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Why is it such a turn on ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Emotional and sexual maturity ?(not for one minute suggesting that those who don't engage in such activities have neither). Feeling comfortable and secure in your relationship and confident enough to fulfil fantasies without them posing a threat to your relationship. Exploration with the person you love and trust the most. Also because you are a bit kinky and naughty and like to see your partner have fun ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a turn on precisely because you thought that when were younger. It is because that is being violated that you feel so aroused.
There is also the biological explanation that if a male sees his chosen female having sex with another male, he will become aroused because it increases his chance of fertilising the female by having sex with her later thus giving him more chance to pass on his genes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it."
That's one way of putting it lol |
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"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"
Because you're a confident and sexually open minded couple. If it wasn't for couples like you two, my non sex life would have now been 4 years not 2 so thumbs up from me to people like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe part of it is...
She knows you love her being a dirty girl, and you know she's doing it as much for you as for herself. Of course she has to really enjoy it, to want that cock deep inside her, and to take it hard and deep, and for you to see how greedy she is. It's a very special bond.
Well, it works for us  |
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"It's a turn on precisely because you thought that when were younger. It is because that is being violated that you feel so aroused.
There is also the biological explanation that if a male sees his chosen female having sex with another male, he will become aroused because it increases his chance of fertilising the female by having sex with her later thus giving him more chance to pass on his genes."
I'm sorry I don't get this. Surely it's the first male who has the optimum chance of fertilising the female ??? The second is merely going over trampled ground so to speak lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it."
Not quite why we find it a turn on but hilarious comment nevertheless 
I think being secure in a sexual sense is essential for you to enjoy it. We have plenty of non swinging friends who are strong minded and secure in everyday life but aghast on us sleeping with others.
Swinging effectively contradicts with all mainstream values that you are brought up with |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"
Me and Tigs have just been having the conversation. Not sure why, not sure if its just a change in attitude or what but this thread struck home when we were talking about what we wanted from swinging LOL
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Emotional and sexual maturity ?(not for one minute suggesting that those who don't engage in such activities have neither). Feeling comfortable and secure in your relationship and confident enough to fulfil fantasies without them posing a threat to your relationship. Exploration with the person you love and trust the most. Also because you are a bit kinky and naughty and like to see your partner have fun ? "
Couldn't of worded it better myself well put 
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"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"
Bored of shagging her. Not in lust with her any more ? |
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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago
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Cos you used to be a cock ?
That from a person who is playing away??? Sir, you have a nerve!  "
Not really the issue though is it. The subject is in the op,give it a read,if you get stuck,I'll gladly explain it to you in easy to understand language.
Maybe look out the window,there'll be someone out there who gives a shiny shite what you think,or perhaps not. |
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You are more self confident, she is more self confident. You are both secure in your relationship and you've both worked out that you can fuck for fun and actually make your relationship even stronger. Because you love seeing your partner have loads of fun and because it makes you feel fantastic when you know you have offered your partner the world and everytime they come straight back to you. Then and only then can you truly know that it is you they want more than anything else. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Cos you used to be a cock ?
That from a person who is playing away??? Sir, you have a nerve!
Not really the issue though is it. The subject is in the op,give it a read,if you get stuck,I'll gladly explain it to you in easy to understand language.
Maybe look out the window,there'll be someone out there who gives a shiny shite what you think,or perhaps not."
Oh dear! The typical response from someone with no argument! Personal attacks..  You had the nerve to call someone else a cock for either wanting to punch some guys many years ago or because he doesn't want to now? (Not sure which way that is) But you won't even let your wife/partner join the fun. Or perhaps she doesn't even know...
In my book, that makes you the one in the wrong here.. |
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