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I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get very few inbox messages. That's what we get for having face pics of my ugly mug!
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Don't be hard on yourself G, you look great as a sexy Dracula.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get very few inbox messages. That's what we get for having face pics of my ugly mug!
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Certainly no ugly mugs. Maybe I'll inbox you to boost morale |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Were not too bothered if we receive mail or not.
When we do its usually from single guys who've not read profile and send us a Mail, which usually results in us either deleting straight away or if feeling generous send a no thanks reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have never been into double figures in our inbox and probably average about 1-2 Messages a day.
However when we had a single female profile with no information or pictures on it. (We were using the profile to toe dip at the time) She got hundreds of messages praising her on her sexy profile go figure?!?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ |
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well as a ropey old slut tv, i still get lots of messages.especially whenever i post a new pic up,so i do that often ..99.9% of them tho, are just from guys that will never meet and just want to talk dirty. |
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"I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ "
If definitely would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never been into double figures in our inbox and probably average about 1-2 Messages a day.
However when we had a single female profile with no information or pictures on it. (We were using the profile to toe dip at the time) She got hundreds of messages praising her on her sexy profile go figure?!??"
I work in Roman numerals so consider 2 (II) as double figures; I have achieved this once or twice in my IV years on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't get many messages either, most are from friends we already have, although we do have one or two filters on I suppose, but I wouldn't say Cpls get plastered with messages, certainly not like single females do! |
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"I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ "
Whatever gives you that idea?!  |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol"
Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if I go on cam my message box bursts its so full,wiggle,wiggle 
seriously some of the best messages I get is from folk on the forum sharing a joke and that includes guys that DONT fancy me but are comfortable messaging me,oh and the ladies havin a giggle at some of the silliness we all post. |
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"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol
Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. "
Prob not....I try to fill your box if I can. No room for other messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol
Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. "
Haha probs was just tell them yeah and wave a huge dilly at them sure they'll run then lol |
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"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol
Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. "
Nagh, that was probably me. he he |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol
Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message.
Nagh, that was probably me. he he"
Thought I recognised that shirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile
Fibber  
Of and from crazy friends too 
I resemble that remark! Smacked bottie for you young lady.  "
Bring it on..... |
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I used to think it would be nice to be a woman and get "hundreds of messages"
Then a girl i met showed me the amount of FILTH AND ABUSE she gets.......scary really......
So now i'm happy with my very scarce nice messages. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does getting a new message look like? I have never seen such a thing!
And you can shush aswell! Bloody pimpernell "
Guess my message was sent second class post ey? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm getting between 5 and 10 per day at the min....clearly they haven't read my profile or they wouldn't bother! I tried hiding it for a while but the forumites got very angry with this. I considered blocking everyone but I do enjoy people messaging me regarding comments in the forum, so I guess I'll have to endure the unsolicited messages!! Lol |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!"
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to |
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"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to"
It wasn't mine then? LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to"
Exactly this. It is fun in the beginning but the novelty soon wears off. After stating in the forum once I received about 300 messages per day, I was chastised for still not being able to find somebody suitable, but as you say, they are mostly useless....endless cock shots, copied and pasted and "hi" messages for people who had clearly not read my profile! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to
It wasn't mine then? LOL"
I replied; maybe the reply was useless |
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"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to
It wasn't mine then? LOL
I replied; maybe the reply was useless "
You probably didn't put 'UC, I'd love to meet you' in the subject line. ha ha |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to
It wasn't mine then? LOL
I replied; maybe the reply was useless
You probably didn't put 'UC, I'd love to meet you' in the subject line. ha ha"
good put down; x |
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"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol
Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message.
Nagh, that was probably me. he he
Thought I recognised that shirt."
I always recognise those legs. (and the witches hat. LOL) |
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"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!
You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to
It wasn't mine then? LOL
I replied; maybe the reply was useless
You probably didn't put 'UC, I'd love to meet you' in the subject line. ha ha
good put down; x"
I'd rather be doing the 'pick up' with you, if I'm honest. xx |
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I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.
Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people! |
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"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.
Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people! "
Do I have to bi & female to get on the 'visit list' LOL |
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"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.
Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people! "
I am near Libs if you get down this way
(Skulks off realising he seems a bit desperate  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ "
Yep, very different!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.
Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people!
Do I have to bi & female to get on the 'visit list' LOL"
Unfortunately, yes! But honestly, I love meeting new people, even if it's just to chat and say hello to. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"
Nope. Look all woman to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"
They must have missed the pic of the 32Ds |
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"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.
Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people!
Do I have to bi & female to get on the 'visit list' LOL
Unfortunately, yes! But honestly, I love meeting new people, even if it's just to chat and say hello to. x"
Well, if you view my profile, you'll see that works for me to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sneaky tactic I think!
I've just realised I've replied to more messages that have been insults than any other message. From now on I'll just delete and block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love logging on and seeing we have messages , we always try and reply cause if someones taken the effort to message us then we do the same . Even if its " hi how are you tonight " for the tength time lol. |
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"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"
I've commented on your hot, sexy arse on other threads already, You sure you're not just fishing for another one? he he |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?
