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what suit you? Regular or different play mate
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As for me I like sexually compatible regular play mate.someone with good sense of humour and fun to be with. Hate jumping from bed to bed.
I know some people don't like the idea of keeping friendship on the swing scene.because is boring.
What do you think? Friendship or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both.
Most people don't seem to be able to meet up as regularly as i'd like them to. I don't mind staying friends with people, in fact like it, but if they can't fuck me often i do tend to get bored of not seeing them, internet or phone 'relationships' aren't for me.
So yeah regular, and friends, would be nice but one nighters are all good as well. I'm comfortable enough around people i don't know to have fun with them and be just myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A regular friend is always good....gives you time to figure each others finer details out and push each others edges a little.....
One offs have their place too I suppose but less and less so as I get older....I've found a handful of regulars gives me more pleasure than a string of one offs... |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
We are finding that we are leaning towards regular,thats not to say we would rule out one offs,but for us regular seems a better fit.
Who knows I may end up like a me in a shoe shop but for now regular it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A regular friend is always good....gives you time to figure each others finer details out and push each others edges a little.....
One offs have their place too I suppose but less and less so as I get older....I've found a handful of regulars gives me more pleasure than a string of one offs..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of both for us, it's nice to have regulars and form some sort of friendship, we have that with another couple but it's also nice to explore with couples and single men who you kinda know are going to be 1 offs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a few regulars, one very special "friend" and I like to meet new n one offs too. It's swinging ffs....the idea is you CAN have it all."
Indeed but not everyone wants it all! |
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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago
Walton on the Hill |
Regular without doubt. Been meeting with a single lady from here every couple of weeks since September last year. It feels like with every meet the sex just gets better and better. Long it may continue. I also have other friends who I've seen quite a few times. One offs just can't compete with knowing exactly what turns each other on and taking pleasure in pleasing each other. Personal preference. Not all will agree. |
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"Both.
Most people don't seem to be able to meet up as regularly as i'd like them to. I don't mind staying friends with people, in fact like it, but if they can't fuck me often i do tend to get bored of not seeing them, internet or phone 'relationships' aren't for me.
So yeah regular, and friends, would be nice but one nighters are all good as well. I'm comfortable enough around people i don't know to have fun with them and be just myself."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's swinging ffs....the idea is you CAN have it all."
As far as I can read no one has said otherwise, the question was what suits you and people are giving their own personal opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had some amazing one offs that happened after a long build up and after a few days of talking. It's all about compatibility and sexual attraction. My long term partners stayed because sex is good..that's all I'm looking for,good,great,amazing sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both. It's good to have a regular or 2 where we can explore the cuckold/hotwife side of things with all 3 of us having a good relationship but i also enjoy the variety that you get with different partners and love that feeling of anticipation with someone new. I guess I'm lucky in that i get both. ...and just because someone likes one offs it doesn't make them any less selective or prone to notches on a bed post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have alot of guys I see regulary at partys and see private, but also nice to have accasional one offs x so I would say bit of both for variety. Although regular meets do win as friendships and sex just gets better as you get to know them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd prefer regular with a select few. The more I get to know someone, the more relaxed and confident I get, the more we can explore and push boundaries.
I've also had one off's that wee fantastic but not repeated for various different reasons.
Distance is my biggest problem unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prefer to meet someone once or twice, so far I have anyway, if I met someone I got on with really well I might change my mind I don't know. I wouldn't want to just rely on one person and I get bored with people easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer one offs, although I don't mind meeting couples on a semi regular basis. I don't like to feel tied to people. That said, a female fb would be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well - I'd love a regular sex partner who fitted all my wants, desires and dreams, and who would turn up whenever I snapped my fingers.
But that's not going to happen is it? Well if ever it does, I'll be off here like a shot!!!
So, all in all, I'll go for occasional fun, as it turns up, and just enjoy the variety!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preference is towards a regular playmate but that's harder to find than 1st anticipated ~ so people automatically become one offs for various reasons.
All good tho |
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"Regular without doubt. Been meeting with a single lady from here every couple of weeks since September last year. It feels like with every meet the sex just gets better and better. Long it may continue. I also have other friends who I've seen quite a few times. One offs just can't compete with knowing exactly what turns each other on and taking pleasure in pleasing each other. Personal preference. Not all will agree. "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its often more enjoyable the first or second time after that it can get a bit boring. if it was really good the first time you wonder if it might ruin the memory if you meet again and the sex isn't quite as good or you find out that they weren't as nice as you thought they were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a mix of both. I have a few regular meets who I know will hit the spot every time but who I can explore with too as there is a level of trust and comfort, but I also enjoy the excitement of a new meet and wondering what will happen. Plus you can't find anyone for the regular meets without getting out there a bit first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm practical about it - it's rare to find someone local, who I'm 100% on the same wavelength with, who has exactly the same time schedule / desire to see or not see each other.
Regular preferably, but practically it's not always gonna work that way, and excitement works both ways. All good though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to have some regulars aswell as one offs but i found that the regulars got a bit possesive of me and didnt want me to meet others and got a bit boring too so one offs seem far more fun
I supose if i was looking for friendships then regulars would be better but the last thing i want is friendship so one offs work well |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We sometimes do one offs but prefer to meet the same people a few times. We have some friends we have made on here that we meet semi regularly and along with one offs or new people occasionally we always have lots of fun |
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"its often more enjoyable the first or second time after that it can get a bit boring. if it was really good the first time you wonder if it might ruin the memory if you meet again and the sex isn't quite as good or you find out that they weren't as nice as you thought they were."
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"I used to have some regulars aswell as one offs but i found that the regulars got a bit possesive of me and didnt want me to meet others and got a bit boring too so one offs seem far more fun
I supose if i was looking for friendships then regulars would be better but the last thing i want is friendship so one offs work well "
Ditto
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"A regular friend is always good....gives you time to figure each others finer details out and push each others edges a little.....
One offs have their place too I suppose but less and less so as I get older....I've found a handful of regulars gives me more pleasure than a string of one offs...
this"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is much more trust in a more or less regular sex, more preferred. An odd one off could also be wild and steamy."
Yesssss...but in the words of Outkast "I don't wanna meet your momma-I just wanna make you cum-a"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One (or 2) offs... We're not looking to 'connect' as such more interested in the naughtiness of a stranger meet.
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Yep us too, not even intrested in there names, if they are clean, tidy and up for it and we are horny then it's a go |
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