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over a year ago
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i think oral and foreplay only meets can be very exciting as the sexual tension can build without the fret of having to have full intercourse. I've had some very very enjoyable soft play only meets. |
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over a year ago
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I love loads of oral and forplay, i do like a shag at the end tho but i really could spend 99% of the time, kissing, touching etc and just finish off with the sex.
I do like soft swap in some ways because people put so much more effort into the forplay if theres not full sex at the end of it but in other ways i do come away feeling like i havmt quite finished lol |
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I am not sure we have had a soft play but in a club and we didn't meet for this reason, also the last club night we went to was soft swing too and we had some good fun but i am not sure if we would arrange to meet. other than that at the club meet the men just sat there whilst us girls played which hubby said was ok but I felt guilty as we swing for both of us not just me. |
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over a year ago
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I've been seeing one of my playmates for well over a year and we've only had sex once...all other times have been "soft swing".
Very intense for both of us, still is and very exciting, our regular contact between meets simply adds to the next meet!
We would have naturally fizzled out if we both didn't still enjoy what works for us!  |
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Our first ever couple was a soft swing meet and must say it was one of the most erotic moments of our lives.
Maybe because it was our first couple I don't know. The setting was perfect. Low light and candles, real fire going(winter at the time) and a lovely soft big rug to play on. Fantastic.
We do soft swing as well as full and can honestly say it can be just as erotic and fulfilling as each other.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And how soft can soft play be for it still to be fun.
One day my partner and I went into the couples room at Chameleons, we were happily playing with each other, her on top cowgirl and me underneath, there were a few other couples playing with each other and themselves in the room when a very attractive Italian couple came in, they lay next to us and we carried on with what we were doing.
After a few minutes the female moved her hand over and held my hand, she kept hold of my hand all the time my partner was riding me.
Eventually we finished and went down to the bar, where I told my partner what had happened, to which she replied, "he held my hand too, we both agreed that it was not an unpleasant experience, and that it had been quite erotic.
We never spoke a word to the couple, we never saw them again that evening or since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And how soft can soft play be for it still to be fun.
One day my partner and I went into the couples room at Chameleons, we were happily playing with each other, her on top cowgirl and me underneath, there were a few other couples playing with each other and themselves in the room when a very attractive Italian couple came in, they lay next to us and we carried on with what we were doing.
After a few minutes the female moved her hand over and held my hand, she kept hold of my hand all the time my partner was riding me.
Eventually we finished and went down to the bar, where I told my partner what had happened, to which she replied, "he held my hand too, we both agreed that it was not an unpleasant experience, and that it had been quite erotic.
We never spoke a word to the couple, we never saw them again that evening or since. "
turns out you were holding each others hand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"are many men women and couples into them not sex just spending the time licking and sucking ?"
It depends on how you get on when you meet. sometimes we decide not to play sometimes we do play and oral is part of play at times and sometimes not. Every meet is different for us. |
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