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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"Realistically, what do you really expect with 5 dick pics and 2 lines on your profile?"
As blunt as this sounds.... This!
Fairly certain most on here know what a dick looks like, what they don't know is why they should chose yours over anybody else's... So pop a little effort into your profile as its essentially your 'shop window'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys need to stop being disheartened on here. Facts are women are outnumbered by guys 100 to 1 or more. Those who don't have any filters on will get countless messages from guys. This makes a woman who is at best a 4 looks wise think she is an 8 or above. You'll have a list of demands off women who wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys need to stop being disheartened on here. Facts are women are outnumbered by guys 100 to 1 or more. Those who don't have any filters on will get countless messages from guys. This makes a woman who is at best a 4 looks wise think she is an 8 or above. You'll have a list of demands off women who wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
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You sound like a bloke.
I'm ok, here I'm a 5 and in the real world I'm a 8.5  |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
The Dungeon |
"Realistically, what do you really expect with 5 dick pics and 2 lines on your profile?"
That ^
Your profile is the way you sell yourself on fabs if you're a single guy (surprisingly not the willy shots, especially those with the remotes for comparison), well that applies to everyone really but more so guys than couples or fems. A good looking willy is a thing of beauty but continuous pics of it become boring very quickly.
We look for an informative profile, then we look at their verifications and then, and only then, their pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My questionable bit of advice:
Inject a little personality into your profile, both the text and images.
Be clear about who you are, and who you'd like to meet...
Go to socials, involve yourself in forums, and visit a club sometime.
Oh, and for goodness sake man...wear a hat! |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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"Oh and I meant to add that looks are subjective so you and I may rate a 9 to some men and only 2 to others  "
My hubby thinks I'm a 10 so who cares what anyone else rates me. But you're right really, looks are subjective at best. My hubby finds a certain look very attractive (short haired brunettes are his main thing, Asian ladies for skin tone etc) and others bland. He's not a blonde fan yet I'm blonde so it's just goes to show doesn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys need to stop being disheartened on here. Facts are women are outnumbered by guys 100 to 1 or more. Those who don't have any filters on will get countless messages from guys. This makes a woman who is at best a 4 looks wise think she is an 8 or above. You'll have a list of demands off women who wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some things not helping;
Non existent profile that says nothing about you or what you want/why you're here.
Your age will go against you and what exactly is your correct age?
You username will put many off.
All cock pics and a cock profile pic, instant delete/move on for me and I'm sure many others.
Make more of an effort on your profile, it needs to sell you. Surely you have more to offer than just a cock. If you were to sell your car, would you put a couple of rubbish pics of the gear stick and a text saying "its a car"? Probably not as no one would be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys need to stop being disheartened on here. Facts are women are outnumbered by guys 100 to 1 or more. Those who don't have any filters on will get countless messages from guys. This makes a woman who is at best a 4 looks wise think she is an 8 or above. You'll have a list of demands off women who wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
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I've never once seen any kind of demand.....I've seen preferences on.profiles yeah but not demands.
I'm assuming you don't have any 'demands' no demands on what a guy looks like or the type of character he is etc.....
In which case.....you fancy a fuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you sent us a message we wouldn't reply, just cock shots and 3 lines on your profile shows lack of effort, when we receive a message we look at the profile then the message, yours says nothing about you, likes, dislikes etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as said above, nothing but cock pics is boring (one is ok)
21 or 23 too young for most whichever is right, very poor profile text
And the use of 'master' in your profile name implies experience and knowledge......at 21/23 with the best will in the world you don't have that much, I would eat you alive lmfao |
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Your profile is the equivilant of going up to a women in a nightclub, waving your cock at her and yelling "YEAH FUCK ME BITCH".
Assuming you are not stupid enough to do that in real life, stop thinking it's suitable for here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes is hard I'm finding hard to but chatted to some nice people lots of lady say take ur time iv ask some of my friend and other and found them careing and warm not yet meet any body but have a meet next week been on two weeks ash  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as said above, nothing but cock pics is boring (one is ok)
21 or 23 too young for most whichever is right, very poor profile text
And the use of 'master' in your profile name implies experience and knowledge......at 21/23 with the best will in the world you don't have that much, I would eat you alive lmfao "
Yep, this.  |
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The stats say you're 21,your profile text says you're 23, doesn't bode well if you can't get that right. Your name maybe off putting, most women don't want a master, if they do they're much more likely to go for an experienced one. What do I know about it? I'm a Domme Mistress x you can't accom, that's a negative, but you could help yourself out by saying if you can provide an alternative.
After a while cock pics are just like looking at elbows, very boring. Change your pics, there's nothing to catch a lady's interest, it doesn't say anything about you x now let's see if you take any advice from anyone about your profile or is it just another 'look at me' post x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would add the word 'fail' after your name and then that way you can be a success. "
Or I would add the word 'bate' after your name and then that way you can be a success |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys need to stop being disheartened on here. Facts are women are outnumbered by guys 100 to 1 or more. Those who don't have any filters on will get countless messages from guys. This makes a woman who is at best a 4 looks wise think she is an 8 or above. You'll have a list of demands off women who wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
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This actually is a valid point. In a place where numbers count for a lot. As an example look at the meets for today. Just see how many men there are to women and couples. Guys join here and expect a quick shag then come crashing to reality. Be original with your pictures and profile. Start to post in the forums as little things like this can set you apart from the competition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the same way, any suggestions to be made?
