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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx"
Lots love it but most wont admit it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx
Lots love it but most wont admit it"
Many more do than people like to think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx"
wish i was nearer to you xx |
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"Lots love it but most wont admit it
Nonsense. Most people admit to loving it. Its just not worth the risk of actually doing it."
Exactly we'd all do it without in a perfect world, and can't think of any fantasies where I go "oh and I really hope he wears a condom!" But as much of a nice thought, it's just too risky and not something we 'll entertain at all.
Although get ready, this thread will soon descend into "yes but you do oral without " and "dental dams" and "never 100% safe" etc etc as every thread that mentions bb does. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer safe sex and I am concerned about catching HIV, mostly.
There are quite a lot on here who don't use condoms, I try and avoid them and those who have met them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a utopian world with no diseases, viruses or infections then yeah. Sadly we all live in the real world so it's a case of trying to be as safe as possible
Condoms have never really bothered me anyway, I don't mind using them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms have never really bothered me anyway, I don't mind using them."
this for me too. I really don't mind using them. Not everyone prefers bareback!! |
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"In a utopian world with no diseases, viruses or infections then yeah. Sadly we all live in the real world so it's a case of trying to be as safe as possible
Condoms have never really bothered me anyway, I don't mind using them."
I don't think many guys mind using them but definitely wouldn't use one if I didn't have to.
And the reason why I have to isn't because the person I'm having sex wants me to because not all of them do but because I don't want to catch anything or leave anything either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although get ready, this thread will soon descend into "yes but you do oral without " and "dental dams" and "never 100% safe" etc etc as every thread that mentions bb does. "
Yeah I saw a comment about oral sex using dental dams, from some safe sex feminiNazi the other day.
Like why, just why, would anyone bother with that- creepy beyond words.
Almost as bad as putting your cock into a plastic bag to have sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I, Silk would never do bareback with anyone only Satin gets that pleasure. Too risky to go bareback, with so many people with Stds.
Satin would never take that risk either, if we ever do full swap, he knows I wouldnt let him near me if he went bareback.
When doing oral obviously it bareback and still a risk by mouth but not giving a BJ with a condom on.
Its personal choice and a decision you have to make on your own or between you if a couple.
Silk x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots love it but most wont admit it
Nonsense. Most people admit to loving it. Its just not worth the risk of actually doing it."
A lot of profiles say safe only, but so many don't!
I havent met for a while as i have breaks and get tested. Besides too many weird guys now, not enough nice guys around anymore x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see any difference between these that swallow gallons spunk and a bareback cum slut"
I think its because swallowing cum is slightly less risky only still risky because most people have bleeding gums or a sore mouth sometimes, could be caused by brushing your teeth too hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fairly sure doggers don't use condoms!
Many do. Me for one."
And us .... perhaps if this is what people think of doggers we need to re evaluate ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fairly sure doggers don't use condoms!
Many do. Me for one.
And us .... perhaps if this is what people think of doggers we need to re evaluate .... "
What about the masks and dirty raincoats?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fairly sure doggers don't use condoms!
Many do. Me for one.
And us .... perhaps if this is what people think of doggers we need to re evaluate .... "
Most don't actually |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
"We go dogging. We always use condoms, as do the guys we play with. I always have condoms with me.
I have yet to see anyone not use one so not sure how 'most' is measured "
I've never seen any doggers doing bareback or asking to do it.I'm sure there are some but certainly not usual in all circles (or should that be clearings!) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx"
The risk is highest when having anal sex, lower when having vaginal sex and lowest when having oral sex. However, the risk is present with each of th preceding unless adequate protection is used
Those who have oral sex without protection can catch all sorts of STIs too, including, HIV which can cause AIDS
Partners are neither immune from transmitting nor from catching a STI
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"went to a party a couple of months ago that had eveyone else playing bb. Elle ended up not playing with anyone. Gaz made sure he was covered."
We went to a party where everyone was playing bb. It wasn't until later that night that we realised they were all playing with their own partners. When they swapped, the condoms came out. |
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This wasnt the case with us. At least 3 ladies there took multiple loads. Its just not worth the risk. I've said before i don't like condoms, but i don't like seatbelts either but I never travel in a car without buckling up and i don't play with people without a condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have safe sex then get him to whip the condom off and cum all over your clit 
Thus negating the previous safe fuck...clever..."
Was thinking the same thing. D'Uh!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a very hot fantasy, but realistically can't be achieved without taking enormous risk..."
