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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all, I know I'm gonna cause a bit of a stir up here but that's life Lol. Why is it that some females and couples ask to see face pics. Yet will not send any of their own out??? Bit unfair that, surely must be a level playing field?. After all its not blind date lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know they don't send any in return and if they don't like what they see why would they send one back? You're not obliged to do what they say, just move on to the next profile if it bothers you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was saying, on some cpls and single fems profile. They are very specific on seeing a face pic of another cpl or single male. Yet they are not prepared to display a face pic on their profile or even send one with a reply. Personally speaking I think that's double standards. Only saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was saying, on some cpls and single fems profile. They are very specific on seeing a face pic of another cpl or single male. Yet they are not prepared to display a face pic on their profile or even send one with a reply. Personally speaking I think that's double standards. Only saying."
I ask for a face picture but mine isn't on my profile, it's set to private so that I can attach to a message if I so wish.
If someone contacts me with a face picture and I don't want to meet, why do I need to send a face pic back? If we're not meeting he doesn't need to know what I look like 
If I message someone first I will attach my face pic, it's up to them if they decide to send one back or not.
I don't see the problem with that. Not everyone wants their face picture on their profile as some of us value discretion. That's not double standards as far as I'm concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people do that!"
We don't send face pics to people we arent going to meet (what's the point?). Sometimes after seeing a facepic we KNOW we aren't going to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we request them we always send first.. If someone asks us for them but doesn't send, we ignore it x  "
This, in fact we go 1 step further and block them as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A single woman could have nothing on her profile, no pics, nothing about her and still get inundated with messages. Mainly due to the imbalance between males and females but also because some men on here will try and fuck anything.
I have face pics set to private. If I'm interested then people can see my face. I think alot of people run their profiles like this. Can't understand why people would be bothered about people who are not interested in them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones that make me smile are those who have no pictures at all and demand your face picture in the email, or new and demand a face picture. Just how desparet are some of us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone sends us a message we would expect them to send a face pic first as they made first contact, if we are interested we send ours, if not we say so.
If we send the first contact message and they reply they are interested then we send our face pic for them to decide whether they wishto meet |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
We don't have our pic faces on here, if after we've been chatting for a while we are clicking with we might add one to a message but to be honest we are more likely to have a phonecall and see how things are progressing. We see no point in giving out face pics when we want to be discreet and if we are clicking enough we will likely see them socially first anyway.
It's possible Thatd change but it's how its suiting us just the moment |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
We send out face pics when we message and would always send them if we were asking others to do so.....saying that though my avatar is almost always a variation of a face pic anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe some (fabber) will recognise whoever and inform their husband, partner or wife. That they are having liasons behind the above backs. Alot of infidelity goes on, on (fab). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was saying, on some cpls and single fems profile. They are very specific on seeing a face pic of another cpl or single male. Yet they are not prepared to display a face pic on their profile or even send one with a reply. Personally speaking I think that's double standards. Only saying."
They don't have to, they can run their profile as they wish, its not against the rules to ask for a face pic if you don't have one! As I said previously, you don't have to oblige or even message them. |
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By *oody39Man
over a year ago
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Well for what it's worth mine are private, If I am asked I will send one.
And to add a bit of Boxing Day fun to this thread if anyone wants to send me. Face pic I'll return the mail with mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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alot of married wont send because of there job or other made up tales they dont acom but expect to turn up at your home for hells sake it cud b the elephant man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After being recognised out and about a lot and stalked around Tesco’s whilst with my Mother my face is no longer on show.
If I send a message my face picture is included it’s only fair when you’re trying introduce yourself and attract someone’s attention. Same expected of others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being recognised out and about a lot and stalked around Tesco’s whilst with my Mother my face is no longer on show.
If I send a message my face picture is included it’s only fair when you’re trying introduce yourself and attract someone’s attention. Same expected of others."
when I send face pic I never get reply lol |
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"How do you know they don't send any in return and if they don't like what they see why would they send one back? You're not obliged to do what they say, just move on to the next profile if it bothers you."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all, I know I'm gonna cause a bit of a stir up here but that's life Lol. Why is it that some females and couples ask to see face pics. Yet will not send any of their own out??? Bit unfair that, surely must be a level playing field?. After all its not blind date lol
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Nobody is forcing you to send face pics |
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When I receive message, I'd like to see face and body pics first, if I fancy meeting the person(s), then send mine.
If I find a person who I want to meet, I attach my face and body pics to my very first contact with sincere message.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all, I know I'm gonna cause a bit of a stir up here but that's life Lol. Why is it that some females and couples ask to see face pics. Yet will not send any of their own out?"
I think they are not very realistic about their own position at all. Because some of them forget about the real life reality check (clubs, parties, social nights) and actually think they are popular for being them, not because of the demographics of an online, Swingers site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all, I know I'm gonna cause a bit of a stir up here but that's life Lol. Why is it that some females and couples ask to see face pics. Yet will not send any of their own out?
I think they are not very realistic about their own position at all. Because some of them forget about the real life reality check (clubs, parties, social nights) and actually think they are popular for being them, not because of the demographics of an online, Swingers site! "
Tactful.... but so true!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all, I know I'm gonna cause a bit of a stir up here but that's life Lol. Why is it that some females and couples ask to see face pics. Yet will not send any of their own out??? Bit unfair that, surely must be a level playing field?. After all its not blind date lol
Nobody is forcing you to send face pics"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand why people do that!
We don't send face pics to people we arent going to meet (what's the point?). Sometimes after seeing a facepic we KNOW we aren't going to meet them."
Same for us. We ask for face photo and if they don't send one we stop chatting. If they do send one and we like the look of the person we send one back. If not then we reply saying sorry but they are not for us. |
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