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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys
Is it only me that chats to people and when you think all is going well you never get a reply!! I know the site is full of fakes and messers but still!
One couple I was chatting too got real in depth was just about to arrange a time and date! Then bang nothing else!! Really does pee me off!
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me"
this but I am single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me"
this exactly. I've been put off by a comment made before now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me"
Was thinking that but Iv even asked if it's something Iv said! And still nothing I'm really confused :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate, it happens - you're not alone. Had something similar happen to me not so long ago.
Not sure if it was the fact that I actually lived quite close that scared them off or what. But that's the way it goes.
All I did was mention that I recognised the location of one of the outdoor pics that they'd put up, and that was the last I heard from them. LOL!
I just let it go. I don't chase and I really can't be bothered to figure out the why and wherefores.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me"
This. Its awful when it happens but it saves me finding out they're not for me face to face. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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One point which seems obvious but which often doesn't get mentioned in threads such as this is that you may have been chatting to one member of a couple and then either they discuss the situation and decide not to take it any further ; or the second person decides to end it.
The converse of this is that it would be helpful if people would let you know which one you are talking to.
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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago
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Sometimes it isn't you. I have been happily chatting to a couple and them disappear and occasionally come back weeks later saying that one of them freaked out or something happened in their lives that meant they stopped swinging for a bit. Has happened to us too..all heading for a meet but then real life gets in way.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One point which seems obvious but which often doesn't get mentioned in threads such as this is that you may have been chatting to one member of a couple and then either they discuss the situation and decide not to take it any further ; or the second person decides to end it.
The converse of this is that it would be helpful if people would let you know which one you are talking to.
Him"
This makes sense! But would be nice to know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What also could have happened is you got into an in depth sexual conversation,they had a wank and moved onto someone else for fresh material. I found people soon lose interest when I don't go into details as to what I want to do with them. |
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"Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me"
This!
Plus some, as soon as you log on they send a "hi, how are you?" message. Stalker alert! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you considered that it may be something that you said which has put them off?
It happens!
When I was single and meeting I would often get chatting with guys who I was interested in and then something they said made me think no, not for me
This!
Plus some, as soon as you log on they send a "hi, how are you?" message. Stalker alert!"
get out my head lol |
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