So if every message you send someone gets read and deleted or comes back with a response of sorry not for me.
Does that mean you're basically punching too high above your weight or should you try messaging people who are more likely to message back?
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Try messaging people whose criteria you think you actually meet instead of the common tactic if carpet bomb style of messaging everyone within 50 miles and hoping for 1 yes. |
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"Try messaging people whose criteria you think you actually meet instead of the common tactic if carpet bomb style of messaging everyone within 50 miles and hoping for 1 yes."
And if you've carefully selected those members before messaging them then what? ( just playing devils advocate here) |
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"Try messaging people whose criteria you think you actually meet instead of the common tactic if carpet bomb style of messaging everyone within 50 miles and hoping for 1 yes.
And if you've carefully selected those members before messaging them then what? ( just playing devils advocate here)"
If you have and they still get rejected then maybe a rethink of how the content of the messages come across to people. |
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It could be all manner of reason why they have been read a deleted. It might be that your just not what they are looking for at that time, they might be to busy to think about meets and don't see the point in responding.
Why change your criteria of the people you want to meet just to get a meet? Stick to your guns and your luck will change.
Maybe visit a few socials and get yourself better known that way and with in the forums. Good Luck OP |
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I don't understand the concept of 'punching above your weight'
Using that principle, good looking people would only meet other good looking people, fat people only other fat people, ugly people only meet other ugly people, young meeting young, old meeting old etc
Attraction is totally subjective and taste is personal.
If you like the look of someone, you fit their criteria, you fit theirs, send them a well constructed and considered message.
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does not mater what you put on your profile or what you right mate
when you send message have a look at what they have met in the passed and you can see there profiles lots have not got any pics or nothing on it but still had meet or they only just joined the other week so lots on here are fake |
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"So if every message you send someone gets read and deleted or comes back with a response of sorry not for me.
Does that mean you're basically punching too high above your weight or should you try messaging people who are more likely to message back?
discuss."
i stopped mailing guys first, I used to but I have never had a single reply to anyone I have mailed first, I concluded from this i was punching above my weight so I simply stopped mailing guys |
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Maybe read the profile.. see if those things match your own. Look at the fotos make sure you have decent text and pics of your own. send a face picture. Be bright and funny. choose your words carefully . |
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"Maybe read the profile.. see if those things match your own. Look at the fotos make sure you have decent text and pics of your own. send a face picture. Be bright and funny. choose your words carefully . "
i personally do not think it matters what you put in a message, you can read profiles, fit everything they are looking for, age, likes, location etc and send a nice polite message but if they don't like the way you look you've shot it, so you may as well just send a hi with some nice pics and hope they fancy you  |
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"does not mater what you put on your profile or what you right mate
when you send message have a look at what they have met in the passed and you can see there profiles lots have not got any pics or nothing on it but still had meet or they only just joined the other week so lots on here are fake "
has it taken you four yrs to come to that opinion..?
I tend to disagree with you, do wonder why you would still be here if that's what you really think? |
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