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By *layerz OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
We don't accept all the friends requests we get? We don't get that many but we do get a few.
Now we aren't chooses except that we tend to stick with people we've actually met or people who are close and verified BT friends we've already met.
What. Methods do others use to choose which requests to accept and which to not accept. We also prefer that they are in a reasonably close proximity? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My method. If they cant be bothered to send a message beforehand, I dont accept
Well maybe if they are not online, accept, have a look at friends pics and then delete if not intetested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only accept after chatting and agreeing to meet which is why I only have 6 on my list.
I've been criticised for this in the past but I have my face picture in my friends only album so it's my decision who to add  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't accept any unless I'm interested in the person sending the request. A lot of people ask before requesting,the ones sent by people I haven't spoken to are ignored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol no your not being rude,,i get hundreds, loads everyday,,i rarely accept unless they,ve bothered to chat 1st and I feel their fun or I fancy em.
but random folk wanting to be m friend,,nah
they are the rude ones not talking 1st before asking to be friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't accept any unless I'm interested in the person sending the request. A lot of people ask before requesting,the ones sent by people I haven't spoken to are ignored "
hey how come we,re not friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My method. If they cant be bothered to send a message beforehand, I dont accept
Well maybe if they are not online, accept, have a look at friends pics and then delete if not interested"
i do this ^^ .. but all on my friends list are people ive met to have fun with ,,and i never accept random invites ,, w |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't accept any unless I'm interested in the person sending the request. A lot of people ask before requesting,the ones sent by people I haven't spoken to are ignored
hey how come we,re not friends"
We are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't accept any unless I'm interested in the person sending the request. A lot of people ask before requesting,the ones sent by people I haven't spoken to are ignored
hey how come we,re not friends
We are "
aint we just,xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is up to you, but I don't see how someone you don't know could think you rude for not accepting a friend request. My friends are people I have chatted to and get on with, have met or hope to meet (and ideally are all 3!) |
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"We don't accept all the friends requests we get? We don't get that many but we do get a few.
Now we aren't chooses except that we tend to stick with people we've actually met or people who are close and verified BT friends we've already met.
What. Methods do others use to choose which requests to accept and which to not accept. We also prefer that they are in a reasonably close proximity?"
If they didn't ask before sending a friend request then no need to worry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't accept any unless I'm interested in the person sending the request. A lot of people ask before requesting,the ones sent by people I haven't spoken to are ignored
hey how come we,re not friends
We are
aint we just,xxx "
BFFs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all , your profile your rules. I get loads of requests from people who dont even say hello. I only invite people ive met or intend to or are good to chat with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We accept about 1 in 20 invites we get and the ones we do accept are from people we intend to meet for a social at least.
It is your profile so do whatever you are happy with. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Absolutely not! There's some folk you won't like around here, that's human nature, you don't have to accept a friends request from anyone.
Our rule: Add those we are interested in meeting. Those we know we will never meet then it's poitnless, however, if we have a convo with some and all is good and still we don't intend to meet which both parties know we will still add them as there is a mutual raport even though both parties know nothing sexual will develop from it, we have a few friends like that. We know some wouldn't entertain our last part but the whole point is it's frankly up to you, just don't feel obliged to do anything it's your experience, try to make it as positive for you as possible. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't accept all the friends requests we get? We don't get that many but we do get a few.
Now we aren't chooses except that we tend to stick with people we've actually met or people who are close and verified BT friends we've already met.
What. Methods do others use to choose which requests to accept and which to not accept. We also prefer that they are in a reasonably close proximity?"
We are very similar. We generally only accept friends from some one we have met and the odd occasion we have accepted it of they have met good friends of ours.
Everything can still be done without being friends. If people ask we normally tell them that we won't accept it but hot list us as it is pretty much the same thing. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I only accept friends requests from people I know (usually that I've met, socially or privately).
Yes, sometimes I get single females or couples out of the blue send me friends invites, and when I reject it they block me.. usually after a nasty email about how arrogant I am, it being my loss, and they would never want to meet me. To which I think "Okay.. so what did I lose out on, as I did not know you existed 2 minutes ago?" |
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We find it rude when people send a request but don't have the decentcy to message or wink first. Most are way outside our prefered travel distance an as such can only assume they want wank material an have no interest in us as people or potential meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure what the advantage of just being friends with someone you are not going to meet or never meet, however
The only reason to be friends, is to quickly find them, see their status and perv the friends only pictures.
Of course I could have missed something... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends are exactly that. People i have met...or at least spoken to (not just on fab) and have a likelihood of meeting.
Any request from randoms i consider the sender of the request to be tge rude one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one the other day,
I sent a message saying I don't accept friend requests of people I haven't chatted to first, I was blocked before I could even read/look at there profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My method. If they cant be bothered to send a message beforehand, I dont accept
Well maybe if they are not online, accept, have a look at friends pics and then delete if not intetested"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only friends if we have asked if it s ok to send invite or vice versa - apart from the odd one where they have been on the hotlist and out of the blue send an invite-maybe a week or so after our first message - will admit some we look at when offline just to perv pics then delete |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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We only accept friends requests from people we've chatted with quite alot and actually would like to meet.
Anyone that we haven't had a good conversation with and clicked with is a no.
We delete all others
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I rarely look at my friends requests. Doesn't bother me if anyone sends a request or not. It is easy to ignore them. I don't feel the need to block them or send them a message asking why they sent the request.
I just see it as a way to see your friends only pictures. Or for me to see theirs. No big deal. |
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It's not face book. We are not here to collect thousands of friends. We only accept requests from people we've met or played with. It make our friends list a little more personal we think. Besides why give some stranger/s we are never likely to meet access to our personal photos??
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I only accept invites to people i have spoken to or have been verified genuine by others, i have 2 from woman this week who have no pics (not even body shots) or veri's so you know straight away they are fake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only accept after chatting and agreeing to meet which is why I only have 6 on my list.
I've been criticised for this in the past but I have my face picture in my friends only album so it's my decision who to add "
Absolutely, I've had pics stolen in the past, if we haven't chatted, met, then we're not really friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people on our friends list are ones we have met. And we keep it that way. Anyone who sends us a random friend request without having met go straight to block list. At least we know the people on our friends list aren't time wasters and we know we can arrange another meet with them easily  |
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