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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anybody else not like to wear make up?
If you met someone and they weren't wearing make up would you think they hadn't made an effort or what other thoughts would you have? How about on a night out, would you have a different opinion?
Yes i am bored lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody else not like to wear make up?
If you met someone and they weren't wearing make up would you think they hadn't made an effort or what other thoughts would you have? How about on a night out, would you have a different opinion?
Yes i am bored lol."
Definitely I'd rather meet someone with little makeup or not at all than a girl with so much makeup that she looks like a stereotype !
I love my woman to be natural |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not against make up just i feel weird wearing it so don't bother. Was just wondering if people felt it meant the other person hadn't made an effort (especially on a night out somewhere).
None of the guys i have met said anything either so figured it probably didn't matter, nice to see some people confirm that, thanks. Don't mind seeing conflicting views as well if anyone has any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I more often than not go without.
I dye my lashes and Purely as I get so many comments about my eyes when I do wear mascara & eyeliner I'm thinking of having permanent eyeliner done
Special occasions maybe a bit of eye shadow.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't wear make up to work, a little at weekends in the daytime if im going shopping.
However I would always year make up if going out in the evening. I like to paint my face, wear fake lashes, draw beauty spots on, I even stick diamantes on my face at times. I neither ask or care what other people think  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry guys, I am a girly girl and would never go without my make up!
I wear it everyday unless I am having a quiet pj day, but would never meet without the full shebang, just the way I am.
So those that like the Au Naturel look? I am not for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a first meet I usually wear makeup. It doesn't usually stay on for long. If I meet again I don't usually put much on,it's a waste of time and makeup. I don't wear makeup at all unless I'm going out or meeting someone |
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"The less make up, the more confidence I say "
To be fair I wouldn't agree with that statement...I wear make up on a daily basis...it is often natural looking unless a big night out...doesn't mean I'm less confident if I didn't wear it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The less make up, the more confidence I say
To be fair I wouldn't agree with that statement...I wear make up on a daily basis...it is often natural looking unless a big night out...doesn't mean I'm less confident if I didn't wear it "
Apologies - I didn't give a clear statement...I meant that for some people they cake it on, and spend hours putting on their make up as part of a military regime, when it makes them stand out more for the wrong reasons. Some people use more than they need to show their natural beauty etc I mean.
You look great cheeky, not too much at all  |
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I prefer the natural look, but a bit of lippy for a bj is ok 
Used to live next door to a lass who would put on as much slap as is humanly possible even if she was just nipping down the corner shop for a packet of fags  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The less make up, the more confidence I say
To be fair I wouldn't agree with that statement...I wear make up on a daily basis...it is often natural looking unless a big night out...doesn't mean I'm less confident if I didn't wear it
Apologies - I didn't give a clear statement...I meant that for some people they cake it on, and spend hours putting on their make up as part of a military regime, when it makes them stand out more for the wrong reasons. Some people use more than they need to show their natural beauty etc I mean.
You look great cheeky, not too much at all "
Oh that sounds like me! Oh well as we say on here, we can't be for everyone! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was more wanting opinions on whether people would think it was lazy of me to not wear it.
Do like that someone said it gives off confidence, although i don't feel more confident i just don't like how i look in make up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never wear any day to day but I will wear some when I go out or if I'm meeting someone.
I don't think anyone will think you've not made an effort OP. You do what's comfortable for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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During the day very rarely wear make up. Don't feel the need to. Night time I tend to trowel it on. Not because I have confidence issues but more because I like the way it looks and enjoy being transferred into something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry guys, I am a girly girl and would never go without my make up!
I wear it everyday unless I am having a quiet pj day, but would never meet without the full shebang, just the way I am.
