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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd like to have some swap fun and play with couples...however I'm a single guy, so ideally I need to find a lovely lady who I may potentially click with and perhaps meet other couples and attend parties with. Also was wondering if couples feel cheated playing with people who aren't actually in relationships ( i only ask as I received a rather abusive response from one couple!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be open and honest. Some couples play with FB couples. Some don't. Some couples just play with single men. Get yourself out there -clubs/socials. I doubt you will find a FB on here without putting in alot of effort. Ive been looking for over a year. The search continues. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just be open and honest. Some couples play with FB couples. Some don't. Some couples just play with single men. Get yourself out there -clubs/socials. I doubt you will find a FB on here without putting in alot of effort. Ive been looking for over a year. The search continues."
Thats why I thought I'd ask in the forum..'put myself out there' and see the initial reaction haha
That shall be the new year plan then...clubs and socials it is
If it's taken you a year I have a long road ahead indeed!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, good luck. I've posted threads and received quite a lot of abuse on this subject. The best advice is to go to a club, meet people and see if you hit it off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked this before
Personally it makes me feel like i would be used as bait to get other females and couples so would definitely decline "
Thats how I think this other couple saw it.but it wouldn't be the case...I'd like to get to know someone (as if we're meeting singarly) get some chemistry going etc before I'd contemplate meeting a couple for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked this before
Personally it makes me feel like i would be used as bait to get other females and couples so would definitely decline
Thats how I think this other couple saw it.but it wouldn't be the case...I'd like to get to know someone (as if we're meeting singarly) get some chemistry going etc before I'd contemplate meeting a couple for fun. "
I've met others with ladies off this site in the past....it took a while, months in fact of being friends and just one on ones (not saying it needs to take thay long, it just can) so perhaps just see if you can have some fun with a view to finding someone you spark with first and just keep the full swap idea on simmer.....aim high sure but walk before you run also....don't rush, build your experience...personally I have loads left on my bucket list but I'm loving just taking my time and enjoying it all as it comes....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked this before
Personally it makes me feel like i would be used as bait to get other females and couples so would definitely decline
Thats how I think this other couple saw it.but it wouldn't be the case...I'd like to get to know someone (as if we're meeting singarly) get some chemistry going etc before I'd contemplate meeting a couple for fun.
I've met others with ladies off this site in the past....it took a while, months in fact of being friends and just one on ones (not saying it needs to take thay long, it just can) so perhaps just see if you can have some fun with a view to finding someone you spark with first and just keep the full swap idea on simmer.....aim high sure but walk before you run also....don't rush, build your experience...personally I have loads left on my bucket list but I'm loving just taking my time and enjoying it all as it comes.... "
thats pretty much what the plan of action is currently.carry on with one on ones and let it develop naturally...I'm just putting it out there and was curious as to how Genuine couples conceive the idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked this before
Personally it makes me feel like i would be used as bait to get other females and couples so would definitely decline
Thats how I think this other couple saw it.but it wouldn't be the case...I'd like to get to know someone (as if we're meeting singarly) get some chemistry going etc before I'd contemplate meeting a couple for fun.
I've met others with ladies off this site in the past....it took a while, months in fact of being friends and just one on ones (not saying it needs to take thay long, it just can) so perhaps just see if you can have some fun with a view to finding someone you spark with first and just keep the full swap idea on simmer.....aim high sure but walk before you run also....don't rush, build your experience...personally I have loads left on my bucket list but I'm loving just taking my time and enjoying it all as it comes....
thats pretty much what the plan of action is currently.carry on with one on ones and let it develop naturally...I'm just putting it out there and was curious as to how Genuine couples conceive the idea "
Well you've come to the right place....search the forums, ask questions, chat to folk blah blah.....stuff takes time but there are some decent folk about and you seem pretty level so I've no worries for ya fella....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just kinda think, we havent even met yet, but hes already wanting to swap me for another woman
Just not for me at all, seems backwards to me "
or using you as bait. That's why I do the searching. Sure I'll still be saying this in 5 years. The perfect FB/FWB is very hard to find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single bloke....met with plenty couples...have a few regulars now. It is doable....but yes. Socials/parties/clubs are a good way in.
I too would welcome an fb to have fun with other couples etc. I do have a regular fab...married and not into parties/clubs etc so she just sees me currently (Is that an affair lol?). Also a very "special friend".... But our rules say we don't swing together.
Each to their own...but don't let being single hold you back....! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked this before
Personally it makes me feel like i would be used as bait to get other females and couples so would definitely decline
Thats how I think this other couple saw it.but it wouldn't be the case...I'd like to get to know someone (as if we're meeting singarly) get some chemistry going etc before I'd contemplate meeting a couple for fun.
