't know what she's into. Being watched or potentially being watched might be a huge turn on for her or a huge turn off, she might love the idea of being tied up or hate it, she might be very keen to try watersports or think its disgusting.
This is why any activities that are going to go on during a meet are really much better being discussed with the person you're meeting. I also think it's a tiny bit of a cop out to ask someone else to come up with all the ideas, it means they take no responsibility if it goes wrong or they don't enjoy it. "
The idea behind getting ideas is so that I can put them to her, so what she is into is really not that important, I am clearly not going to do every idea put to me but a few good ones I will send over to her for approval by response, but thanks for your words anyway, regardless of wether a cop out or not it is what I have asked in the forum (y) |
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"Just looking for possible kinky scenarios, maybe the pushing boundaries has been miss read, ideas such as the door open etc are more of what I am thinking,
Without getting silly about ideas such as having full blown sex in public in the bar which we would not do anyway lol
but we don't know what she's into. Being watched or potentially being watched might be a huge turn on for her or a huge turn off, she might love the idea of being tied up or hate it, she might be very keen to try watersports or think its disgusting.
This is why any activities that are going to go on during a meet are really much better being discussed with the person you're meeting. I also think it's a tiny bit of a cop out to ask someone else to come up with all the ideas, it means they take no responsibility if it goes wrong or they don't enjoy it.
The idea behind getting ideas is so that I can put them to her, so what she is into is really not that important, I am clearly not going to do every idea put to me but a few good ones I will send over to her for approval by response, but thanks for your words anyway, regardless of wether a cop out or not it is what I have asked in the forum (y)"
Well, it may be very important. You see, not everyone is turned on my being bent over and slapped with a wet fish while singing Mamma Mia. Some prefer Barry Manilow. |
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"Just looking for possible kinky scenarios, maybe the pushing boundaries has been miss read, ideas such as the door open etc are more of what I am thinking,
Without getting silly about ideas such as having full blown sex in public in the bar which we would not do anyway lol
but we don't know what she's into. Being watched or potentially being watched might be a huge turn on for her or a huge turn off, she might love the idea of being tied up or hate it, she might be very keen to try watersports or think its disgusting.
This is why any activities that are going to go on during a meet are really much better being discussed with the person you're meeting. I also think it's a tiny bit of a cop out to ask someone else to come up with all the ideas, it means they take no responsibility if it goes wrong or they don't enjoy it.
The idea behind getting ideas is so that I can put them to her, so what she is into is really not that important, I am clearly not going to do every idea put to me but a few good ones I will send over to her for approval by response, but thanks for your words anyway, regardless of wether a cop out or not it is what I have asked in the forum (y)"
Ok. I was just replying from a different angle. |
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"Good afternoon people, feeling very good about myself right now,
I have arranged a meet tonight, I am sure she is genuine, has some tasty verifications so looking forward to it, however she has challenged me
Here's the situation, we have been speaking for about a month, have exchanged messages on here and a phone call or 2 over Xmas. We have arranged a meet tonight,
The lady in question has challenged me to push her boundaries beyond the limit, she has asked me to book a hotel room for the evening.
I have done this but as I can't finish work till 7pm she has asked if she can check in at 5pm which I have agreed.
She has just sent me a txt asking me to outline the hornets kinkiest thing what I want to do with her this evening, so I'm stuck for ideas.
So far I have told her to be in the bar area with a short skirt and no knickers on, and sit with her legs open so people could potentially see whilst we drink.
Any more ideas greatly appreciated "
So you have arranged a meet as Magically-Mystical.
And you are asking others for ideas
you don't sound very mystical to me
lets hope the lady doesn't see your posts and thinks the same  |
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We'll if she is maybe she can contribute lol