So those that like the Au Naturel look? I am not for you x"
Ditto
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to live next door to a lass who would put on as much slap as is humanly possible even if she was just nipping down the corner shop for a packet of fags "
Why shouldn't she? Some people happen to think themselves worthy of pampering - I'd say THAT shows confidence and self-love. It's nice to make an effort, it shows self respect
S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like wearing makeup and I look better with it on in my opinion ..but not caked on just enough to enhance what I have ..having said that I'm quite happy going without when I'm not in work |
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For obvious reasons make up is essential for Katie, love doing eyes and blusher and lipstick is a must however I do find mascara to be a pain as I can never do it without smudging and its a pain getting it all off when katie has finished playing. False eyelashes are fun but take some getting used to as all you real women will know if you have worn them. I will include nails in the make up piece as to katie it's all part of the transformation ad guys love a hand with red nails around their erections and also they love it when youndig the nails in their skin although I have lost a couple through the glue not been strong enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Used to live next door to a lass who would put on as much slap as is humanly possible even if she was just nipping down the corner shop for a packet of fags
Why shouldn't she? Some people happen to think themselves worthy of pampering - I'd say THAT shows confidence and self-love. It's nice to make an effort, it shows self respect
S x"
my personal opinion is that going without makeup shows confidence. It show's someone is happy to be seen as they really look |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Used to live next door to a lass who would put on as much slap as is humanly possible even if she was just nipping down the corner shop for a packet of fags
Why shouldn't she? Some people happen to think themselves worthy of pampering - I'd say THAT shows confidence and self-love. It's nice to make an effort, it shows self respect
S x my personal opinion is that going without makeup shows confidence. It show's someone is happy to be seen as they really look "
Or doesn't care?
A lot of men seem threatened by well-groomed women
S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something that registers on my radar . I've met women who wear none and they are just as keen to make the best of themselves . If you think a woman who wears none doesn't care, surely that's the same as saying they should always wear flattering clothes . People don't expect men to pluck their eyebrows and wear concealer . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something that registers on my radar . I've met women who wear none and they are just as keen to make the best of themselves . If you think a woman who wears none doesn't care, surely that's the same as saying they should always wear flattering clothes . People don't expect men to pluck their eyebrows and wear concealer . . "
It all comes down to personal choice at the end of the day. I don't expect people to do anything - I don't actually care whether someone chooses to wear make-up or not, or whether an item of clothing they've chosen to wear flatters them. Its all about self- expression. Not confidence.
S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not something that registers on my radar . I've met women who wear none and they are just as keen to make the best of themselves . If you think a woman who wears none doesn't care, surely that's the same as saying they should always wear flattering clothes . People don't expect men to pluck their eyebrows and wear concealer . .
It all comes down to personal choice at the end of the day. I don't expect people to do anything - I don't actually care whether someone chooses to wear make-up or not, or whether an item of clothing they've chosen to wear flatters them. Its all about self- expression. Not confidence.
S x"
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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I don't wear makeup for work. If I am meeting just eyeliner and mascara. One meet I never bothered with makeup the whole time he was there, nor styled my hair after showers. Not because I couldn't be bothered but just comfortable in being without. Personally when I used to wear makeup I felt it was a mask not the real me. |
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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago
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I rarely wear foundation or powder as I don't like the feel of it on my skin. But I won't leave the house without eye make up and lipgloss. I wear make up because I think I look better with it on and it gives me more confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love wearing make up and so what if it gives you confidence. I like looking good. I do think people who don't wear any probably don't care about their appearance. There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has their own priorities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love wearing make up and so what if it gives you confidence. I like looking good. I do think people who don't wear any probably don't care about their appearance. There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has their own priorities. "
I like looking good too and just because I don't plaster make up on certainly does't mean I don't care about my appearance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love wearing make up and so what if it gives you confidence. I like looking good. I do think people who don't wear any probably don't care about their appearance. There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has their own priorities.
