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Are there men and women out there who don't like squirting?
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By *tlovers OP Couple
over a year ago
Warrington |
So I am v interested in this squirting thing.
For the record I don't squirt but I do have amazing orgasms and am v happy thanks.
My mate has squirted all her life and told me it has been a cause of much stress and embarrassment for most of her life until about 4yrs ago and now men can't get enough of her (definitely a reflection of porn)
Lots and lots of threads and profiles which seem to see squirting as the be all and end all.
My questions are:
- are there men who don't find it a turn on or are not bothered either way
-are there women who squirt who prefer they didn't?
Am genuinely interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this  |
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By *tlovers OP Couple
over a year ago
Warrington |
"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this "
Yes this is the kind of thing I wonder..that men don't realise that a squirt isn't an orgasm! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I didn't see it in Port a girl squinting I made a girl. Squirt and I figured that was her way of cumming and I loved it since then so If she's a squirter or a gusher don't be be shy I'd let a girl do it all over me lol I love it I know I got that girl too poor thing was only 19 and thought there was something wrong with her I said just enjoy it don't be embarrassed by it hehe x and she never looked back ever again! |
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"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this
Yes this is the kind of thing I wonder..that men don't realise that a squirt isn't an orgasm!"
Yes and yes  |
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I'm neutral about gushing/squirting - as others have said, mutual pleasure is the main thing. It's also a bit disheartening to read in so any veris things like "she is very sexy, she gushed loads". I have met women who do not gush or squirt and wish that they could, even to the point of becoming a bit frustrated or desperate. Women are NOT less sexy in any way because they don't gush or squirt! |
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Mrs B doesn't squirt, which fine by us! I (Mr B) have had previous partners who have squirted and gushed. Neither did anything for me. It was slightly awkward, rather than erotic. Soaking wet bed sheets are not a turn on.
Each to their own - we enjoy plenty of things that others don't like... |
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By *esskarWoman
over a year ago
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Kar does squirt, well it can be more of a flood sometimes!
If we are in a club we do warn people to expect it, and most guys love. She did have a bad experience once with a guy, who was warned it would happen, and when it did he jumped up and literally ran out of the room. Kar was highly embarrassed by his reaction. He was quickly replaced by someone who did like it but it did leave her feeling a bit awkward about it for some time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like it. It can be very uncomfortable,it's not a nice feeling when it happens,almost like when you're waters break during childbirth and it detracts from the real orgasm for me. I prefer men who aren't obsessed by making it happen who are more interested in having sex and pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and I think some of the obsession comes from men thinking if they make you squirt, it is a reflection of superior sexual prowess.
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Absolutely...it's always one of the first questions men ask and when we say I don't, they either look disappointed or get that look in their eye which means that I know they're going to do that hideous hammering away, rough fingering that they think every woman needs...when they get that look, it's game over for me and I just move on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first time I squirted was about three years ago and tbh I was totally confused by what had just happened to me and the guy had to explain it 
Since then I have done it a few times but I have no control over it, or if it happens at all, other than I need to be very turned on and relaxed. I have only ever gushed once and it felt totally different.
I'm not fussed if I do or I don't but I do get annoyed by the mess it makes  I'm arranging a house party atm over Xmas and it's a serious problem sorting out ladies who don't as I want to keep my beds in tact
I get very pissed off by guys who focus on only that as a goal though it's a huge turn off |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
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I'm not fussed if I do or I don't but I do get annoyed by the mess it makes I'm arranging a house party atm over Xmas and it's a serious problem sorting out ladies who don't as I want to keep my beds in tact
I get very pissed off by guys who focus on only that as a goal though it's a huge turn off "
If you want to keep your beds intact make sure all beds have waterproof mattress protectors fitted. They have come on a long way from the old rubber sheets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do squirt and at times i really wish i didnt. Quite a few guys have went out of their way to try shame me over it, at parties ive been told its disgusting and that shouldn't be doing it, as if I've a choice in it. On the flip side there's guys who think if they make me squirt their job is done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fed up of reading veris that go on and on about squirting/gushing. There's some sort of child like obsession with it.
