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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right, couples that continuously look at my profile, 'fab' nearly every pic and 'wink' me. Yet when I respond with a courteous message I get 'CAN'T YOU READ!!? OUR PROFILE STATES NO SINGLE MEN!!' What the deuce?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not respond in kind rather than sending a message, that way you are making it clear that you are interested if they are and put the ball back in their court. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples are just that, a couple?
It could be that the woman has been browsing and winked and fabbed you. Then the guy comes along and sends that message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not respond in kind rather than sending a message, that way you are making it clear that you are interested if they are and put the ball back in their court. "
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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Someone winks then it suggests an interest. So no surprise if someone responds with a message. Just because it is a couple does not excuse a rude response. The fact that only one of the couple may have been interested is meaningless as the op is not a mind reader.
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"Someone winks then it suggests an interest. So no surprise if someone responds with a message. Just because it is a couple does not excuse a rude response. The fact that only one of the couple may have been interested is meaningless as the op is not a mind reader.
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I agree. It was a rude response, no excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right, couples that continuously look at my profile, 'fab' nearly every pic and 'wink' me. Yet when I respond with a courteous message I get 'CAN'T YOU READ!!? OUR PROFILE STATES NO SINGLE MEN!!' What the deuce??"
there are a few guys that look at my profile daily but never mail me, the fact they don't mail I take as they are not interested but I don't get why you would keep looking at someone you have no interest in, it don't bother me they can look all they like it just baffles me, I sometimes wonder if I should send a hi but figure they don't want to talk to me or they would mail me, can be hard to know what to do for the best at times
I also figure all because someone views or winks you that don't mean they want to meet, I never respond to Fabs, winks etc |
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Even if you'd chatted with someone, found some common ground, it doesn't mean,even after a social, that you'll shag.
It's better to know quickly that it's not going to work. You don't waste further effort. You move on.
You can always thank others for pic fans, it's often a friendly gesture and nothing more. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Right, couples that continuously look at my profile, 'fab' nearly every pic and 'wink' me. Yet when I respond with a courteous message I get 'CAN'T YOU READ!!? OUR PROFILE STATES NO SINGLE MEN!!' What the deuce??"
I'm re-quoting this as it seems people are suggesting he is only responding to looks and fabs. Or that he was demanding a meet. Clearly from what he says this is not the case.
In his words he received fabs, looks and winks. That to me is an interest even if only initially. He responds with a polite message according to him. Seems reasonable enough. The response to that is rude. That is not reasonable. |
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