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First meet 30 percent chat 70 percent play
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say they are becoming very comfortable with your company, and I dare bet that the 40% play on the last meet was better than the 70% play on the first meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Second 40 chat 60 play
Third 50 chat 50 play
Fourth 60 chat 40 play
Time to move on???
As in move on to someone else or move on to a relationship with that person?"
It means you are now becoming friends and the play becomes second to the chat. For us men in maturing years it's not a bad thing. |
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"Second 40 chat 60 play
Third 50 chat 50 play
Fourth 60 chat 40 play
Time to move on???
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I can't see this as a problem at all. Don't you enjoy their company?
I find the site is about making friends too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend is from fab....it's how we met. It is now much more chat than play. We at least text every day...see each other a few times a week (she is very local). Go caravan ink at weekends.
Some of our friends won't believe that we are not bf and gf.....but that's their problem.
Tho she did propose last week lol....I said ok if she still single when she gets to 50 (7 yrs grace lol!)
We just love each other's company but we meet others only as singles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My best friend is from fab....it's how we met. It is now much more chat than play. We at least text every day...see each other a few times a week (she is very local). Go caravan ink at weekends.
Some of our friends won't believe that we are not bf and gf.....but that's their problem.
Tho she did propose last week lol....I said ok if she still single when she gets to 50 (7 yrs grace lol!)
We just love each other's company but we meet others only as singles."
Well threats what happens you become fiends then the play doesn't need to be 70 percent because you get to know each other's wants and needs, I have met the same couple for 5 years. We meet play straight away (always very naughty fun) then spend the rest of night putting the world to rights, perfect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thought of having a few regular sexy friends we can build a relationships with turns me on very much. I just worry that it may be playing with fire as people start to become emotionally connected x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The thought of having a few regular sexy friends we can build a relationships with turns me on very much. I just worry that it may be playing with fire as people start to become emotionally connected x"
That happened to me and the lady asked my mobile number and started calling me without her partners knowledge. The difference between swinging and being unfaithful I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a good thing as you feel at ease with the person and are more likely to have a better time as you have found each others limits, likes and dislikes.
Nothing wrong with being friends as well as fuck buddys.
I had a FWB that lasted 3 yrs+ we got on realy well me her and her hubby! even went for drinks with the both of them on quite a few occasions both before and after play.
To me there is nothing nicer than popping round for a cup of tea/coffee and a chat then getting down to some mutual sucking/licking and fucking  |
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