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over a year ago
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Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?"
Confused. Surely that could be said the same for both of you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Confused. Surely that could be said the same for both of you?"
I had a relationship with someone who never wanted to be in a relationship. Emotionally it was difficult because he'd flip between letting me in and pushing me away. So if someone presents me with "this barrier" I won't expend my emotions on him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?"
Yep. That cleared it up |
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Yep. That cleared it up"
Yes indeed crystal clear now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Yep. That cleared it up"
I'm damn jealous of the couples madly in love and into this lifestyle. I want me some *stomps feet*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?"
Do you ever wonder if guys want a 'relationship' to get more sex? They might see it as an easier way to get with couples or other single women? I wonder that sometimes, about certain guys anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Yep. That cleared it up
I'm damn jealous of the couples madly in love and into this lifestyle. I want me some *stomps feet* "
Its not all plain sailing. ....But it's worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Yep. That cleared it up
I'm damn jealous of the couples madly in love and into this lifestyle. I want me some *stomps feet*
Its not all plain sailing. ....But it's worth it "
All relationships take work, but if a guy only wants one facet of you then it's time to move on. I can get sex but I want a potential deeper connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Do you ever wonder if guys want a 'relationship' to get more sex? They might see it as an easier way to get with couples or other single women? I wonder that sometimes, about certain guys anyway."
I have this knack of being honest to the extreme. I don't find men pretending they want a relationship maybe cos I'm overtly sexual. They prob don't think I'll be able to resist their cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok now I have that out of my system...
I met a guy from a fishy site and in time learned he used to be on here. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Like fuck I did. Yeah he was up for forming a couple on here but couldn't see anything long term.
Byeeeeee. I couldn't see a ring on my finger but I was open to seeing where it would lead.
Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?
Do you ever wonder if guys want a 'relationship' to get more sex? They might see it as an easier way to get with couples or other single women? I wonder that sometimes, about certain guys anyway.
I have this knack of being honest to the extreme. I don't find men pretending they want a relationship maybe cos I'm overtly sexual. They prob don't think I'll be able to resist their cock "
Lol, ok.
Dunno it's just the impression i get when someone wants to make a couples profile on here, i just think to myself 'well i can get loads of sex without you thanks' and don't wanna make one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would personally want sex with somebody I have a strong connection with.
The fact that we might of been a couples on here would not "get me more sex" As I should be having a lot of sex anyway with my partner in crime. As to truly get a lot out of a sexually fuelled relationship, you should explore each others bodies/minds/souls before moving onto somebody else.
Sex and lust are at their best when they are fuelled by desire. That "I am gonna rip your clothes off when I see you" type feeling.
I have had that and its awesome, its heated and extremely filthy. But has a lot of emotion in it to.
At least that's my crap opinion lol |
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Why can't men (people) just go with the flow?"
I know where you're coming from. What's wrong with just going full throttle here and now and not worrying about the end result? I'm sick of living with the handbrake on, I want to let go the end and enjoy the ride!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was on both Fab and Pof for most of this year. Both had their good points. But with the massive cross over, sometimes I didn't know what site I was on!?  |
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"I was on both Fab and Pof for most of this year. Both had their good points. But with the massive cross over, sometimes I didn't know what site I was on!? "
I've had way more social interactions and ongoing and/or deeper connections on here than I ever made on Pof!
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"I was on both Fab and Pof for most of this year. Both had their good points. But with the massive cross over, sometimes I didn't know what site I was on!?
I've had way more social interactions and ongoing and/or deeper connections on here than I ever made on Pof!
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I've made one very good friend off Pof, but you are right, it is fairly vapid. |
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"I was on both Fab and Pof for most of this year. Both had their good points. But with the massive cross over, sometimes I didn't know what site I was on!?
I've had way more social interactions and ongoing and/or deeper connections on here than I ever made on Pof!
I've made one very good friend off Pof, but you are right, it is fairly vapid. "
Haha, and I made one friend on another site purely 'cos he used the word vapid in his profile!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was on both Fab and Pof for most of this year. Both had their good points. But with the massive cross over, sometimes I didn't know what site I was on!?
