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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ever since I can remember, I have loved to gently hold my woman's face as I kiss her, trace her lips with my fingers, hold her head on my chest and stroke her hair between bouts of torrid fucking.
A couple of women have told me that this is to intimate, which I respect. I work on the basis that every bit of me is hers for the brief time were together, Thoughts ? |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"Love that.. I need that type of intimacy with a guy i like, even when it isnt a relationship. Its lovely to feel like i am being cherished, even if it's only for the duration of our time together "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guess that answers my question, I can't do a detached emotionless fuck and, even the extremely rare one offs I have done in the past had feeling.
TBH, I rather wank than just stick my cock in a hole, much less hassle. However, I do understand that for some, closeness can be too intimate. That being the case, we wouldn't be compatible and won't be meeting.
As my profile says, I'm completely non judgemental, and if it 'floats your boat' enjoy. Wouldn't do for us all to be the same nor want the same thing eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice "
For both of us |
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice
For both of us "
it just annoys me when people say your not supposed to do this that and the other when it's no string, like because you meeting someone off here it has to be cold and clinical, pretty much all my meets are one off meets but I don't see why it has to be fuck and go just because your never going to see them again, it can still be a intimate experience,, i guess the key Iis meeting people who like the same as you, not everyone feels comfy with certain things on a first meet, some have to meet a few times to build a bond, me...i just know what i like and am happy to do what I like on a first meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice
For both of us
it just annoys me when people say your not supposed to do this that and the other when it's no string, like because you meeting someone off here it has to be cold and clinical, pretty much all my meets are one off meets but I don't see why it has to be fuck and go just because your never going to see them again, it can still be a intimate experience,, i guess the key Iis meeting people who like the same as you, not everyone feels comfy with certain things on a first meet, some have to meet a few times to build a bond, me...i just know what i like and am happy to do what I like on a first meet "
Yes I agree totally. Love being able to touch a guys face when kissing without him thinking I'm going to propose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice
For both of us
it just annoys me when people say your not supposed to do this that and the other when it's no string, like because you meeting someone off here it has to be cold and clinical, pretty much all my meets are one off meets but I don't see why it has to be fuck and go just because your never going to see them again, it can still be a intimate experience,, i guess the key Iis meeting people who like the same as you, not everyone feels comfy with certain things on a first meet, some have to meet a few times to build a bond, me...i just know what i like and am happy to do what I like on a first meet "
This sums it up for me.....before I even meet a guy we would have been in contact for a long time anyway, so the intimacy doesn't feel out of place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it.
I don't find it confusing. We may be meeting for something NSA or for a short while. But, during that time - you're all mine and i'm all yours. And once we say goodbye, then it's goodbye and nothing more.
...i love the intimacy. It heightens everything i believe
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"I love it.
I don't find it confusing. We may be meeting for something NSA or for a short while. But, during that time - you're all mine and i'm all yours. And once we say goodbye, then it's goodbye and nothing more.
...i love the intimacy. It heightens everything i believe
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I love intimacy too, but its something I only love with Mr N, not something I could share with anyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's wrong to suggest that by not doing the intimate things described sex must be 'cold'. We've never had cold sex with anyone, in fact it's alway been very heated. You don't need tender, romantic intimacy for an erotic, mutually satisfying experience. |
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"It's wrong to suggest that by not doing the intimate things described sex must be 'cold'. We've never had cold sex with anyone, in fact it's alway been very heated. You don't need tender, romantic intimacy for an erotic, mutually satisfying experience."
Here Here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice "
Especially one on one. Sex without intimacy would be like food without taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice
For both of us
it just annoys me when people say your not supposed to do this that and the other when it's no string, like because you meeting someone off here it has to be cold and clinical, pretty much all my meets are one off meets but I don't see why it has to be fuck and go just because your never going to see them again, it can still be a intimate experience,, i guess the key Iis meeting people who like the same as you, not everyone feels comfy with certain things on a first meet, some have to meet a few times to build a bond, me...i just know what i like and am happy to do what I like on a first meet "
That's probably the difference for myself then, most of mine i talk to still and meet more than once. So although i'm not against some form of intimacy i have to draw a line somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's wrong to suggest that by not doing the intimate things described sex must be 'cold'. We've never had cold sex with anyone, in fact it's alway been very heated. You don't need tender, romantic intimacy for an erotic, mutually satisfying experience.