I've met others with ladies off this site in the past....it took a while, months in fact of being friends and just one on ones (not saying it needs to take thay long, it just can) so perhaps just see if you can have some fun with a view to finding someone you spark with first and just keep the full swap idea on simmer.....aim high sure but walk before you run also....don't rush, build your experience...personally I have loads left on my bucket list but I'm loving just taking my time and enjoying it all as it comes....
thats pretty much what the plan of action is currently.carry on with one on ones and let it develop naturally...I'm just putting it out there and was curious as to how Genuine couples conceive the idea
Well you've come to the right place....search the forums, ask questions, chat to folk blah blah.....stuff takes time but there are some decent folk about and you seem pretty level so I've no worries for ya fella.... "
Hopefully we will see lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just kinda think, we havent even met yet, but hes already wanting to swap me for another woman
Just not for me at all, seems backwards to me "
Completely get what you mean..it would be a while before anyone would consider 'teaming up' lol
But the way I see it is we're all here as we enjoy amazing sex and the social side of it..so if you can make friends and potentialy a play friend everyone's onto a win win   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP the only way this set up will happen is if it evolves naturally. As some of tge posts above show, people will be wary of being used as 'bait' but there is no reason wjy a regular FWB wouldn't/couldn't become a swinging partner.
As a rule of thumb we say no FWB couples but like most of our rules it is fluid and would very much depend on the individual dynamic of the couple concerned |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a single bloke....met with plenty couples...have a few regulars now. It is doable....but yes. Socials/parties/clubs are a good way in.
I too would welcome an fb to have fun with other couples etc. I do have a regular fab...married and not into parties/clubs etc so she just sees me currently (Is that an affair lol?). Also a very "special friend".... But our rules say we don't swing together.
Each to their own...but don't let being single hold you back....!"
I'd imagine you could say yes that is an affair!
Being single is the only thing holding me back from parties / clubs iv read a lot of negativity towards single guys here (im.guessing due to a few twats!) 
And I'm not too familiar with the etiquette lol at an educated guess with approaching couples it should be purely chat and then the woman will approach or suggest you move further?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP the only way this set up will happen is if it evolves naturally. As some of tge posts above show, people will be wary of being used as 'bait' but there is no reason wjy a regular FWB wouldn't/couldn't become a swinging partner.
As a rule of thumb we say no FWB couples but like most of our rules it is fluid and would very much depend on the individual dynamic of the couple concerned"
Couldnt have put it better
And so everyone's aware I'm not searching purely for a woman to meet couples with
..it's something I'd like to eventually happen but as a single guy I'd like to be informed lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the 'risk'of being used to gain access to clubs/parties and couples which puts me off having a fb and keeps me 'all alone'tbh! I'm straight so not much interest to couples anyway.
Aguy would have to be pretty special to change my mind - and not just interested in me for swinging. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being single is the only thing holding me back from parties / clubs iv read a lot of negativity towards single guys here (im.guessing due to a few twats!)
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Ignore the negativity. Plenty of single guys do finecat clubs. If you aren't one ofvtge aforementioned twats you have nothing to worry about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You may have better luck on another site or offline, and to acquire a FB or FWB who would swing too may be something that may evolve eventually, but not straightaway. That's what happened to us.
Portia |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's the 'risk'of being used to gain access to clubs/parties and couples which puts me off having a fb and keeps me 'all alone'tbh! I'm straight so not much interest to couples anyway.
Aguy would have to be pretty special to change my mind - and not just interested in me for swinging. Xx"
Completely understand the apprehension!
I'm just looking to meet new people and have a laugh
Anyone interested in a woman just for swinging and not herself is well...an idiot haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being single is the only thing holding me back from parties / clubs iv read a lot of negativity towards single guys here (im.guessing due to a few twats!)
Ignore the negativity. Plenty of single guys do finecat clubs. If you aren't one ofvtge aforementioned twats you have nothing to worry about"
Defiantly not one of the fore mentioned |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You may have better luck on another site or offline, and to acquire a FB or FWB who would swing too may be something that may evolve eventually, but not straightaway. That's what happened to us.
Portia"
I know people offline but wouldn't be sure how to ask if there into swinging lol.
Any recommended sites? I imagine this post will be shut down now hah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a woman playing solo I'd much rather meet a fb couple than a couple in a relationship. Shows everyone has different likes and dislikes here, good luck OP and I'm sure you'll have fun looking |
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