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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit  |
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"So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit "
We will keeping a close eye on this thread. We are building up to our first meet. Had a pre-meet social and will be camming for him soon. Then for the meet itself |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
"I just move in for the kill if he doesn't kiss me quick enough. I'm beginning to think I'm a bit forward in my approach "
Glad you said this as I (female) think less thinking and straight to fun is my preference |
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I find it hard as a single guy to start the fun; unless plans have been agreed beforehand as to what will happen.
Best approach was with a couple and she solved the problem by turning to me and her fella and simply saying.
'get naked guys'
oddly we did !!!!! |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"I just move in for the kill if he doesn't kiss me quick enough. I'm beginning to think I'm a bit forward in my approach "
We have our first meet in a couple of weeks and this is pretty much what I've decided on,once weve got settled, that way my nerves wont get the chance to make me act like a bit of a twit! |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
"I just move in for the kill if he doesn't kiss me quick enough. I'm beginning to think I'm a bit forward in my approach
We have our first meet in a couple of weeks and this is pretty much what I've decided on,once weve got settled, that way my nerves wont get the chance to make me act like a bit of a twit!"
Good luck! |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"I just move in for the kill if he doesn't kiss me quick enough. I'm beginning to think I'm a bit forward in my approach
We have our first meet in a couple of weeks and this is pretty much what I've decided on,once weve got settled, that way my nerves wont get the chance to make me act like a bit of a twit!
Good luck! "
Thanks!
Bugs and the guy are both cool as cucumbers while I've felt the nerves(nice nerves though, I think)and have been teasing me mercilessly since our social when I completely missed the hints to go and play there, so I've been plotting my revenge since 
Tig |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just move in for the kill if he doesn't kiss me quick enough. I'm beginning to think I'm a bit forward in my approach "
I do that too. I find it really odd that 'adults' need to get pissed and/ or play party games to 'get in the mood'.  |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
"I just move in for the kill if he doesn't kiss me quick enough. I'm beginning to think I'm a bit forward in my approach
I do that too. I find it really odd that 'adults' need to get pissed and/ or play party games to 'get in the mood'. "
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that as soon as the doors closed, take her in hand and kiss the fuck out of her is always a successful technique. You've come this far to move to the next base... I'm sure there are other icebreaker's... |
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By *horltzMan
over a year ago
heysham |
"I find that as soon as the doors closed, take her in hand and kiss the fuck out of her is always a successful technique. You've come this far to move to the next base... I'm sure there are other icebreaker's... "
You will need them ,where you come from |
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A long time ago I had a meet with a very nervous first-timer couple. As we chatted and time went on, we discussed how we were going to start the fun, and I looked at the clock and said "If we haven't got our clothes off by 10.30 (suggesting a time about 10-15 minutes ahead) I'll go home." It worked, and I have used it a number of times since when I've been the visitor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that as soon as the doors closed, take her in hand and kiss the fuck out of her is always a successful technique. You've come this far to move to the next base... I'm sure there are other icebreaker's... "
That works for me! lol |
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"I find that as soon as the doors closed, take her in hand and kiss the fuck out of her is always a successful technique. You've come this far to move to the next base... I'm sure there are other icebreaker's...
That works for me! lol"
Me too. I always lean in for the kiss first and the rest usually takes care of itself. |
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If at a club and we go to a room, I start undressing as soon as I enter. This usually gives the guys the hint. If at someone's home we get the convo around to the boundaries to be observed and then ask "shall we start". If we're doing a hotel meet, the hubby goes to the lobby to get them, I'm usually instructed to be on my knees waiting and when they walk in they're invited to put their willy in my mouth. We find this saves so much time, breaks the ice quickly and removes nerves just as quickly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit "
I just lean in for a kiss and see what their reaction is, if they pull away I blush and leave  if they reciprocate then the rest just follows |
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"So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit
I just lean in for a kiss and see what their reaction is, if they pull away I blush and leave if they reciprocate then the rest just follows "
why would anyone pull away from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Florence) am quite good at this, I usually just ask the girl when she wants to start the party? it usually works!
Or if we are at home I pop to the bedroom and come down just in my fuck kit, I find that has the desired effect too.
Clubs are different, a quick chat maybe at the bar then just inform the others that we are off to a room and invite them to join us, if they come great, if not then it wont be long until someone joins us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we have hotel meets we politely suggest we all shower, esp in the summer, so we all taste/smell nice.
It can be a giggle and it's got the undressing sorted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm usually very forward and say aww forgods sake kiss me! I've usually spent a long time chatting before that initial meet I know I already want them! It's never failed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first meet was mmf, we were all nervous to a degree, Donna disappeared to shower came back in with a shirt on, sat on the couch and cocked one leg up and switched her finger vibrator on...good girl..lol...that kinda broke the proverbial ice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that as soon as the doors closed, take her in hand and kiss the fuck out of her is always a successful technique. You've come this far to move to the next base... I'm sure there are other icebreaker's... "
I agree - nice to start with a deep, sensual kiss at the front door. Then I walk up the stairs - often stripped to my lingerie and heels by then - knowing that he's watching my arse up every step and imagining what he's going to do to it!! Love it!!! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we always used to wonder about this - how do you get from sitting having a brew and chatting to playing - i used to move to the fem and maybe a little touch - now im braver and ask (depends how the chat is going) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on "
Indeed!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is where kissing comes in. Must be more difficult for those with a " no kissing" rule.
