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Won't just fuck anything?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just read a status on a guys profile who looked at me. Couldn't be arsed looking at the actual profile.
Status read....not like other black guys, I don't just fuck anything. What do people make of this? Is this REALLY a perception of black guys? This would be really racist if posted by a white man!
Is it why some profiles say no blacks or Asians? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe he knows a lot of black men who will have sex with whomever is on offer,rather than trying to build up a rapport. Sex is just sex to some people,not just black men. |
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"Just read a status on a guys profile who looked at me. Couldn't be arsed looking at the actual profile.
Status read....not like other black guys, I don't just fuck anything. What do people make of this? Is this REALLY a perception of black guys? This would be really racist if posted by a white man!
Is it why some profiles say no blacks or Asians?"
I doubt it's why some profiles say that.
It's making a huge generalisation about men based on skin colour I don't think the skin colour of the individual making that generalisation is significant. It's just another example if someone trying to make themselves look good by making others look bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I doubt it's why some profiles say that.
It's making a huge generalisation about men based on skin colour I don't think the skin colour of the individual making that generalisation is significant. It's just another example if someone trying to make themselves look good by making others look bad."
Absolutely bang-on 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also, if a white guy were to post it (and assuming that the same rules applied) surely it would read ';...not like other white guys, wont just fuck anything'
Elitist, derogatory and possibly inflammatory, yes. Racist, no. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.
Was wondering if it was a perception for some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On the question of why some profiles say 'No Insert Age, Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation Here', that's expressing a preference; a choice.
It's still OK to express and act upon personal choice when it comes to sexual attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.
Was wondering if it was a perception for some."
I think that some people will fuck anything. I don't believe its related to ethnicity, gender or anything like that. Its a mindset of an individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people will simply just fuck anything, it's that simple. They have no standards and just want to add a few notches to the bed post.
Last time I checked it wasn't just black people, it was anybody.
We do tend to cherry pick our meets but then... Who wouldn't? We have been close to meeting people before, until seeing. That actually the person was a total arse. That happens a lot because there's a lot of fakers here. But should we just sleep with them because we can? C xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.
Was wondering if it was a perception for some."
You can't be racist towards your own culture/colour didn't you know that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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doubt he even registered any thought of how this could be taken...sounds like a stupid off the cuff remark, no different than all the guys on here who put 'not like all the other guys'...'im different'..etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.
Was wondering if it was a perception for some.
You can't be racist towards your own culture/colour didn't you know that "
But you can be a self-hater. |
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"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.
Was wondering if it was a perception for some.
I think that some people will fuck anything. I don't believe its related to ethnicity, gender or anything like that. Its a mindset of an individual. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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The thing about fucking "anything" is,one person's "anything" is another person's perfect fuck. For instance,I've previously read comments from people saying they are picky,choosy,don't fuck just anything and looked at who they have fucked,and not found them attractive. I will be an "anything" to some people. As for people who attend gang bangs and orgies,it's their kink,their turn on to have sex with strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.
Was wondering if it was a perception for some.
You can't be racist towards your own culture/colour didn't you know that
But you can be a self-hater."
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"On the question of why some profiles say 'No Insert Age, Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation Here', that's expressing a preference; a choice.
It's still OK to express and act upon personal choice when it comes to sexual attraction. "
So would it be OK for someone to have on their profile:
"No Jews because I won't fuck any untermenschen"? It's their preference after all.
Or what about:
"No bi men because the idea of two men together makes me sick to my stomach?"
(that's an actual quote from a post on this site by the way) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just read a status on a guys profile who looked at me. Couldn't be arsed looking at the actual profile.
Status read....not like other black guys, I don't just fuck anything. What do people make of this? Is this REALLY a perception of black guys? This would be really racist if posted by a white man!
Is it why some profiles say no blacks or Asians?"
This is one of the reasons why I would never go with a black man, yes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the question of why some profiles say 'No Insert Age, Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation Here', that's expressing a preference; a choice.
It's still OK to express and act upon personal choice when it comes to sexual attraction.
So would it be OK for someone to have on their profile:
"No Jews because I won't fuck any untermenschen"? It's their preference after all.
Or what about:
"No bi men because the idea of two men together makes me sick to my stomach?"
(that's an actual quote from a post on this site by the way)"
The first is anti Semitic. The second is a crass expression of an individual's preference.
It is possible to express a preference without being a twat about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Theres a difference between not wanting something, and being an utter twat about it. I don't go for black men, never have, never will. But I'm not racist. I just don't ci d black men sexually appealing. Just like I do t if d really old men appealing. Or dogs. Or golfing umbrellas.
But there IS a way to say that on a profile and remain polite. If somebody were to take offence to a polite mention then that would be their concern. I mention I don't like muscle bound guys on my profile. Hats my preference. I don't say all guys with muscles have small cocks and are clearly compensating, that they need to all fuck off, because they are ugly as shit and should die. I just say i I don't go for that type.
Sadly... Some people on here can't do that. I get messages from people saying I. Clearly a fat bitch and that I have to settle with my fat small peckered man because Im too ugly to pull somebody like them... Egos, man... Ugh... C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that some people will fuck anything. I don't believe its related to ethnicity, gender or anything like that. Its a mindset of an individual. "
I'm inclined to agree with you on that one. |
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