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over a year ago
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ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....  |
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'..... "
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'..... "
Well. Are you ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!! "
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be fair, who is going to answer 'no I'm crap Iike to bite'
Some guys like to discuss every single aspect what is going to happen but personally I find this off putting and I prefer to be spontaneous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own"
i'm with you on this one! |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own"
I you don't discuss sex before a meet how do you let someone know what you do and don't like and find out about your potential meets desires? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be fair, who is going to answer 'no I'm crap Iike to bite'
Some guys like to discuss every single aspect what is going to happen but personally I find this off putting and I prefer to be spontaneous "
I feel exactly the same!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own
I you don't discuss sex before a meet how do you let someone know what you do and don't like and find out about your potential meets desires?"
Surely you will find out what each other likes on the actual meet. The fun part to me is finding out the likes n dislikes. Last thing I want is a do's and dont's list lol! |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own
I you don't discuss sex before a meet how do you let someone know what you do and don't like and find out about your potential meets desires?
Surely you will find out what each other likes on the actual meet. The fun part to me is finding out the likes n dislikes. Last thing I want is a do's and dont's list lol!"
I didn't mean a do and don't list I am confused about how to meet without finding out what each other likes but I guess it works for you so carry on and enjoy! Everyone does things their own way which is the beauty of a site like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own
I you don't discuss sex before a meet how do you let someone know what you do and don't like and find out about your potential meets desires?
Surely you will find out what each other likes on the actual meet. The fun part to me is finding out the likes n dislikes. Last thing I want is a do's and dont's list lol!"
just in general..we get so many complaints about meets on fab such as:
and the guy did this, or she did that etc etc
most problems can be solved before the actual meet..discussing sex doesnt have to be having a wank lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, who is going to answer 'no I'm crap Iike to bite'
Some guys like to discuss every single aspect what is going to happen but personally I find this off putting and I prefer to be spontaneous "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!!
I'm not one to discuss in a message what I will or wont do lol. I prefer spontaneous sex..much more of a turn on to me..but each to their own
I you don't discuss sex before a meet how do you let someone know what you do and don't like and find out about your potential meets desires?
Surely you will find out what each other likes on the actual meet. The fun part to me is finding out the likes n dislikes. Last thing I want is a do's and dont's list lol!
I didn't mean a do and don't list I am confused about how to meet without finding out what each other likes but I guess it works for you so carry on and enjoy! Everyone does things their own way which is the beauty of a site like this "
I guess you can just meet and go with the flow...finding out as you go along  |
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"To be fair, who is going to answer 'no I'm crap Iike to bite'
Some guys like to discuss every single aspect what is going to happen but personally I find this off putting and I prefer to be spontaneous "
agreed and for some of them its 'wank fodder' and that's as far as they will go..
hey ho.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, who is going to answer 'no I'm crap Iike to bite'
Some guys like to discuss every single aspect what is going to happen but personally I find this off putting and I prefer to be spontaneous
agreed and for some of them its 'wank fodder' and that's as far as they will go..
hey ho.."
I've chatted to a few like that in he past. The all talk and no trousers brigade
There are certain things I don't do and I would prefer my meet to know that before hand. Other than that I go with the flow, so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
At some point sexual activity will be discussed surely?!! "
Yes but why do they ask it in first message. no need to, as others have said it's fun finding out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'..... "
cos they are knobs with no idea. They are just as unsuccessful in the real world as they are on here. |
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"ok so Im fussy and shy, not a great combo for a swing site.
Anyway..I do like to have a convo or 10 before meeting. Love it when a convo flows without it being about sex. But why do some men kill it by asking 'Are you good at sucking cock'.....
cos they are knobs with no idea. They are just as unsuccessful in the real world as they are on here."
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