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bi curious or not bi curious
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From a male point of _iew do you think that admitting to being curious on a couples profile puts some couples off and closes more doors than it opens instead of putting straight down on your profile? Some people seam very prejudice towards bi guys. Thoughts please. |
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I'm openly bi and don't give a shit what people think....
I've never had a message from someone saying "I was going to let you fuck me, but you also fuck guys, so I won't"
But I bet I will now, lol |
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Surely it's better to put those people off who don't want to meet bi/bi curious guys and encourage those who actively seek them out? Personally I'm put off by profiles that show they're judgemental and say they're not interested in bi guys. Each to their own but I like people who are open and broad minded  |
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We've always thought it best to be honest about our preferences, our profile says we're both bi but in our blurb it states that male is willing to play straight if bi is not for you. If anyone dismisses us purely because of the bi listing then we probably wouldn't have clicked anyway...
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Incoming rant.....
It winds me up that people lie just to get a shag. If people want to try bi things, then try it. You're not going to get locked up...
Somebody not liking bi guys is the same as somebody not liking guys with ginger hair.. so should I dye my hair?
Also guys with straight on their profile, I'm including you. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, we're both bi and yes it has put people off but we've no ill will towards them. It's weird people don't mind bi women so much though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Incoming rant.....
It winds me up that people lie just to get a shag. If people want to try bi things, then try it. You're not going to get locked up...
Somebody not liking bi guys is the same as somebody not liking guys with ginger hair.. so should I dye my hair?
Also guys with straight on their profile, I'm including you.
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Were a full bi couple but choose not advertise males bi side for many reasons..
boroboy is more interested in females and would only play bi in an mmf situation.
Also it leads to tonnes unwanted mail asking for single guy hook ups which boroboy isnt interested in.
We find it impossible to find meets with couples reguardless of anything we list in our profile.
Most couples who contact are males playing alone.. the other couples only want to play with borogirl and suggest boroboy sits and watches..
So no matter what we put on our status, not a single couple play with us bi or straight... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were a full bi couple but choose not advertise males bi side for many reasons..
boroboy is more interested in females and would only play bi in an mmf situation.
Also it leads to tonnes unwanted mail asking for single guy hook ups which boroboy isnt interested in.
We find it impossible to find meets with couples reguardless of anything we list in our profile.
Most couples who contact are males playing alone.. the other couples only want to play with borogirl and suggest boroboy sits and watches..
So no matter what we put on our status, not a single couple play with us bi or straight... "
Their loss! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it's better to put those people off who don't want to meet bi/bi curious guys and encourage those who actively seek them out? Personally I'm put off by profiles that show they're judgemental and say they're not interested in bi guys. Each to their own but I like people who are open and broad minded "
Me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't message couples that have a bi or bi currious males. I have had two fairly long term relationships with guys but that was when I was in my early twenties before I dated women but now it not what I'm looking for.
It's a bit frustrating at times though because I'd love to find a couple to play with but the majority that catch my eye have a bi guy. |
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"Surely it's better to put those people off who don't want to meet bi/bi curious guys and encourage those who actively seek them out? Personally I'm put off by profiles that show they're judgemental and say they're not interested in bi guys. Each to their own but I like people who are open and broad minded "
Why assume people are judgemental because they don't meet bi guys? I don't meet bi, black, fat, short, married men. No where on my profile is judgement made (I'm fat and black) they just don't "fit" with how I play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, we're both bi and yes it has put people off but we've no ill will towards them. It's weird people don't mind bi women so much though. "
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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago
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Sure some are put off but so what ? Prefer to be honest and have the right type of people contact - don't have to be bi themselves but at least they know we are.
So many single guys and couples contact us and say they are bi but due to their jobs or other people's opinions they don't state it. We are put off by that to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see the word "liar" and "honest" being branded about this forum,,hmmm how many of you keep your membership on here quiet ,so quit the slagging of bisexual people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I changed my profile to bi after an amazing experience just before Christmas, a lady friend introduced me to some serious anal play, I now want to experience the real thing with a bi couple. If it puts others off, that's fine by me. Still doesn't change the fact I love sex with women, I just want to expand my sexual horizon. |
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Its too much of this type of attitute that really spoils this site for people like me.. cant help being black, cant help being bi, cant help being in a relationship.. so may a well delete our profile right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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putting "straight" puts bi cpls off ........ if you are Bi - just put it !! otherwise other bi people cant find you ........ fuck sake - its rocket surgery, or is it brain science? to some people   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, we're both bi and yes it has put people off but we've no ill will towards them. It's weird people don't mind bi women so much though. "
Bi women don't put there widgies up another guys ass tho.....maybe that's the reason? |
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"Were a full bi couple but choose not advertise males bi side for many reasons..
boroboy is more interested in females and would only play bi in an mmf situation.
