FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Overconfident Single Men?
Overconfident Single Men?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!"
..... and have you reported it? The contact link at the bottom of any page works wonders.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!
..... and have you reported it? The contact link at the bottom of any page works wonders. "
Report him?  What for? He hasn't done anything wrong  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!"
Really? What did you expect? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!"
Note to OP :
Expect more
Infact, expect anything
Smile through it all
If they don't tick your boxes or do things 'your way', you have the means right here to stop them in their tracks.
Untwist ur knickers before it gets too uncomfy  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!"
Huh? Only 99.9% of the time! ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
OP. I didn't like wasting my time chatting for a long time without making sure I fancied them. The only way I knew that was by meeting them in person. If you are saying he wants to see you via webcam or a face to face meet, I don't blame him. I would always insist on a social meet pretty early on. No guarantee the person you are chatting with online is who they say they are until you actually see them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!
..... and have you reported it? The contact link at the bottom of any page works wonders.
Report him? What for? He hasn't done anything wrong "
A bit forward and presumptuous maybe but I agree he hasn't broken any site rules. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Have any other couples/females had the experience of a single guy saying he wants to verify via meeting or webcam without even chatting for long enough to give you a reason to WANT to meet or cam? I really didn't expect that on here!"
A single male bashing thread - I really didn't expect that on here!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
He wants to be sure you are a real couple and not just a man pretending to be one. I would do the same. If your wife is back in the country you can say hello on cam to verify you are a couple. It's easily done and nothing to do with him being over confident. Just cautious |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP. I didn't like wasting my time chatting for a long time without making sure I fancied them. The only way I knew that was by meeting them in person. If you are saying he wants to see you via webcam or a face to face meet, I don't blame him. I would always insist on a social meet pretty early on. No guarantee the person you are chatting with online is who they say they are until you actually see them. "
The request to cam or meet was literally within half an hour of sending us a message. That's not "pretty early". I never for a second considered reporting him, though - I save that for obvious trolls and fakes!
Also, plenty of respectful single guys on here, too - I posted here because this guy stood out for the wrong reasons. Not a "single guy bashing thread" at all! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"He wants to be sure you are a real couple and not just a man pretending to be one. I would do the same. If your wife is back in the country you can say hello on cam to verify you are a couple. It's easily done and nothing to do with him being over confident. Just cautious "
She isn't, and he was told that early on - he didn't even want to chat and let us get to know him until we were willing to meet or able to cam. Not sure why he would even send us a message, knowing that we're not verified by meeting! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"He wants to be sure you are a real couple and not just a man pretending to be one. I would do the same. If your wife is back in the country you can say hello on cam to verify you are a couple. It's easily done and nothing to do with him being over confident. Just cautious "
wise words indeedy,,I wanna see a person on cam 1st if they don't then they,ve some thing to hide or are not what they say they are.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"He wants to be sure you are a real couple and not just a man pretending to be one. I would do the same. If your wife is back in the country you can say hello on cam to verify you are a couple. It's easily done and nothing to do with him being over confident. Just cautious
wise words indeedy,,I wanna see a person on cam 1st if they don't then they,ve some thing to hide or are not what they say they are. "
Before meeting, fair enough. But before any sort of real conversation...? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"He wants to be sure you are a real couple and not just a man pretending to be one. I would do the same. If your wife is back in the country you can say hello on cam to verify you are a couple. It's easily done and nothing to do with him being over confident. Just cautious
wise words indeedy,,I wanna see a person on cam 1st if they don't then they,ve some thing to hide or are not what they say they are.
Before meeting, fair enough. But before any sort of real conversation...? "
No point in having a conversation if it was to turn out you were really a single guy pretending to be a couple , it's a fairly common thing on here |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"He wants to be sure you are a real couple and not just a man pretending to be one. I would do the same. If your wife is back in the country you can say hello on cam to verify you are a couple. It's easily done and nothing to do with him being over confident. Just cautious
wise words indeedy,,I wanna see a person on cam 1st if they don't then they,ve some thing to hide or are not what they say they are.
Before meeting, fair enough. But before any sort of real conversation...?
No point in having a conversation if it was to turn out you were really a single guy pretending to be a couple , it's a fairly common thing on here "
It would take a really determined fake to be 2 parts of a 3 way kik conversation haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Ps I'm not saying you are fake , I just can't understand why your slating the guy for something that sounds perfectly reasonable since your not verified, couldn't you just have had a 3 way cam chat? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"OP. I didn't like wasting my time chatting for a long time without making sure I fancied them. The only way I knew that was by meeting them in person. If you are saying he wants to see you via webcam or a face to face meet, I don't blame him. I would always insist on a social meet pretty early on. No guarantee the person you are chatting with online is who they say they are until you actually see them.
The request to cam or meet was literally within half an hour of sending us a message. That's not "pretty early". I never for a second considered reporting him, though - I save that for obvious trolls and fakes!
Also, plenty of respectful single guys on here, too - I posted here because this guy stood out for the wrong reasons. Not a "single guy bashing thread" at all!"
You suggest skype on your profile with no mention of a 'getting to know us' timescale so why be surprised at his request??? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP. I didn't like wasting my time chatting for a long time without making sure I fancied them. The only way I knew that was by meeting them in person. If you are saying he wants to see you via webcam or a face to face meet, I don't blame him. I would always insist on a social meet pretty early on. No guarantee the person you are chatting with online is who they say they are until you actually see them.
The request to cam or meet was literally within half an hour of sending us a message. That's not "pretty early". I never for a second considered reporting him, though - I save that for obvious trolls and fakes!
Also, plenty of respectful single guys on here, too - I posted here because this guy stood out for the wrong reasons. Not a "single guy bashing thread" at all!
You suggest skype on your profile with no mention of a 'getting to know us' timescale so why be surprised at his request???"
I've never been asked to skype so quickly, by anyone of either sex that I've ever chatted to on any site |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
