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Arrogant men

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is it about some men that assume because they are slim and that you may be a larger woman, that you are desperate and will be disappointed if they turn you down.

I actually find slim men a bit of a turn off and prefer a man with a little meat on his bones be it muscle or love handles.

And then to be told he may make an exception cos you have a pretty face.

Fuck Off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hiya... Just on a similar track.. We just had a guy email us with a very cut and paste email. And when I asked that it would be nice if he read our profile and sent us something a little more personal, he stated that "Did we expect him to write a personal email to everyone he writes to"? I think the answer to that is yes! Single guys find it hard enough finding playmates. Im sure he would stand more of a chance if he was less arrogant... Gripe over.... Feel better now..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment"

off to get a drink and nibbles... this could be fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Actually its been a few men the last few weeks.

Not just the pretty face remark, others have said well you verifications say your hot so I wont mind you being big, or I dont do big women normally but i'm really horny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hiya... Just on a similar track.. We just had a guy email us with a very cut and paste email. And when I asked that it would be nice if he read our profile and sent us something a little more personal, he stated that "Did we expect him to write a personal email to everyone he writes to"? I think the answer to that is yes! Single guys find it hard enough finding playmates. Im sure he would stand more of a chance if he was less arrogant... Gripe over.... Feel better now..

I always try to write a personal email to couples for the reasons you have mentioned. It is more personalised. On the other hand, I also know where hes coming from, as there's nothing worse than when you've spent ages writing it out, they just delete it. If only folk were polite as I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is it about some men that assume because they are slim and that you may be a larger woman, that you are desperate and will be disappointed if they turn you down.

I actually find slim men a bit of a turn off and prefer a man with a little meat on his bones be it muscle or love handles.

And then to be told he may make an exception cos you have a pretty face.

Fuck Off.

Probably the same thing that is wrong with some woman who live between the gym and a sun tan salon and drive around in their blokes BMW all day, then look at a bloke with a bit of a beer belly as if he's a peice of shite. !!!

Arrogance is a 2 way street and it asn't always blokes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant understand why people come on here to slate others,if he bothered you that much why not just block him from conatcting you after all there are plenty of other yummy guys on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know, however i would never say to a guy who was not my type that I'd do him anyway cos i'm horny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrogance is a 2 way street and it asn't always blokes"

love that. well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I cant understand why people come on here to slate others,if he bothered you that much why not just block him from conatcting you after all there are plenty of other yummy guys on here

I do block them and as I was not speaking about a specific person just that there seemed to happening quite a lot the last few weeks I found it annoying. It is not only this site but another that I use.

Maybe its because there are less people around because of the summer holidays that this is occuring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never been anything but polite to people on this and other sites. Sometimes I think maybe I'm a little TOO polite and perhaps fail to 'connect' with people as a result.

Downright cockyness and arrogance is out for me from either sex. Nothing wrong at all with confidence but I like to see a bit of humility too.

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment"

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

well if the op's post is an accurate description of what occurred i'd like to see how they'd defend it

off for a pencil and pad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

ffs, nearly choked on my nibbles with excitement to the prospect of a right ding dong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

lol

This is so funny everyone has automatically assumed that this is about someone from this site. When actually the last person who did this was on another site. Fab isn't the only site and to assume something is to make an Ass out of u a me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

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ffs, nearly choked on my nibbles with excitement to the prospect of a right ding dong.

Me too

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

lol

Oh cheers I am now an Ass - got to defend my position now and say I am only at Ass at 7pm on a Friday night!

PS - The above is completely Tongue In Cheek!

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By *uss PussWoman over a year ago

east cheshire

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

Oy you, we know it was you who broke the site last night....and that thread....and now you breaking hearts eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hang on a minute. Just off to cut and paste a reply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR AND YES I AM SHOUTING. THIS IS ABOUT A NUMBER OF MESSAGES I HAVE RECEIVED OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS. THE LAST MESSAGE WHICH PROMPTED ME TO WRITE THE POST WAS FROM ANOTHER SITE. IT IS SOMETHING THAT I FOUND IRRITATING AND AM SURE OTHER LARGER WOMEN HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS ON OCCASION.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR AND YES I AM SHOUTING. THIS IS ABOUT A NUMBER OF MESSAGES I HAVE RECEIVED OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS. THE LAST MESSAGE WHICH PROMPTED ME TO WRITE THE POST WAS FROM ANOTHER SITE. IT IS SOMETHING THAT I FOUND IRRITATING AND AM SURE OTHER LARGER WOMEN HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS ON OCCASION.

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By *uss PussWoman over a year ago

east cheshire

THEN MOAN ABOUT IT ON THAT SITE THEN.

