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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just general chat seems imposible, i am a chatty woman not interested in 1 word replies its not the most relaxing way to start and y do people make out to be something their not? Like your not going to notice lol swinging should be fun and exciting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like talking about nothing so find it really easy to have conversations on here, some guys i've been talking to for months now and not met them, some only for a few hours, depends really.
don't think i make a good friend coz i talk to too many people at once sometimes and end up neglecting a few regular chatters in the process but they always come back the next day or later on to talk to me luckily.
dunno if it would be harder for couples though coz you might not know what the other partner was talking about or want to talk about? single people it seems easy enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think having a raport with someone you want a more lasting 'relationship' with is extremely important. Makes sex much better as well. Especially if you are wanting a fuck buddy, I believe it should be more than just stick it in and out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup that's why we like meeting at clubs. We can have a sit down and chat over a few drinks before deciding to play and if not we have a look around and a play on our own using the facilities of the club. Or meet someone else there! |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
I'm put off when I can't communicate well with my meet partners. When we have a few things in common the atmosphere totally changes, and things get a lot more fun. So finding someone you get on with so much that you can meet regularly would be awesome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not finding it that difficult. Those that just send one liners we say no thank you too and don't meet. Those that send several good messages and we get to know we arrange a social with. If the social goes well we take it further at future meetings. There are some lovely people on here who we have clicked with enough to meet |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"We like to know we can hold a convo with a couple prior to arranging a meet, are we the only ones? Simple chat not 1 liners"
You are not the only ones. We want to know that we can talk to someone before getting them in to our bed. It's interesting watching it with Tigs, there are a few people she is talking to and conversing with and its really nice to see then you get the "want a fuck luv" message and I shake my head in shame for them. Has this every actually worked? Even outside of fab when I was single, i had to put a little effort in when on the pull in a club |
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I know it's ultimately a sex site but for us the conversation has got to be there too. We get plenty of people who just reply and don't ask questions so the conversation is one sided or just dies.
We'd love to meet a couple that we get on with in and out of the bedroom as sex would get better the more you played.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know it's ultimately a sex site but for us the conversation has got to be there too. We get plenty of people who just reply and don't ask questions so the conversation is one sided or just dies.
We'd love to meet a couple that we get on with in and out of the bedroom as sex would get better the more you played.
I think personally if u want my tits out i need banter lol iam a friendly easy going person but i also have respect for myself and my hubby, a quick shag isnt what i am after plus i need to express boundries and respect both parties miscomunication can cause unwanted issues that are avoidable be it a single person, couple or group we all have no go area's lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Snap we like to know the person/couple as every1 has different wants and needs some can be explored but if u dont discuss what u do and dont want its easy to turn into a bad experiance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Puts us off when you cant have chat and banter in messages leading up to a meet. Makes us wonder how your gonna communicate face to face if they cant do it on a message. So far we've met 3 couples we chat well with online and face to face but since meeting 2 of them cut back to only asking when we were meeting again and seem to think its no longer important to chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have many multiple meets....but would not necessarily call them friends with benefits.
I do, however, have one wonderful friend from here...with whom I spend a great deal of time at weekends, just the two of us in her caravan. She was the reason why Louise minx called me a slush......think she meant slut but was a typo! |
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"We like to know we can hold a convo with a couple prior to arranging a meet, are we the only ones? Simple chat not 1 liners"
I have a few couples i meet and chat with on a regular basis so much better when you know people outside the bedroom as well as in it |
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By *andJ2227Couple
over a year ago
Swadlincote |
We would love to find a local couple or even better couples for fun and friendship in and out of the bedroom. Nothing better than getting to know each other better. Makes for more enjoyable play times and great social times with like minded people. Such a shame there aren't more people that feel the same!  |
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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago
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"We would love to find a local couple or even better couples for fun and friendship in and out of the bedroom. Nothing better than getting to know each other better. Makes for more enjoyable play times and great social times with like minded people. Such a shame there aren't more people that feel the same! "
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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago
Suffolk/Norfolk border |
I/we prefer to chat first & get to know the person & have a laugh as it makes the sex better. When I answer a message I always ask questions & get a one word reply with no effort from them which is so unhelpful. If guys want to meet they need to start getting better at their messages & a photo always helps. The sex usually gets better the more you meet the person rather than a one off fuck  |
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I prefer too have some banter with future and past meets, sometimes its not returned. Ive spoke to a couple for upto 2years...... Strung along with promises, then nothing. I agree with a few on here that a one sided conversation isn't a real conversation
Messages/texts can be read in a few different ways and can often be misconstrued  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Snap it's not just about the sex having a friendship means a lot.x
It definitely does! I understand its not for everyone but it really plays a huge part for us! X"
Yeah us too Hun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like someone I can have a conversation with, stimulation of the mind is just as important for me. Maybe not as much for one-offs, but definitely if you want a friend with benefits |
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not sure whether it's us but as soon as you are looking for another meet they are back all nic and chatty again 