Also it leads to tonnes unwanted mail asking for single guy hook ups which boroboy isnt interested in.
We find it impossible to find meets with couples reguardless of anything we list in our profile.
Most couples who contact are males playing alone.. the other couples only want to play with borogirl and suggest boroboy sits and watches..
So no matter what we put on our status, not a single couple play with us bi or straight... "
Stick to your principles and your status...but search out other couples and singles who you think match what you are looking for....and then chat.
We dont openly advertise for single guys due to the amount of mail we have recieved in the past and also because we have fairly specific criteria for single guys...one of which is bi curious or playful....if we want one we will find one
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Odd that some men like giving anal to women, but baulk at doing it to other men, or that some women like anal but don't want to meet men who do it with other men. Really, use a condom and I don't see the problem as to where your dick has been before. To each their own, I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont meet bi guys or girls because its not our thing, it doesnt matter that they may be willing to play straight with us, they are just not for us end of!
At least we are honest about it, we have had many mails from guys who have bi on their profile backed up with meets with single bi guys where the verification clearly shows they have played together yet when we refuse to meet them as they are bi the reply stating im not really bi had it on profile to get more meets .... So now they are liars as well as bi so an added reason we wont meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own, we're both bi and yes it has put people off but we've no ill will towards them. It's weird people don't mind bi women so much though.
Bi women don't put there widgies up another guys ass tho.....maybe that's the reason?"
I'm very bi but I still don't put my widgie up anyone's ass |
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I'm bi, used to put str8, but eventually bi curious and now bi. I don't think it makes a heypeth of difference if a guys gets a meet, but there are a bunch of small minded idiots who message back and say they won't meet bi guys, but don't think they'd meet anyway! I do like to remind them that in my experience a very large number, more than half, say their str8, but are bi, therefore large element of guys they meet do like and play with cock. At least bi and bi curious profiles are honest and probably lot safer |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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We have no bi guys on our profile;this is because Bugs is straight and therefore we are not looking for bi. We wouldn't play with a bi guy who will 'play straight' as it's our personal feeling that it is disrespectful to someone's preference to expect them to 'play' something they are not. Therefore it's easier and fairer to all parties to have no bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have no bi guys on our profile;this is because Bugs is straight and therefore we are not looking for bi. We wouldn't play with a bi guy who will 'play straight' as it's our personal feeling that it is disrespectful to someone's preference to expect them to 'play' something they are not. Therefore it's easier and fairer to all parties to have no bi.
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I can go with that. I feel the same I only prefer guys so would not be involved with a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ass is an ass. If it's a women's ass or a tvs ass (as there smooth etc) I think ate the same. If you talking about a hairy guys ass then maybe I can understand it's a bit off putting to some certain people.
This is my opinion and I know not everyone's before the fab police have me lol. But it's true why have anal sex with a women when they have a vagina. But then say no to a ts/tv (convincing of course.) When it's like the same. I'll say again this is my opinion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont go with bi guys and avoid them generally only because of past chats we have had - and there is always that doubt and inability for one or either of us to not be able to relax if we played and then there is no point |
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"We have no bi guys on our profile;this is because Bugs is straight and therefore we are not looking for bi. We wouldn't play with a bi guy who will 'play straight' as it's our personal feeling that it is disrespectful to someone's preference to expect them to 'play' something they are not. Therefore it's easier and fairer to all parties to have no bi.
Perfectly reasonable. People can choose who they have sex without needing to explain.
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"We have no bi guys on our profile;this is because Bugs is straight and therefore we are not looking for bi. We wouldn't play with a bi guy who will 'play straight' as it's our personal feeling that it is disrespectful to someone's preference to expect them to 'play' something they are not. Therefore it's easier and fairer to all parties to have no bi.
Perfectly reasonable. People can choose who they have sex without needing to explain.
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I explained in response to a comment above that suggested those that have 'no bi' are somehow judgemental of those who are bi. |
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