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Bi female - is it bad hubby wants to watch only?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol
We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).
I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?
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"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol
We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).
I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?
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Do you need to understand why? Everyone has things they like and don't like and being watched is not for everyone. |
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"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol
We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).
I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?
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I don't really like being watched by men when I play with women (I never play with women in a mixed club, only ever in a lesbian club) because I don't like the way that many* men tend to objectify lesbian sexuality.
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"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol
We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).
I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?
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Because they can meet women alone without any male involvement, so why put on a show for some chap. That's my guess. |
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"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol
We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).
I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?
Do you need to understand why? Everyone has things they like and don't like and being watched is not for everyone. "
Good point. Well said.  |
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"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol
We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).
I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?
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Stick with it, yeah there's lots of people that don't understand why this would be a turn on. But then there's the hidden gems that get it  and its possible to have fun while he watches without it feeling like your putting on a show, just relax and have fun
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