I've been with women that have squirted loads and women that don't squirt at all and when they have it certainly wasn't at the point of orgasm. A squirt doesn't = orgasm. |
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"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this "
I'm the same. I absolutely hate it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blame porn for making it look like it's the endgame. Like the cumshot in a scene, when the lady in the scene squirts, it's end of scene but she probably hasn't had the big O, it's just the money shot that looks good on camera. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right up to my 40s I had sex that didn't involve squirting or gushing. Then one day a man said he knows a trick that will be amazing. It was one of the roughest,worse finger fucks I've ever had in my life and left me in a lot of pain and ended in a kidney infection. I haven't been the same since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do squirt and at times i really wish i didnt. Quite a few guys have went out of their way to try shame me over it, at parties ive been told its disgusting and that shouldn't be doing it, as if I've a choice in it. On the flip side there's guys who think if they make me squirt their job is done"
Sounds like some guys have gush/squirt - envy. Women are pretty awesome, our bodies are capable of so much - now, loads of us are discovering we can squirt too, whereas before, shooting stuff from an obscene opening was purely a male - y type thing 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right up to my 40s I had sex that didn't involve squirting or gushing. Then one day a man said he knows a trick that will be amazing. It was one of the roughest,worse finger fucks I've ever had in my life and left me in a lot of pain and ended in a kidney infection. I haven't been the same since"
Oh no you poor thing babe that's soo messed up why do some guys feel the need to finger woman so hard and not know what they are doing. |
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I can, but it's usually after several intense orgasms. I can sense it's coming so most often stop. I cannot be putting up with a wet mattress! It can be a turn on for me, but only if there's not masses of cleaning up! I think it being optional is the best of both worlds really, I'm happy as I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right up to my 40s I had sex that didn't involve squirting or gushing. Then one day a man said he knows a trick that will be amazing. It was one of the roughest,worse finger fucks I've ever had in my life and left me in a lot of pain and ended in a kidney infection. I haven't been the same since
Oh no you poor thing babe that's soo messed up why do some guys feel the need to finger woman so hard and not know what they are doing. "
Because they think it makes them good at sex. Fingers weren't made for sexual pleasure,they are a tool to enhance what nature gave us. You can't blame anyone but the workman |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
solihull |
Doesn't do anything for us. The only times we have seen it in real life or in porn films they have clearly just had a piss lol. Not saying it never genuinely happens but seems to us that it is often a case of 'emporers' new clothes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this
Yes this is the kind of thing I wonder..that men don't realise that a squirt isn't an orgasm
Yes and yes "
yes yes and yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only started squirting in March this year. Most guys I've been with like it although one guy keeps teasing me about the mess it makes as we play in his house! I keep telling him that now that I've discovered the squirting/ gushing I can't undo it! He says he has to find a way of NOT making me do it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't do anything for us. The only times we have seen it in real life or in porn films they have clearly just had a piss lol. Not saying it never genuinely happens but seems to us that it is often a case of 'emporers' new clothes "
it's not having a piss  its doesn't smell like anything...piss does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not bothered either way really, as long as you cum, I'm turned on. if you squirt, gush or whatever, I don't mind, I'm far more interested in the feelings of the act, after all, that's what we'll spend hours doing and is so erotic and exciting, the crescendo is amazing, but only part of it.  |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
There seems to be a fixation about squirting these days, some ladies who want to please a partner who wants this to happen, will just pee a bit, we are not into water sports and find it a real turn off, there's nothing attractive about a big pee stain on your bed or settee after a new meet. |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
solihull |
"Doesn't do anything for us. The only times we have seen it in real life or in porn films they have clearly just had a piss lol. Not saying it never genuinely happens but seems to us that it is often a case of 'emporers' new clothes it's not having a piss its doesn't smell like anything...piss does"
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From the grumpy face i dont think you have properly read what we have said. In porn it appears that the squirter is having a wee as it goes on for ages, is urine coloured and goes about a foot in the air. Our experiences in the odd club and with couples is the same. However we did say that we are sure that some do expereince it. Didnt think we could make it much clearer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this
Yes this is the kind of thing I wonder..that men don't realise that a squirt isn't an orgasm!"
