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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am part of a couple and we sometimes look to play with other couples. There seems to be huge pressure on me to be bi?
I'm not sure I am? Maybe if I get d*unk enough (I had a very long seductive kiss with a woman when I was much younger) but who knows? And getting d*unk to do ANYTHING on a meet has to be a bad idea.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only do what you are happy with, don't change your boundaries just to suit others 
if folk are asking you to do things that don't suit, move on and find profiles that accept you and how you like to play |
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"only do what you are happy with, don't change your boundaries just to suit others
if folk are asking you to do things that don't suit, move on and find profiles that accept you and how you like to play"
gotta be this.
There are always those that think you should be doing something different. It's your life, body and happiness - you decide. don't pander to it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just don't do it
i was the same, when I was a couple i used to play with women because all the couples we spoke to seemed to want this i never enjoyed it though
when I split from my ex the first thing I did was stopped meeting couples because deep down it's just not for me and now I'm single i can meet single guys
if you don't want to do it dont |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only do what you're comfortable with. "
a number of men that have message me over the years seem to think that because I'm on a swinging site, I can't possibly be totally straight. I've been asked if I'd be prepared to meet up with them and have a mff. NO! Been there, tried it, not really for me but if I fancy trying again sometime down the line, I'll be trying for me and not for anyone else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner has been pressured a hell of a lot to play bi so much so we have given things a rest until the new year. Comments like you just haven't met the right woman ring in her ears a fair bit with her answer being no I'm not interested in here for cock, it never seems to sink in though. You please yourself and do what is comfortable with you and not what others perceive you to be. |
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"Only do what you're comfortable with.
a number of men that have message me over the years seem to think that because I'm on a swinging site, I can't possibly be totally straight. I've been asked if I'd be prepared to meet up with them and have a mff. NO! Been there, tried it, not really for me but if I fancy trying again sometime down the line, I'll be trying for me and not for anyone else!"
Good. You have my respect. My wife is totally straight so I know where you're coming from. My fb is totally straight too despite my mff suggestion  |
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"Only do what you're comfortable with.
a number of men that have message me over the years seem to think that because I'm on a swinging site, I can't possibly be totally straight. I've been asked if I'd be prepared to meet up with them and have a mff. NO! Been there, tried it, not really for me but if I fancy trying again sometime down the line, I'll be trying for me and not for anyone else!
Good. You have my respect. My wife is totally straight so I know where you're coming from. My fb is totally straight too despite my mff suggestion "
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