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

Sorry couldn't hear you.....had my fingers in my ears.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bet this issue comes up again and again. I can see both sides of the story. There is only so many times you can write a long meaningful message (especially on your phone... takes ages) before it gets tiresome. But at the end of the day you do have to respect that people want more than a one liner. Having said that it is real kick in the teeth when the people who demand this then cant even be bothered to politely say, thanks but no thanks.. it only takes a second and I think there are a lot of guys on here who would appreciate that and not bother them again. I understand that there are tossers on here who deserve to be blocked but to simply block someone just because they sent you a message (assuming it wasnt offensive) is ignorant and rude. As a bloke on here I can assure you that there are a lot of women and couples on here who seem to think they are something special just because they are not a bloke and it shouldnt be that way... after all they come on here looking for guys but then complain when they contact them.

Before you jump down my throat... I know there are people who deserve it and those who cant read and bug people. But lets face it they could just block single guys totally then they are pest free.. apart form the fakers of course.

Maybe the site admin could add a quick link button to say "Thanks but no thanks, please do not contact us again". . to help all those poor people who actually receive messages...lol . . a bit tongue in cheek but not a bad idea..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

lol

Oh cheers I am now an Ass - got to defend my position now and say I am only at Ass at 7pm on a Friday night!

PS - The above is completely Tongue In Cheek!

I understood that your post was tongue in cheek that why my reply started with LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am going to scream and scream and scream till I am sick or everyone agrees with me. xx

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

Oy you, we know it was you who broke the site last night....and that thread....and now you breaking hearts eh

Damn, that will haunt me for ever now

and the thread was starting to tail off anyway, I hope lol xxx

As for heartbreaking, well I just cant help it ..... pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am going to scream and scream and scream till I am sick or everyone agrees with me. xx

Make sure you miss your shoes then!

I dont expect anyone to agree or disagree with me it's entirely up to you what you think say and do. However rather than acutally respond to the post with maturity the responses were more about worrying about offending someone who may or may not have been on the site rather that the actual content. That was what the shouting about.

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"I understood that your post was tongue in cheek that why my reply started with LOL

I knew that too, but my reply to your next post might have been taken another way and I was making sure others didn't misunderstand it like you think they have your OP!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wooooh!

Satan's Underpants that was loud. Stop shouting dear!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wooooh!

Satan's Underpants that was loud. Stop shouting dear!! lol

lol

I know but seems everyone needs new batteries in their hearing aids today. Myself included.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well. We find curvy women very sexy. Not up their own asses. And generally lovely people... Mr joons ideal woman was Fern Brittain. Very sexy..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wooooh!

Satan's Underpants that was loud. Stop shouting dear!! lol

lol

I know but seems everyone needs new batteries in their hearing aids today. Myself included."

I know what you mean and I can understand the bloke's messages would get on your nerves.

It's like "how desperate does he think I am?".

It's people making judgements based on perceptions.

Try being a single guy for the day. People think you are the scum of the earth and lucky even to be allowed to write on these forums.

Brush him off and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well and truly brushed off.

No objections to single males at all and think that a few give others a bad name but that is a whole different thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have but it has never annoyed me: I've found it quite enpowering to look at an "Adonis" and say "no ta"!

Yes there are men that assume because you're fat you therefore MUST be gagging for it and grateful for a poke from their love stick, there are men that think that about EVERY woman on an adult site.

If you get annoyed and upet every time one of these men approach you - thankfully it's been so long that happened to me I can't recall - then you'll make yourself ill.

I'm picky, I know what I like and I've been told I'm up my own arse, very picky for a fat bird more times than I care to mention, and if bored I do reply to the little loves, asking if I'm so gross why oh why are they wasting their little old time on me when Kate Moss is waiting!

Now...inhale...exhale...better?!!

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"This does'nt sound like "some" men it sounds like one particular man that has annoyed you

lf thats the case lets hope he does'nt come on here to defend himself as we only have one side of the story at the moment

It was me and I am now here to defend my position!

Sorry - Just kidding and have never contacted the OP but I see how it could turn ugly in here if someone who has, does come in to really defend their position!

lol

You're doing an excellent job yourself.

Fatty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yep x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think theres more arrogant women and couples on here than man

Im sorry but i get far more rude messages back from couples i say no thanks to than men, most men take it in their stride, accept as a single woman i get loads of mail and usually message me back with a 'thnaks for the reply good luck' message couple on the other hand more than not almost demande i give an explination for why i dont want to meet and then get very offended when i tell then lol

Dont ask if you dont want to know lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have not come across any so called arrogant men as described by the OP.

In fact, I would go as far as to say they have all been very nice and complimentary about my profile and pics!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

So you come on this site to tell them to fuck off?

They won't see it. Maybe go use the site they were on to abuse those people instead.

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