I like looking good too and just because I don't plaster make up on certainly does't mean I don't care about my appearance! "
To be fair, it's her opinion and she said 'probably don't care', not that they don't care. x
Some people don't need make up. Some have skin conditions and need to wear make up. |
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It's one of those things isn't it. Nobody is right or wrong. Make up is a choice for most of us.....nothing wrong with choosing to use it and nothing wrong with choosing not to. It probably doesn't mean very much about a person whichever choice they make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have time most mornings to spend ages doing my hair and make up so i only ever wear the bare minimum for work. I couldn't go out with no make up. I look awful without. Not lazy though just bad at managing my time. Don't really understand why the op is bothered that people will think she is lazy or doesn't care about her appearance. I don't give a stuff what others think. I have other priorities in my life and looking my best at all times isn't one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wear loads every day, but I like to. I do look better with it than without, but it's also part of my routine, I find it relaxing.
I'd never think someone who wasn't wearing any was lazy though. Only way I'd think it was odd is if I knew they usually did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always wear a little make up I think I look tired without it (probably because I am!) But I don't trowel it on, make up was designed to enhance what we already have but I think a lot of girls these days put so much on that it distorts how they actually look (think Towie)
But in answer to your question op I don't think its a issue you not wearing makeup, obviously if teamed with scruffy hair and clothes we would assume no effort had been made but it would be the whole package not just a bit of make up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most people look better with makeup I like red lipstick and bb cream but cant wear eye makeup. I like to see other women wearing some makeup especialy lipstick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always wear a little make up I think I look tired without it (probably because I am!) But I don't trowel it on, make up was designed to enhance what we already have but I think a lot of girls these days put so much on that it distorts how they actually look (think Towie)
But in answer to your question op I don't think its a issue you not wearing makeup, obviously if teamed with scruffy hair and clothes we would assume no effort had been made but it would be the whole package not just a bit of make up "
It may have initially been designed to enhance but us Tgirls need to coverup a beard shadow so bring on the trowel and roller |
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"I don't wear much makeup in summer, or on a meet, as I don't want to end up looking like a panda when I get all hot under the collar!  "
That's what hairspray is for...I always spray hairspray on my face before going out and it stops the panda eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During the day very rarely wear make up. Don't feel the need to. Night time I tend to trowel it on. Not because I have confidence issues but more because I like the way it looks and enjoy being transferred into something else."
^^ This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love wearing make up and so what if it gives you confidence. I like looking good. I do think people who don't wear any probably don't care about their appearance. There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has their own priorities.
I like looking good too and just because I don't plaster make up on certainly does't mean I don't care about my appearance! "
Didn't realise i was talking to you personally? Talk about over reacting.  |
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I wear make up most days, just a little to enhance what I'm already blessed with 
For a night out I just wear the same but with a lipstick.
For meets in the past I've only ever worn my every day make up and never had a comment/complaint. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some really good opinions in here thanks to all who replied, i enjoyed reading them.
Never really thought about the hair and dressing up is part of making an effort as well, so that's something to think about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody else not like to wear make up?
If you met someone and they weren't wearing make up would you think they hadn't made an effort or what other thoughts would you have? How about on a night out, would you have a different opinion?
Yes i am bored lol."
I never wear makeup and I generally prefer women (and men) that don't wear makeup either to be honest. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I wear make up very rarely. If I choose to (normally only if I'm going out somewhere special) I tend to do eyes and that's it. I've done lipstick for the odd photo on here but can't remember the last time I actually wore it out. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I've had to turn a few people down for meets on the grounds it takes 90 minutes to glam up and it's not worth it for a 15 minute fumble. A couple then told me to meet them without make up on. I felt that they were missing the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's part of a night out for me, I enjoy getting ready, choosing the right make up and hair style for the occasion. It's not heavy as I tend to enhance either eyes or lips.
I've met during the day before with minimal or no make up, not a problem for me to do so. |
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"I don't wear much makeup in summer, or on a meet, as I don't want to end up looking like a panda when I get all hot under the collar!