If I gush i orgasm.... But it's not the same as other ones...
I Dont with most people.... But then I don't orgasm with most people either.. but still have a good time. If a man asks me if I do or tells me he will make me, I lose interest x |
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By *tlovers OP Couple
over a year ago
Warrington |
"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this
Yes this is the kind of thing I wonder..that men don't realise that a squirt isn't an orgasm!
If I gush i orgasm.... But it's not the same as other ones...
I Dont with most people.... But then I don't orgasm with most people either.. but still have a good time. If a man asks me if I do or tells me he will make me, I lose interest x "
Yep...Any promises of squirting and talking about it makes me git delete too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first time I squirted was about three years ago and tbh I was totally confused by what had just happened to me and the guy had to explain it
Since then I have done it a few times but I have no control over it, or if it happens at all, other than I need to be very turned on and relaxed. I have only ever gushed once and it felt totally different.
I'm not fussed if I do or I don't but I do get annoyed by the mess it makes I'm arranging a house party atm over Xmas and it's a serious problem sorting out ladies who don't as I want to keep my beds in tact
Plenty of matteress protecters and ceap shower curtains
I get very pissed off by guys who focus on only that as a goal though it's a huge turn off "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind either way too be honest .... I've got too be honest I've never been with a squirter ..... Made partners cum sure but to actually see it no ..... I think I will soon though  |
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If I'm triggered, then I'm in that mode and can't stop. It can be quite embarrassing depending on the situation. Such as in a playroom at a club... Or at a house party... I sometimes wish I didn't. Although my fella would disagree. x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To us it is like Anal, over rated... To be honest i would be fed up of constantly changing and washing the bedding and towels"
Would not agree that anal is overrated....but certainly constantly washing the bedding would be a pain in the basil...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I more gush than squirt if I'm honest i would sooner I didn't as guys get fixated on making me gush and don't seem to bother doing what I like and I often miss out on the orgasums due to this "
I find this! Men seem to become obsessed with making you gush instead of actually just enjoying everything else! It's much better when it just happens because your too busy enjoying each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am v interested in this squirting thing.
For the record I don't squirt but I do have amazing orgasms and am v happy thanks.
My mate has squirted all her life and told me it has been a cause of much stress and embarrassment for most of her life until about 4yrs ago and now men can't get enough of her (definitely a reflection of porn)
Lots and lots of threads and profiles which seem to see squirting as the be all and end all.
My questions are:
- are there men who don't find it a turn on or are not bothered either way
-are there women who squirt who prefer they didn't?
Am genuinely interested"
I sometimes wish I didn't .... I find it embarrassing at times ! I really don't see what all the fuss is about lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do squirt and at times i really wish i didnt. Quite a few guys have went out of their way to try shame me over it, at parties ive been told its disgusting and that shouldn't be doing it, as if I've a choice in it. On the flip side there's guys who think if they make me squirt their job is done"
Went out of their way... "Twats"
I personally love it but I like messy sex... That's just me  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
I don't mind either way as long as the lady is happy and satisfied.
I have a lady friend who squirts occasionally and gushes sometimes too but she doesn't mind as she enjoys the orgasms with and without squirting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only had one squirter. In my mouth twice and once down my cock. I must admit I enjoyed but I also knew that it wasnt necesaarily an orgasm. Its a not a major issue for me. If she does great, if not no problem. Mind you I had to sleep on the floor cos it had soaked right through to the mattress. It was in a hotel so I was worried I would get charged for pissing the bed. |
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The fact that people have to put towels down and rubber sheets to protect their furniture and mattresses only reinforces my belief that its wee....
So my ultimate goal when having fingers thrust up against my bladder/uretha is to not "squirt" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sorry but the fact people put towels and rubber sheets down does NOT make it wee. Just not wanting their bed/settee to get wet through. I have tasted wee(unintentionally) and the juices from squirting. Unless wee tastes like a sweet, sugarry water. Also its a proven medical fact the fluids from squiting are not urine. |
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