Please can you define "enormous risk"? Is it worse than Russian roulette 1:6? Death on the road 1:8,000?, dying from an accident at work 1:43,500?, death by being struct by lightening 1:10,000,000? Death from hetrosexualy contracted aids 1,5,000,000. Or are we talking the risk of dying from Cancer? 1:5? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx
The risk is highest when having anal sex, lower when having vaginal sex and lowest when having oral sex. However, the risk is present with each of th preceding unless adequate protection is used
Those who have oral sex without protection can catch all sorts of STIs too, including, HIV which can cause AIDS
Partners are neither immune from transmitting nor from catching a STI
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An STD is transmitted by an infected person, not by anal oral or anything else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a very hot fantasy, but realistically can't be achieved without taking enormous risk...
Please can you define "enormous risk"? Is it worse than Russian roulette 1:6? Death on the road 1:8,000?, dying from an accident at work 1:43,500?, death by being struct by lightening 1:10,000,000? Death from hetrosexualy contracted aids 1,5,000,000. Or are we talking the risk of dying from Cancer? 1:5?"
Statistics are total bollocks. They mean nothing. |
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What are the odds of death by being struck by lightning of people wandering out in an electrical storm, in an open field with 15 metal golf clubs on their back?
Or death on the road from people who step out into the road without taking the precaution of looking both ways first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a very hot fantasy, but realistically can't be achieved without taking enormous risk...
Please can you define "enormous risk"? Is it worse than Russian roulette 1:6? Death on the road 1:8,000?, dying from an accident at work 1:43,500?, death by being struct by lightening 1:10,000,000? Death from hetrosexualy contracted aids 1,5,000,000. Or are we talking the risk of dying from Cancer? 1:5?
Statistics are total bollocks. They mean nothing. "
Yes and you cant avoid those things but you can avoid having unsafe or very risky sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a very hot fantasy, but realistically can't be achieved without taking enormous risk...
Please can you define "enormous risk"? Is it worse than Russian roulette 1:6? Death on the road 1:8,000?, dying from an accident at work 1:43,500?, death by being struct by lightening 1:10,000,000? Death from hetrosexualy contracted aids 1,5,000,000. Or are we talking the risk of dying from Cancer? 1:5?
Statistics are total bollocks. They mean nothing. "
You have a 1:57 chance of being right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although get ready, this thread will soon descend into "yes but you do oral without " and "dental dams" and "never 100% safe" etc etc as every thread that mentions bb does.
Yeah I saw a comment about oral sex using dental dams, from some safe sex feminiNazi the other day.
Like why, just why, would anyone bother with that- creepy beyond words.
Almost as bad as putting your cock into a plastic bag to have sex"
be because u can.still catch from unprotected oral ..... We had a conversation.with a couple on a meet where they didn't like our boundaries... Ended bad! But they said u don't need to use protection....but in.the next breath said she caught oral gnohereah(think spelt it right lol) at a party ....i rest my case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Statistics are total bollocks. They mean nothing. Yes and you cant avoid those things but you can avoid having unsafe or very risky sex."
I disagree, statistics per se are not "total bollocks". They are a tried, tested and widely accepted mathematical way of expressing a calculated risk based on the available data.
For instance, the risk of a person self-harming by firearm next year may be calculated to be 1:16,831 but that does not mean we should never touch firearms. If however you are "the 1" then you have 100% got it and you become the statistic.
My original question was, what is "enormous risk"? You no doubt know what "very risky" means. Please explain because the statistical risks posed by unprotected sex are in fact far less than those everyday risks we willingly face every day.
We just chose to avoid those sexual risks more than others. I believe the reason for this is that STIs are associated with socially unacceptable behaviour. Hence why there are so many perfectly clean people on here saying they always use condoms; even if they don't.
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
"Statistics are total bollocks. They mean nothing. Yes and you cant avoid those things but you can avoid having unsafe or very risky sex.
I disagree, statistics per se are not "total bollocks". They are a tried, tested and widely accepted mathematical way of expressing a calculated risk based on the available data.
For instance, the risk of a person self-harming by firearm next year may be calculated to be 1:16,831 but that does not mean we should never touch firearms. If however you are "the 1" then you have 100% got it and you become the statistic.
My original question was, what is "enormous risk"? You no doubt know what "very risky" means. Please explain because the statistical risks posed by unprotected sex are in fact far less than those everyday risks we willingly face every day.