I've had way more social interactions and ongoing and/or deeper connections on here than I ever made on Pof!
I've made one very good friend off Pof, but you are right, it is fairly vapid.
Haha, and I made one friend on another site purely 'cos he used the word vapid in his profile!! "
Ha ha. Certain words I used did peak the interests of certain ladies. That's how I learnt the word 'sapiophile' and then had some interesting dates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two seperate agendas I think
1 where it's just a fuck and you have no ties or commitment
2 where its a deeper meaningful fuck
Can they work together ?
Yes if you are a true swinger
No if your vanilla at heart
I'm a vanilla at heart but I have fun on here with some amazing people but could walk away and not play again ever if I meet the right one
I've been looking for 6 yrs so I may be here a while longer lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two seperate agendas I think
1 where it's just a fuck and you have no ties or commitment
2 where its a deeper meaningful fuck
Can they work together ?
Yes if you are a true swinger
No if your vanilla at heart
I'm a vanilla at heart but I have fun on here with some amazing people but could walk away and not play again ever if I meet the right one
I've been looking for 6 yrs so I may be here a while longer lol
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I do agree
although that word vanilla makes me cringe. Almost like FAB sex is aome what different ... Well no im still gonna be a great fucking if itscwith.one person aswell lol. But then.i have met the man i wanted to spen my life with unfortunately he passed away so for me tgis site is an inbetween im not ready to move on or begin to imagine x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two seperate agendas I think
1 where it's just a fuck and you have no ties or commitment
2 where its a deeper meaningful fuck
Can they work together ?
Yes if you are a true swinger
No if your vanilla at heart
I'm a vanilla at heart but I have fun on here with some amazing people but could walk away and not play again ever if I meet the right one
I've been looking for 6 yrs so I may be here a while longer lol
I do agree
although that word vanilla makes me cringe. Almost like FAB sex is aome what different ... Well no im still gonna be a great fucking if itscwith.one person aswell lol. But then.i have met the man i wanted to spen my life with unfortunately he passed away so for me tgis site is an inbetween im not ready to move on or begin to imagine x"
*great fuck lol
can experiment and be open minded still involve other people maybe not on a consistent basis thats not for me but id definately not be straight forward missionary 2 minutes done lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two seperate agendas I think
1 where it's just a fuck and you have no ties or commitment
2 where its a deeper meaningful fuck
Can they work together ?
Yes if you are a true swinger
No if your vanilla at heart
I'm a vanilla at heart but I have fun on here with some amazing people but could walk away and not play again ever if I meet the right one
I've been looking for 6 yrs so I may be here a while longer lol
I do agree
although that word vanilla makes me cringe. Almost like FAB sex is aome what different ... Well no im still gonna be a great fucking if itscwith.one person aswell lol. But then.i have met the man i wanted to spen my life with unfortunately he passed away so for me tgis site is an inbetween im not ready to move on or begin to imagine x *great fuck lol
can experiment and be open minded still involve other people maybe not on a consistent basis thats not for me but id definately not be straight forward missionary 2 minutes done lol"
Xxx. Some of us are just destined to be single and if that's the way it's meant to be then I'll be single and swinging forever lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two seperate agendas I think
1 where it's just a fuck and you have no ties or commitment
2 where its a deeper meaningful fuck
Can they work together ?
Yes if you are a true swinger
No if your vanilla at heart
I'm a vanilla at heart but I have fun on here with some amazing people but could walk away and not play again ever if I meet the right one
I've been looking for 6 yrs so I may be here a while longer lol
I do agree
although that word vanilla makes me cringe. Almost like FAB sex is aome what different ... Well no im still gonna be a great fucking if itscwith.one person aswell lol. But then.i have met the man i wanted to spen my life with unfortunately he passed away so for me tgis site is an inbetween im not ready to move on or begin to imagine x *great fuck lol
can experiment and be open minded still involve other people maybe not on a consistent basis thats not for me but id definately not be straight forward missionary 2 minutes done lol
Xxx. Some of us are just destined to be single and if that's the way it's meant to be then I'll be single and swinging forever lol xxx "
I agree and I think that's the best place for you lol
Me my hearts too big to just 'shag around' |
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