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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

Yes maybe you do not like the clubs and like the one to one but to call your self a swinger and been on this site for years and never met anyone should you not be looking at your self in the mirror. and asking is this working.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

WE swing and play how suits us. Not keen on judging others for choosing how they do or don't play

The only 'right way' is the one that works for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I'm truly at a loss as to why you would find the site a waste of time?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And your point is???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

Why all the shouting?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

Why all the shouting?

Some of us are far away

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Freddy and the dreamers were fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

Why all the shouting?

To wake the dreamers up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

...and some of us are just so short that no one can see us amongst the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I humbly apologise, we will now swing how you see fit and cease our own fulfilment in the way we chose to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll call myself what I want thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

What a load of rubbish. We are swingers and have been to clubs about 15 times now and only played 3 times out of all the visits. But played a hell of a lot more away from the club's.

Swinging isn't what it was when you started 12 years ago. It's the same as most things it's evolving. People can call them selves swingers if they want regardless of what they do or don't do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are 3somes classed as swinging now? I'm so confused as to what swinging actually is now,I think I'll stick to meeting who I like,where I want and for as often as I want to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never been to an adult club

My wife doesn't swing so maybe I'm not a swinger

Guess what?! I don't care! Like crashing my car into a bridge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are clearly not swingers then, OP. But we will carry on regardless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP. . Reading your profile. . I'm not surprised you don't enjoy this site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...and some of us are just so short that no one can see us amongst the crowd.

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i feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

And BEFORE YOU SAY WE HAVE BEEN SWINGING FOR 12 YEARS WAS ON THE SITE FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE AND LEFT AS IT WAS A WASTE OF TIME WAS HOPING IT WOULD GET BETTER SO TRYING AGAIN BUT NO LUCK.

What a load of crap! Just because people don't go to clubs doesn't make them any less a swinger.What about all those folk who have gangbangs in hotels.

Let people use the site how they see fit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"...and some of us are just so short that no one can see us amongst the crowd.

i feel your pain

And me...though good things come in small packages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll call myself what I want thank you "

Can I call you what I want too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The same could be said for not being a site supporter OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The same could be said for not being a site supporter OP

Or photo verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well some people have been looking at themselves in the mirror.

What I am saying is to all the people that say they are swingers and never swing or have had one meet in 5 years what you are doing is not working and

doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result will not get you fair.ITS UP TO YOU but it does need pointing out . if you say your way is working for you your not the person it was meet for and happy swinging

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"well some people have been looking at themselves in the mirror.

What I am saying is to all the people that say they are swingers and never swing or have had one meet in 5 years what you are doing is not working and

Sorry, but this doesn't make any sense to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The same could be said for not being a site supporter OP

Or photo verified

LOL pay money for site supporter pay money for something that is not working I think I will put that in one of the Christmas crackers as its so fucking funny. I really is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I'm truly at a loss as to why you would find the site a waste of time?"

Because no-one will drop their knickers for them. It's a SWINGING SITE WHERE PEOPLE SHOULD FUCK WHOEVER ASKS AND GO TO CLUBS AND FOLLOW THE SWINGING GREEN CROSS CODE.

Sorry about the caps. I slipped into 'genuine swinger' mode by accident.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BEING A SWINGER AND NEVER GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB IS LIKE BEING A SCUBA DIVER AND NOT GOING IN THE SEA.

Quite frankly BOLLOCKS!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I use the site to suit me and only me thanku. No ones elses business if i go to a club ir not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you find the site that bad and you only meet in clubs, why be on here ?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Blooming 'eck! It's a lovely sunny day I have two loads of washing out and another one in the machine.

Did anyone see Tony Bennett and Lady Gaga last night? It was very good but she wore a few odd dresses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well some people have been looking at themselves in the mirror.

What I am saying is to all the people that say they are swingers and never swing or have had one meet in 5 years what you are doing is not working and

Ah ok... your original post was pointing out that the site isn't for you and you find it easier meeting in person. Fair enough.

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

"...and some of us are just so short that no one can see us amongst the crowd.

i feel your pain

And me...though good things come in small packages

(Grabs stool to stand on so can reach keyboard ) I agree wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

anyway OP..why are you so concerned about people that dont want to meet?-surely there are enough on the site, and off it...