I've commented on your hot, sexy arse on other threads already, You sure you're not just fishing for another one? he he"
Surely not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally only get lovely messages. Ok they are generally replies from friends but lovely all the same. Although I did end up with a guy spending a lot of time trying to convince me I should let him suck me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, particuarly in the week, we can get 10 to 12 messages a day. Other times like weekends, we get nothing.
It's been especially quiet this holiday too. Lol x"
If I was a little nearer to Leicester I would've messaged you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile
Fibber
Of and from crazy friends too
I resemble that remark! Smacked bottie for you young lady.
Bring it on.....
Oh I like it when.your in hussie mode  "
How did you guess |
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"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?
I've commented on your hot, sexy arse on other threads already, You sure you're not just fishing for another one? he he
Surely not "
ummm. Yours is pretty good to. he he |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.
4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)
2 from potentials...
10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations
and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all
and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan... |
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"Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.
4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)
2 from potentials...
10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations
and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all
and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan... "
No problem with Liverpool fans, just the living in Scotland that's the only problem.
Oh yer, and the fact you're not meeting anyone new  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I live in hope for that one message that matches my preferences, shows respect, has a half way decent profile and some pics that are not of their cock, just the one that makes me think 'Oh Yes!'
I might happen in 2015.....  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.
4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)
2 from potentials...
10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations
and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all
and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan...
No problem with Liverpool fans, just the living in Scotland that's the only problem.
Oh yer, and the fact you're not meeting anyone new "
My profile doesn't say I am not meeting anyone new... just says I am not rushing into any meets... slight difference
Oh add in the lovely one I just had saying I am fake and my pictures cannot possibly be me |
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"Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.
4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)
2 from potentials...
10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations
and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all
and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan...
No problem with Liverpool fans, just the living in Scotland that's the only problem.
Oh yer, and the fact you're not meeting anyone new
My profile doesn't say I am not meeting anyone new... just says I am not rushing into any meets... slight difference
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So there's still a chance.
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Oh add in the lovely one I just had saying I am fake and my pictures cannot possibly be me "
Maybe, like me, he finds it almost impossible to believe that such a stunning arse has not been photoshoped. I guess it's just one of the hazards of being gorgeous. xx |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
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Maybe, like me, he finds it almost impossible to believe that such a stunning arse has not been photoshoped. I guess it's just one of the hazards of being gorgeous. xx "
Definitely not photoshopped... no idea how to do anything like that, and don't see the point - how horrible would it be to turn up to a meet and for someone to be disappointed for that?
Not sure about gorgeous - that one always makes me laugh - I could have a face like a melted wellie boot for all my pictures show... |
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imagine..
every day...
multiple one liners from shit profiles.
multiple emails from men you really wouldn't want to meet
multiple emails from guys who didn't read the profile AT ALL
one, maybe one, nice email, 60% chance it's from someone you wouldnt meet
so by the time you find a decent email that si from someone you would meet... you are sick of the whole thing.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol
So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds |
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Maybe, like me, he finds it almost impossible to believe that such a stunning arse has not been photoshoped. I guess it's just one of the hazards of being gorgeous. xx
Definitely not photoshopped... no idea how to do anything like that, and don't see the point - how horrible would it be to turn up to a meet and for someone to be disappointed for that?
Not sure about gorgeous - that one always makes me laugh - I could have a face like a melted wellie boot for all my pictures show... "
The pic in the Liverpool shirt shows enough to know that you ain't no minger. And the overall impression from the arse and figure shots puts you, IMHO, well into the gorgeous category. he he |
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"I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol
So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds "
If men could see what we deal with, they might start writing decent emails. |
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"I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol
So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds
If men could see what we deal with, they might start writing decent emails."
I tried that once... still got deleted though  |
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"I still have the same feeling. One comes in and I think at last possible route to success but oh know it's from TV/TS "
you gotta block them mate. they dont like being told that because they think they are female, the cock they have says otherwise. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol
So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds
If men could see what we deal with, they might start writing decent emails."
And we would have less threads about messages not being replied to |
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"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!"
Inundated? no lol |
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On a regular (not for a advertised meet) day we get 1-2 messages, sometimes more but not often. When we advertise a meet (normally about 2 weeks before the planned day) we get the same for about the first week, rising to 4-5 in the run up and sometimes 20 or more on the day itself. Guys are definitely have a more "go and get it" attitude than couples which is why we use this profile more and more now. We never fail to find one or more guys that actually turn up to play when we search for a meet. Single guys we love them |
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"On a regular (not for a advertised meet) day we get 1-2 messages, sometimes more but not often. When we advertise a meet (normally about 2 weeks before the planned day) we get the same for about the first week, rising to 4-5 in the run up and sometimes 20 or more on the day itself. Guys are definitely have a more "go and get it" attitude than couples which is why we use this profile more and more now. We never fail to find one or more guys that actually turn up to play when we search for a meet. Single guys we love them "
And very good fun you are to. Hope to catch you again when I'm next at one of the Office Parties. ;-) |
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