That's what hairspray is for...I always spray hairspray on my face before going out and it stops the panda eyes "
glad I'm not only one who does this. I always have a full face and still mostly in place after playing if hairsprayed on ...only tastes funny for first few kisses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't wear make-up day-to day as I think it's important to let the skin 'breathe' - but for a meet or an evening out i'l always wear natural looking make-up - just as i'll generally wear my hair down and always wear matching lingerie and hold-up's if i'm wearing a dress! I guess it gives me confidence! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wear powder and mascara. Luckily my skin is usually alright. If it's a very special occasion, I'll wear eye liner and blusher but they're risky and easily go wrong for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't wear makeup for work. If I am meeting just eyeliner and mascara. One meet I never bothered with makeup the whole time he was there, nor styled my hair after showers. Not because I couldn't be bothered but just comfortable in being without. Personally when I used to wear makeup I felt it was a mask not the real me."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cant remember the last time ive ever used foundation/concealer etc, generally ive good skin.
day to day i'll just wear mascara as my lashes are blonde and some chap stick that has a pale pink colour too it to keep my lips hydrated.
i can go all out nd do the whole shebang but i feel like if i dance or get remotely hot then its gonna melt down my face and frankly id rather have a great time then worry about that
xmas day this year it was just eyeliner (blue) and mascara. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i rarely wear makeup - a little tinted moisturiser at most to a meet with mascara - lipstick is ok but i tend to choose a colour not far off my lip colour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love my make up! Never used to wear it unless I was going out but now it's worn almost daily, even Sunday's! I definitely feel so much more comfortable and confident with it on rather than looking tired or unwell, it often gets asked if I go to work without it on nowadays so for me it's a must  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love my make up! Never used to wear it unless I was going out but now it's worn almost daily, even Sunday's! I definitely feel so much more comfortable and confident with it on rather than looking tired or unwell, it often gets asked if I go to work without it on nowadays so for me it's a must "
I'm the same. If I don't have the usual makeup on, I'll get loads of comments like "ooh you look a bit peaky" and "didn't you sleep well". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Though on the ladies....nice when you meet. But if you wake up with them it's not necessary for breakfast!"
my wake up look with him isnt pretty as its usually a fall asleep after hot sweaty sex - hes used to it and we always share the showertime  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only wear make up on a night out, and even then it's very minimal. I don't know how to apply some of it properly...in fact I had a mini make over for the works do last weekend and that was the first time I'd ever worn blusher in my life! I don't wear it day to day, which my work colleague who sits across from me every day seemed shocked at when I mentioned it to him...not sure why as who'd wear make up to look this fooked!
Trying to think of meets I've actually worn it for, and think there was only one fb where he'd specifically asked for heavy mascara. I've never had any complaints/comments on not wearing it, and to be honest if anyone did take issue with it then we'd prob not be suited as that's not who I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wish my skin was clear enough that I didn't have to wear any make up. I don't wear tons just enough to cover up blemishes and spots "
Same here....i probably wouldn't bother at all if I had nice skin |
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"During the day very rarely wear make up. Don't feel the need to. Night time I tend to trowel it on. Not because I have confidence issues but more because I like the way it looks and enjoy being transferred into something else.
^^ This. "
There is something rather lovely about this process. |
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"I do tend to prefer ladies who don't feel they need to wear make up x
What about the ones that WANT to?
S x"
Depends upon the causation and frequency of that want
If they wanted to wear full slap all the time morning to night , then they would not be my preference
I would consider it an habitual mask, rather than a punctuation of beauty
There is lots of psychological data , and even more cosmetic industry promotion , for me to reasonably ask , why do certain women want to wear the full kit 18 hours a day.
"It makes me feel better " some say
Very glad to hear so does smoking for some
Why does it make you feel better
Cos it does and that's what counts
That's great as long as you don't feel manipulated , the marketing has worked
No I do what I want
That's good matters not to me as long as you're happy
I am
Good x I prefer women who can be happy with or without make up
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