Some people dont actually like swinger clubs...some people see people only going to sit around in slutty wear who never even have sex

Some swingers never even read the forums..as we talk about shit like " does god exist?"..etc etc

Your OP and profile lead me to believe you are taking things a little too serious

*though I might be interested in licking your wife

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We will call ourselves what we want but if it bothers you that much how about we call ourselves sexually liberated

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, correct me if I am wrong (without shouting if you don't mind please)but are you in essence given what you have said very much the type of people you have the arse abut..?

and who cares anyway if that works for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"anyway OP..why are you so concerned about people that dont want to meet?-surely there are enough on the site, and off it...

Some people dont actually like swinger clubs...some people see people only going to sit around in slutty wear who never even have sex

hi thanks I do take things serious when I do something I like to do it well and right I do not do things by half.its the way I am to many people say one thing and just never do it we tried the meets on this site was let down 5 out of six times so we are right in what we are saying not making it up . as for staying on the site we can all live in hope of change.

Some swingers never even read the forums..as we talk about shit like " does god exist?"..etc etc

Your OP and profile lead me to believe you are taking things a little too serious

*though I might be interested in licking your wife

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

hi all, op have read your profile and a little confused on what you are looking for. is it the social club side with soft swing ? Connie x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"we tried the meets on this site was let down 5 out of six times so we are right in what we are saying not making it up .

equally the other people who you say let you down will have their version of what happened..?

if its not working one way, then change it maybe..?

wish you better luck this time but you will only achieve in comparison to the effort you put in..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't consider myself a swinger as such, have no desire for orgies, gang bangs or clubs, so I make you right, but the sites been good to me and Im certainly not alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"we tried the meets on this site was let down 5 out of six times so we are right in what we are saying not making it up .

equally the other people who you say let you down will have their version of what happened..?

if its not working one way, then change it maybe..?

wish you better luck this time but you will only achieve in comparison to the effort you put in.."

fuck you all if your a swinging great happy swinging if your one of the sad cunts wasting peoples time just fuck off on to face any one that sees it any other way cannot be a swinger .as for who you say let you down will have their version of what happened..?

are you fucking joking we are swiwers have been for over 12 years NOT FUCKING TIME WASTERS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" fuck you all if your a swinging great happy swinging if your one of the sad cunts wasting peoples time just fuck off on to face any one that sees it any other way cannot be a swinger .as for who you say let you down will have their version of what happened..?

are you fucking joking we are swiwers have been for over 12 years NOT FUCKING TIME WASTERS "

Waw!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Live and let live I say, I see this site as a bit or light hearted fun never to be taken seriously.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"we are swiwers have been for over 12 years NOT FUCKING TIME WASTERS "

Yet you are obviously hating every moment that you're on this site, so why dictate how other, more successful swingers use the site? Let them be, and work on your own problems.

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By *parkybunnyCouple over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

"fuck you all if your a swinging great happy swinging if your one of the sad cunts wasting peoples time just fuck off on to face any one that sees it any other way cannot be a swinger .as for who you say let you down will have their version of what happened..?

are you fucking joking we are swiwers have been for over 12 years NOT FUCKING TIME WASTERS "

Fuck us all? With that attitude I very much doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well this thread wont be up for long hahahahahahaha.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"we tried the meets on this site was let down 5 out of six times so we are right in what we are saying not making it up .

equally the other people who you say let you down will have their version of what happened..?

if its not working one way, then change it maybe..?

wish you better luck this time but you will only achieve in comparison to the effort you put in..

are you fucking joking we are swiwers have been for over 12 years NOT FUCKING TIME WASTERS "

WOW! Where did that come from?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You keep your scuba clubs and we will keep pretending to be swingers and have great fun with other pretenders at ours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

like I said...far far too FUCKING serious.

and I think the point is, about these let downs..

either you choose poorly

the said meet has grown to dislike the attitude..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

are you fucking joking we are swiwers have been for over 12 years NOT FUCKING TIME WASTERS "

Im obviously one of the sad cunts wasting peoples time not swinging at the moment but if its ok with you I wont fuck off just yet.

In the meantime....

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