For me a first passionate kiss has obvious consequences.
With those more regular a brew is often first order of the day tho....it's easier to then just say..."right..you know where the bedroom is!" |
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on
Indeed!! "
If i meet you paula...feel free to answer your front door nakey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone who had driven quite a way so I poured us a drink and I sat on the bed. He was standing up and after another drink and some talking he leaned down and kissed me with no warning. I liked that approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on
Indeed!!
If i meet you paula...feel free to answer your front door nakey"
I've answered the door nakey a few times. I love the look on the man's face as I open the door |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now that's a good move indeed, should I crawl up the stairs after you?
Actually guys tend to walk behind me - but if crawling works for you? "
I was just getting on all fours sooner.. |
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"So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit "
I sometimes say 'I'm gonna take my clothes off' and then strip. |
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on
Indeed!!
If i meet you paula...feel free to answer your front door nakey
I've answered the door nakey a few times. I love the look on the man's face as I open the door "
What's the address? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit "
Luckily for me the two meets I have had the ladies took charge and were like get naked then |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
In my experience I always like to wait until the female makes a mive. Whether a private or ckub meet it is up to the female to be ready ir comfortable. Sometimes is kissing that starts it of, sometimes the couple start together and I join in. The only exception is when we have talked before hand and it is clear they want me to take control. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I am quite good at this and I am a hit at parties primarily because I get bored wearing clothes so I give about 30 minutes for politeness and then take my clothes of and say something along the lines of 'so who is going to have sex?' Or 'come on it's time to get naked now' it seems to break the ice and people are very happy to join in - so far at least |
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I had a meet with a couple the other night. The woman wemt to pour a drink and came back with 2 big fluffy dice. Do you want a game of dice she said. On each side of one of the dice was a body part like lips leg but on one side was a question mark which if it landed on you could decide. On the other dice was what to do like lick suck kiss and again with a question mark. It was a great way to get things started. |
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"I had a meet with a couple the other night. The woman wemt to pour a drink and came back with 2 big fluffy dice. Do you want a game of dice she said. On each side of one of the dice was a body part like lips leg but on one side was a question mark which if it landed on you could decide. On the other dice was what to do like lick suck kiss and again with a question mark. It was a great way to get things started."
These Ann Summers dice are such an ice breaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have this thing where I always start so Dave knows im happy with the situation. He usually goes into the kitchen and while he's out of the room i'll go over to the guy, ask if he's happy to carry on, then undo his trousers and get his cock out. Dave comes back in to find me sucking his cock
If meeting another couple its different. I think last time i announced i was wearing some new slutty undies and would anyone like to see, they said yes (luckily lol) so i got my tits out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try not to put do much pressure on yourself and treat it the same as you would an encounter with your partner.
Kissing someone for the first time, or taking their clothes off is simple and fun. They're not going to explode if you touch them! Relax. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on
Indeed!!
If i meet you paula...feel free to answer your front door nakey"
Never! Matching lingerie/hold-ups/heels and a satin robe! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get really nervous at first which all my swibging friends find hilarious so takes a lot of courage sometime "
That's shit. If they make fun of you they are not your friends. x |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
At my first hotel meet (we had been chatting for a while) after the niceties were out of the way I asked him if he fancied me. His reply 'fuck yes' and my smile said it all. Next thing I'm pinned against the wall with his hands around my throat. So sexy |
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By *odramafun OP Couple
over a year ago
Derbyshire/staffordshire |
"At my first hotel meet (we had been chatting for a while) after the niceties were out of the way I asked him if he fancied me. His reply 'fuck yes' and my smile said it all. Next thing I'm pinned against the wall with his hands around my throat. So sexy "
Nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the best meet I had (not from this site) as I opened the door she was so horney and couldn't wait so she took her hands down my pants and grabbed my cock and felt it, she said aren't you a big boy, loved it lol, that's what I call an entrance, then we went to bedroom and got very naughty |
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By *av1970Man
over a year ago
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My very first meet was at local pub then back to mine, the couple had played before and knew it was my first time. I made drinks and the lady went upstairs; me and hubby sat on my sofa and she suddenly appeared in the door in just my bathtowel, sat between us grabbed her drink and undid the towel...it certainly wasn't long before I had a firm nipple engaged and was so horny |
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on
Indeed!!
If i meet you paula...feel free to answer your front door nakey
Never! Matching lingerie/hold-ups/heels and a satin robe! Xx"
Youll be nakey after ive removed the Matching lingerie/hold-ups/heels and a satin robe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My first meet off site my clothes were off within 30 seconds...helped that my meet answered her front door in the birthday suit...would have been rude of me to keep my clothes on
Indeed!!
If i meet you paula...feel free to answer your front door nakey
Never! Matching lingerie/hold-ups/heels and a satin robe! Xx
Youll be nakey after ive removed the Matching lingerie/hold-ups/heels and a satin robe "
Sublimely obvious but yeah - ok! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So ... You have a meet.. Drink... Invite back ... And the best way to get things started is? Always find this the hardest bit.... Of course soon forget but just wondered how others break the awkward 'let's get to it' bit "
A kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one meet where tbe fem asked me to answer the door naked.
So I did. When she walked in she grabed my hard cock and said nice cock.
Then straight to the bedroom with them both. |
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