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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them. "
I suppose it is like people putting safe sex on their preferences but having bareback pictures. Some guys are bi convenient when it suits them. |
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" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them. "
Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and do not meet bi or gay single men. It works for me, and I've enticed some couples with it. I think I'm more pansexual than bi sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They dont thats just it. Loads of threads on here talk about wanting and preferring bi guys. Lots couldnt care less. Only a few will not meet bi guys so what makes the bi guys A) think they have the right to lie to meet them. And B) want to meet that small group that clearly does not want to meet them? Build a bridge, get over it and stick to the large percentage who WANT to meet bi guys or dont give two shits that your bi. Being a liar puts far more people off  |
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" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.
Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and
do not meet bi or gay single men. It
works for me, and I've enticed some
couples with it. I think I'm more
pansexual than bi sexual."
It's on your profile though  |
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" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.
Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and
do not meet bi or gay single men. It
works for me, and I've enticed some
couples with it. I think I'm more
pansexual than bi sexual.
It's on your profile though "
Thanks mate, much appreciated the tick box selection on here is funny so I wrote hetro-flexible  |
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" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.
Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and
do not meet bi or gay single men. It
works for me, and I've enticed some
couples with it. I think I'm more
pansexual than bi sexual.
It's on your profile though
Thanks mate, much appreciated
the tick box selection on here
is funny so I wrote hetro-flexible :-
)"
The point being you tell people in your profile. Some men who describe themselves as straight don't mention anything about any spectrum of bi-ness and it's misleading. Desperation for sex overriding any sense of respect for the couple they are trying to have sex with. |
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I've had bi experiences through mmf's I've had, but I wouldn't say I'm bi sexual - I don't fancy men, wouldn't message them and would not meet a man alone. But in certain sexual situations certain acts have happened, I've gone with the flow and enjoyed it. That's human behaviour for you - never simple!
Maybe some people just don't want to be pigeonholed into something they don't think suits them, or be beholdent to a certain label.
It's a tricky one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just wish Fab would expand the search criteria so it's possible to look for bi men only. Especially in a couple. "Where one is bi" finds lots of bi females.
When my wife and I search we would like just the guy to be bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same when you see someone describe themselves as "professional", then when you question them as to which regulatory body they are a member of they say none. Hang em! Hang em high!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the same when you see someone describe themselves as "professional", then when you question them as to which regulatory body they are a member of they say none. Hang em! Hang em high! "
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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago
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Lots of guys who claim to be strait send me message's saying things like "I'm going to fuck hard and suck my Cock " even when I've never even spoke to them.
I'm bicurious with limited bi experience but I have been honest on here about it.
I feel sonetimes that puts some couples off but feel it's better to be honest from the word go.
Saying that, I've still not managed a real bi threesome yet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We view it as being dishonest. If they can't be honest about their sexuality, what else are they willing to be dishonest about.
So we would never invite them to play. |
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