Here Here. "
not having intimate sex will only feel cold of that's what you like, lots of people like the kissing and cuddling lots don't, the key is to meet people who like the same as you, if you don't like the kissing and cuddling with meets then of course it won't feel like clinical sex to you because that's not what your after, I however love all the kissing etc so to meet a guy who will let me suck his cock and fuck me but turns his head away if i try to kiss him makes sex feel a little cold, not everyone will feel the same though |
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"Guess that answers my question, I can't do a detached emotionless fuck and, even the extremely rare one offs I have done in the past had feeling.
TBH, I rather wank than just stick my cock in a hole, much less hassle. However, I do understand that for some, closeness can be too intimate. That being the case, we wouldn't be compatible and won't be meeting.
As my profile says, I'm completely non judgemental, and if it 'floats your boat' enjoy. Wouldn't do for us all to be the same nor want the same thing eh "
What he said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's wrong to suggest that by not doing the intimate things described sex must be 'cold'. We've never had cold sex with anyone, in fact it's alway been very heated. You don't need tender, romantic intimacy for an erotic, mutually satisfying experience.
Here Here.
not having intimate sex will only feel cold of that's what you like, lots of people like the kissing and cuddling lots don't, the key is to meet people who like the same as you, if you don't like the kissing and cuddling with meets then of course it won't feel like clinical sex to you because that's not what your after, I however love all the kissing etc so to meet a guy who will let me suck his cock and fuck me but turns his head away if i try to kiss him makes sex feel a little cold, not everyone will feel the same though "
It's all a question of what an individual classes as 'too intimate'. To us, kissing is an essential element of sex, and we love sharing it with others. But what the opening post suggests is more like romance and 'lovemaking', which just doesn't fit with our idea of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's wrong to suggest that by not doing the intimate things described sex must be 'cold'. We've never had cold sex with anyone, in fact it's alway been very heated. You don't need tender, romantic intimacy for an erotic, mutually satisfying experience.
Here Here.
not having intimate sex will only feel cold of that's what you like, lots of people like the kissing and cuddling lots don't, the key is to meet people who like the same as you, if you don't like the kissing and cuddling with meets then of course it won't feel like clinical sex to you because that's not what your after, I however love all the kissing etc so to meet a guy who will let me suck his cock and fuck me but turns his head away if i try to kiss him makes sex feel a little cold, not everyone will feel the same though
It's all a question of what an individual classes as 'too intimate'. To us, kissing is an essential element of sex, and we love sharing it with others. But what the opening post suggests is more like romance and 'lovemaking', which just doesn't fit with our idea of swinging."
Nowt wrong with love making now and again, romance....definitely not, all about agreed boundaries and a clear understanding of objectives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love intimate sex I love all the kissing and cuddling, I can differentiate between sex and love, I don't think if a guy is sensual with me he's falling for me nor does it mean I am them, it just feels nice "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love that.. I need that type of intimacy with a guy i like, even when it isnt a relationship. Its lovely to feel like i am being cherished, even if it's only for the duration of our time together "
See Lee would do this with another woman but I wouldn't feel right if another man did it to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's wrong to suggest that by not doing the intimate things described sex must be 'cold'. We've never had cold sex with anyone, in fact it's alway been very heated. You don't need tender, romantic intimacy for an erotic, mutually satisfying experience.
Here Here.
not having intimate sex will only feel cold of that's what you like, lots of people like the kissing and cuddling lots don't, the key is to meet people who like the same as you, if you don't like the kissing and cuddling with meets then of course it won't feel like clinical sex to you because that's not what your after, I however love all the kissing etc so to meet a guy who will let me suck his cock and fuck me but turns his head away if i try to kiss him makes sex feel a little cold, not everyone will feel the same though
It's all a question of what an individual classes as 'too intimate'. To us, kissing is an essential element of sex, and we love sharing it with others. But what the opening post suggests is more like romance and 'lovemaking', which just doesn't fit with our idea of swinging.
Nowt wrong with love making now and again, romance....definitely not, all about agreed boundaries and a clear understanding of objectives. "
define love making though
love making could be bending her over the kitchen table and fucking her like a bitch if there is a real connection and love between the two people
to me love making isn't an act it's a feeling and if you don't love or have that bond with who your with no matter what you do its not love making |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it.
I don't find it confusing. We may be meeting for something NSA or for a short while. But, during that time - you're all mine and i'm all yours. And once we say goodbye, then it's goodbye and nothing more.
...i love the intimacy. It heightens everything i believe
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See this is how Lee thinks. I was mortified at first to find out he didn't think about me when with other women. however many women don't seem to be able to understand that if a man is like that with them that it's just nsa to them......
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