We just chose to avoid those sexual risks more than others. I believe the reason for this is that STIs are associated with socially unacceptable behaviour. Hence why there are so many perfectly clean people on here saying they always use condoms; even if they don't.
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I agree with you that statistics can be valuable when used in a responsible manner. The figure you quote for heterosexually contracted HIV presumably applies to the whole Uk population and not to a population of swingers that regularly do bareback.
The statistics quoted are misleading in this argument |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Statistics are total bollocks. They mean nothing. Yes and you cant avoid those things but you can avoid having unsafe or very risky sex.
I disagree, statistics per se are not "total bollocks". They are a tried, tested and widely accepted mathematical way of expressing a calculated risk based on the available data.
For instance, the risk of a person self-harming by firearm next year may be calculated to be 1:16,831 but that does not mean we should never touch firearms. If however you are "the 1" then you have 100% got it and you become the statistic.
My original question was, what is "enormous risk"? You no doubt know what "very risky" means. Please explain because the statistical risks posed by unprotected sex are in fact far less than those everyday risks we willingly face every day.
We just chose to avoid those sexual risks more than others. I believe the reason for this is that STIs are associated with socially unacceptable behaviour. Hence why there are so many perfectly clean people on here saying they always use condoms; even if they don't.
I agree with you that statistics can be valuable when used in a responsible manner. The figure you quote for heterosexually contracted HIV presumably applies to the whole Uk population and not to a population of swingers that regularly do bareback.
The statistics quoted are misleading in this argument "
You are correct. If we assume (somewhat pesimistically I would suggest) that swingers are at 500 times greater risk than the general population then the risk becomes 1:10,000 or only 25% less than dying on the road.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I know this is dangerous and never done bareback with anyone other than partner.
All I'm asking are there women that love this even with a stranger? Or even in an orgy?
It turns me on seeing a cummy clit but wanna read your opinions or experiences xx
The risk is highest when having anal sex, lower when having vaginal sex and lowest when having oral sex. However, the risk is present with each of th preceding unless adequate protection is used
Those who have oral sex without protection can catch all sorts of STIs too, including, HIV which can cause AIDS
Partners are neither immune from transmitting nor from catching a STI
An STD is transmitted by an infected person, not by anal oral or anything else!"
Correct
And the risk of receiving that STI from an infected person increases or decreases with the type of activity, irrespective of whether the infected person is one's life-long partner or not
One is safest when one has no sexual contact with anyone. Condoms do provide protection unless these tear or are faulty to begin with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to believe that a lot of women I've noticed insist on safe sex but I've noticed in their pics is that they are sucking on a bareback cock lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only go bareback with each other. Other guys have to use condoms unless we know them very well or they can provide a clean test result within the last few weeks
Do you ask if they have abstain from sex in the last few weeks of last test?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wonder how many people who are not swinger's go out get d*unk and end up having bareback one night stands contract sti s versus singers who enjoy bareback fun with other s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to believe that a lot of women I've noticed insist on safe sex but I've noticed in their pics is that they are sucking on a bareback cock lol "
Yes because its not as risky. You will find they tell you at the GUM clinic, condoms should always be used for intercourse, first and foremost, and for oral sex too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We wonder how many people who are not swinger's go out get d*unk and end up having bareback one night stands contract sti s versus singers who enjoy bareback fun with other s. "
Young people maybe but there are more older people on here who have lots of different partners. |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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"We only go bareback with each other. Other guys have to use condoms unless we know them very well or they can provide a clean test result within the last few weeks
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The tests do not include the period 2 weeks to 3 months before the test was actually taken. |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
Tests, condoms, knowing peoples' sexual histories reduce the risk of STIs. They don't eliminate the risks.
If you wear a seatbelt it doesn't eliminate the risk of dying in your car but it does make life safer.
For me I prefer to use condoms for anal sex to reduce the risk of STIs. It doesn't really matter to me if other things are more dangerous than bareback sex. It's just that taking part in bareback sex would be more risk than I want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it hard to believe that a lot of women I've noticed insist on safe sex but I've noticed in their pics is that they are sucking on a bareback cock lol "
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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We've been seeing the same guy for over 4 years, meeting about 5 times a year (when he's in our vicinity, he travels a lot). We love the guy, he's completely fantastic but we'd never ever consider going bb, even with him.
Like the post above, no glove no love. |
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