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By *erefordman99 OP Man over a year ago

Cinderford

There seems to be two disctinct schools of thought when it comes to winking on this site. To me it seems that a wink is a very quick and easy way to express an interest - and if that wink is reciprocated then I would send a message (not a one liner!!) However I have just had a response from a couple who stated that "a wink will get me nowhere and that I should have sent a message" then promptly blocked me. Seems a silly reaction to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I delete all winks without response.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like winks...respond if you like the look ...ignore if you dont...really cant see the problem...

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By *ooseLipsWoman over a year ago

Durham-ish

"We like winks...respond if you like the look ...ignore if you dont...really cant see the problem...

I like winks..

Quick and easy way to let ppl know you're interested, as above cant see the problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you read their profile?

Chances are they had it on their profile,no winks.

We dont mind them,but we will only reply to a wink or wink back if we are interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We like winks...respond if you like the look ...ignore if you dont...really cant see the problem...

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...... What they said ^

* gets bk in coffin *

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually just send a message because whether they like winking or not messages are generally accepted....

I don't need to worry about getting winked lol!

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By *erefordman99 OP Man over a year ago

Cinderford

Yes - I always read the profile before I wink or send a message, in this case there was no mention of not responding to winks -

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

If someone winks me it means they have clearly not read my profile as it says i dont like winks

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By *aravancoupleMan over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We always delete winks,we only reply to messages.

Carol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't look at winks: I delete them.

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By *mf4BxJCouple over a year ago

edinburgh

I think people get a bit uppity about winks. Personally I think their a quick way of expressing interest and a good way of 'checking' each other out!

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