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Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them? |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?"
fake flattery turns me right off! Also it embarrasses me |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
fake flattery turns me right off! Also it embarrasses me "
Me too |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
fake flattery turns me right off! Also it embarrasses me
Me too"
How do you know it's fake flattery though? |
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I naturally love to compliment I do this in person as much as in messaging on here and it is always meant some women handle a compliment better than others  |
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I guess it depends if the compliment and the person pass the believability test. I don't give or accept compliments that I don't believe to be true. Bullshit stinks enough to smell it even in the virtual world |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
fake flattery turns me right off! Also it embarrasses me
Me too
How do you know it's fake flattery though?"
I'm realistic enough to know that when people say things like "you look like a woman in her twenties" that its fake . That's an extreme example but if you're fairly grounded its easy to spot the fake compliments |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?"
Depends if my purple prose as is genuine it's nice. However generic flattery always comes off fake same with overly sexual flattery |
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"Sincerity is key. 
Yup, a sincere compliment is always welcome, but when 'they flatter to deceive' well it's a turn off for me.
I sincerely think you have lovely legs  "
Haha, and I sincerely thank you!
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"Being nice is cool,giving a compliment is too
But unbelievable over the top,tongue way up my arse flattery is sometimes a bit hard to take "
You don't like a tongue up the arse then? |
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"Being nice is cool,giving a compliment is too
But unbelievable over the top,tongue way up my arse flattery is sometimes a bit hard to take
You don't like a tongue up the arse then? "
Yes.....not from men who behave embarrassingly desparate on here though |
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I like understated flattery. I got a lovely text from a lady following a meet saying thank you for a lovely evening p.s. you have a scrummy cock!
I was grinning like an idiot all week! |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?"
Flattery is always welcome.
EVen from platonic friendships flattery is always welcome.
Even from complete strangers on a swinging website, flattery is always welcome.
HINT hint..
lol
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?"
Only someone with such a distinctive black sillouette of an avatar as yourself could have asked such an erudite and perceptive question as that |
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when I first meet someone I quite like it if they say I look nice, I think I can tell if they are just saying it to be nice though. also I take more notice if they are attractive themselves. |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
Only someone with such a distinctive black sillouette of an avatar as yourself could have asked such an erudite and perceptive question as that "
Excuse me? |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
Flattery is always welcome.
EVen from platonic friendships flattery is always welcome.
Even from complete strangers on a swinging website, flattery is always welcome.
HINT hint..
lol
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Sure an extremely attractive and sexy couple like you two wouldn't be taken in by simple flattery, especially given how you are clearly an intelligent couple from your profile
Hint taken! |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
Only someone with such a distinctive black sillouette of an avatar as yourself could have asked such an erudite and perceptive question as that "
Was lost on me! I'm not used to flattery, you see! Matt |
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I think if you have been speaking to someone for a while and its not too cheesy then that's fine otherwise it will come across and insincere and cringe worthy. |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
Only someone with such a distinctive black sillouette of an avatar as yourself could have asked such an erudite and perceptive question as that
Was lost on me! I'm not used to flattery, you see! Matt "
lol glad you got the joke in the end... thought I was gonna get a black eye for a second then |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
Only someone with such a distinctive black sillouette of an avatar as yourself could have asked such an erudite and perceptive question as that
Was lost on me! I'm not used to flattery, you see! Matt
lol glad you got the joke in the end... thought I was gonna get a black eye for a second then "
Been beaten black and blue on the forums before... as you can see |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say on here most of it goes in one ear and out the other as its mainly bs or over the top "
yes some women enjoy a compliment and some don't I naturally enjoy complimenting and genuinely mean it but some may see it as being fake I do not
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Nowt worse than getting up with bed head in a morning and a massive zit on ya face go on cam I'm chat and guys saying omg your so gorgeous blar boar go spec savers ffs .... Turn off call me a dirty slut more chance of getting a shag lol  |
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"Curious to know if flattery is a good part of flirting, helping cement an interest in a prospective partner or is it superficial charm, easily seen through? In other words, does it turn you on to a person or turn you off them?
Flattery is always welcome.
EVen from platonic friendships flattery is always welcome.
Even from complete strangers on a swinging website, flattery is always welcome.
HINT hint..
lol
Sure an extremely attractive and sexy couple like you two wouldn't be taken in by simple flattery, especially given how you are clearly an intelligent couple from your profile
Hint taken! "
Very clever.  |
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