I just think people aren't interested in young lads for sexy fun, for honesty reasons or whatever, security perhaps.. but I am 100% genuine and know that only few have perfect figures x |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
"The stats say you're 21,your profile text says you're 23, doesn't bode well if you can't get that right. Your name maybe off putting, most women don't want a master, if they do they're much more likely to go for an experienced one. What do I know about it? I'm a Domme Mistress x you can't accom, that's a negative, but you could help yourself out by saying if you can provide an alternative.
After a while cock pics are just like looking at elbows, very boring. Change your pics, there's nothing to catch a lady's interest, it doesn't say anything about you x now let's see if you take any advice from anyone about your profile or is it just another 'look at me' post x"
In my experience women get really turned on by a man who knows how old he is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same way, any suggestions to be made?
I just think people aren't interested in young lads for sexy fun, for honesty reasons or whatever, security perhaps.. but I am 100% genuine and know that only few have perfect figures x"
the only reason we aren't into young lads is our eldest son is 22 and it would feel wrong for us, I think this is the case for most on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's hats. Get a hat.
I keep telling them to get a hat but they never bloody listen ...
It's the old adage - 'if you want to get (a)head get a hat'"
Times change, its all about the beard! |
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"It's hats. Get a hat.
I keep telling them to get a hat but they never bloody listen ...
It's the old adage - 'if you want to get (a)head get a hat'
Times change, its all about the beard!"
Beards are cool to (well, on blokes anyway). They often look good with a fez. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok. I'm sold on the hat idea, and it seems to be a sure thing. Next question is...what kind? The boater is a good look for you, like an Edwardian pimp in some ways but bringing it up to date, what do you think about a Sid James "Titfer", or possibly even a rather snazzy Panama? Any ideas?
And OP, after you've got a hat, take some more pics - not of your cock - and write any old bollocks on your profile. It'd be a marked improvement on the two lines of nothing that's there now. |
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"Ok. I'm sold on the hat idea, and it seems to be a sure thing. Next question is...what kind? The boater is a good look for you, like an Edwardian pimp in some ways but bringing it up to date, what do you think about a Sid James "Titfer", or possibly even a rather snazzy Panama? Any ideas?
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Pith helmet, old chap. Goes with anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pith helmet, old chap. Goes with anything "
Inspired choice. I shall make it so.
Add that to the monocle / cravat combo I'm sporting and God only knows what'll happen. I'll wager there'll be a lot of fizzy knickers out there when I hit the town. |
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"Pith helmet, old chap. Goes with anything
Inspired choice. I shall make it so.
Add that to the monocle / cravat combo I'm sporting and God only knows what'll happen. I'll wager there'll be a lot of fizzy knickers out there when I hit the town. "
You'd be surprised, old chap, I can assure you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok. I'm sold on the hat idea, and it seems to be a sure thing. Next question is...what kind? The boater is a good look for you, like an Edwardian pimp in some ways but bringing it up to date, what do you think about a Sid James "Titfer", or possibly even a rather snazzy Panama? Any ideas?
And OP, after you've got a hat, take some more pics - not of your cock - and write any old bollocks on your profile. It'd be a marked improvement on the two lines of nothing that's there now. "
Gotta be a top hat for me.... |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok. I'm sold on the hat idea, and it seems to be a sure thing. Next question is...what kind? The boater is a good look for you, like an Edwardian pimp in some ways but bringing it up to date, what do you think about a Sid James "Titfer", or possibly even a rather snazzy Panama? Any ideas?
And OP, after you've got a hat, take some more pics - not of your cock - and write any old bollocks on your profile. It'd be a marked improvement on the two lines of nothing that's there now.
Gotta be a top hat for me...."
I concur on the top hat. A cane sets it off a treat.  |
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"Ok. I'm sold on the hat idea, and it seems to be a sure thing. Next question is...what kind? The boater is a good look for you, like an Edwardian pimp in some ways but bringing it up to date, what do you think about a Sid James "Titfer", or possibly even a rather snazzy Panama? Any ideas?
And OP, after you've got a hat, take some more pics - not of your cock - and write any old bollocks on your profile. It'd be a marked improvement on the two lines of nothing that's there now.
Gotta be a top hat for me....
I concur on the top hat. A cane sets it off a treat. "
I wore one with my tailcoat at a swingers Halloween party. I got a lot of attention that night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like I'm getting nowhere too, wonder if its something about my profile?! 
Nope, just checked. It had me rock hard and wanting to message in less than 3 seconds. It's fine "
Thanks. I've taken advice from the countless crap profiles on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok. I'm sold on the hat idea, and it seems to be a sure thing. Next question is...what kind? The boater is a good look for you, like an Edwardian pimp in some ways but bringing it up to date, what do you think about a Sid James "Titfer", or possibly even a rather snazzy Panama? Any ideas?
And OP, after you've got a hat, take some more pics - not of your cock - and write any old bollocks on your profile. It'd be a marked improvement on the two lines of nothing that's there now.
Gotta be a top hat for me....
I concur on the top hat. A cane sets it off a treat.
I wore one with my tailcoat at a swingers Halloween party. I got a lot of attention that night "
You pull it off though
If I tried ... think Danny De Vito as The Penguin |
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"Guys need to stop being disheartened on here. Facts are women are outnumbered by guys 100 to 1 or more. Those who don't have any filters on will get countless messages from guys. This makes a woman who is at best a 4 looks wise think she is an 8 or above. You'll have a list of demands off women who wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
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Totally spot on |
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