I seriously don't know how you lot manage it... trawling through profiles that is. I just managed to look at 5 (from the men online now - who lived within a reasonable distance etc) before I got bored and it seemed like too much effort  |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"  some of us dont trawl through lots of Profiles were not all the same 
thats what they all say. 
I know when I'm going to lose, I'll put the Kettle on "
kev youll never lose,your a good c***.but somedays,you might have to fight for the draw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" some of us dont trawl through lots of Profiles were not all the same
thats what they all say.
I know when I'm going to lose, I'll put the Kettle on
kev youll never lose,your a good c***.but somedays,you might have to fight for the draw. "
I dont mind a fair fight but if it has Tits and the Mouth works I'm off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" some of us dont trawl through lots of Profiles were not all the same
thats what they all say.
I know when I'm going to lose, I'll put the Kettle on "
You give up to easy, kev ? Where is the' manly spirit ' lol
I would report the ladies for bullying lol
Dont tell them I told you though .sshhhhh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" some of us dont trawl through lots of Profiles were not all the same
thats what they all say.
I know when I'm going to lose, I'll put the Kettle on
You give up to easy, kev ? Where is the' manly spirit ' lol
I would report the ladies for bullying lol
Dont tell them I told you though .sshhhhh! "
Their barks worse than their bite, where were you when the thread was started trawling the profiles I bet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish more did trawl through profiles, I do, couples profiles of course but I wouldn't dream of contacting anyone until I had read thier profile.
We only play with single guys at clubs so ask in our profile not to be contacted by single guys even telling them that we will block any that do contact us online (and we do) yet we get around 30 a day winking us, mailing us or wanting to be added to our friends list (the friends list that our profile points out we don't use)
But hey we get 10-15 mails a day from people who "won't meet smokers" and people who are looking for couples 15-20 years below my age so they are just as guilty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" some of us dont trawl through lots of Profiles were not all the same
thats what they all say.
I know when I'm going to lose, I'll put the Kettle on
You give up to easy, kev ? Where is the' manly spirit ' lol
I would report the ladies for bullying lol
Dont tell them I told you though .sshhhhh!
Their barks worse than their bite, where were you when the thread was started trawling the profiles I bet "
Who me no , never trawl profiles
Are you sure your meeting the right kind of ladies . Never knew a lady that barked or even bites , unless asked of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"watching westworld on a saturday night what is the world coming too?"
watching repeats of repeats thank god the don't make films like westworld any more - far better watching caravans a British love affair 
lord take me now!!!!!!
kettles on! |
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i dont mind looking at profiles or writing messages and sending them but i hate the fact that you can spend hours doing that and getting no replies regardless of your approach but how else can you make cotact ?? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"i hate the fact that you can spend hours doing that and getting no replies regardless of your approach but how else can you make cotact ??"
Faxes
Telegrams
Hire the Red Arrows to do some skywriting over major conurbations
Knock on doors
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah, i messaged a bunch last week, got no replies :x
Does make me want to copy and paste, rather than write each one.
And yeah, i messaged those im suitable too, and didnt say wanna fuck.
:p"
There is nothing wrong with copy and pasting, more people should do it.
HOWEVER
sit down and write a general part of the message, what you like, how you can travel or not, about accommodating (overnight etc) basic general things that you think the person your contacting may want to know about you.
THEN
copy and paste that into your messages but having read the persons profile add a personal touch to the mail, show that you have read thiers and tell the person why you think it might be a good idea to get to know each other better.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like when blokes have the remote control, we like flicking around to see what's on. So trawling through profiles is the fun part, like others have said, getting no replies is the bad part! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I too find trawling through profiles to find people that suit me and that I suit to be a bit boring as well, but when you do find one that is just right, then it can be great. Although then I usually find myself sitting thinking for ages over the right message to send to them! And as previous posters have said, not getting a reply at that point can be a bit disappointing, but you quickly develop a thick skin.
Personally I fully accept that being, single, bi, a smoker, short and not being able to accom does limit my attraction and compatibility but its not like I haven't had meets with some fantastic people and perhaps in the end, the anticipation, increases the pleasure when you do connect! |
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i dont have time to trawl these days, too busy answering all the mail i get from couples wanting invites.
how nice to be able to say to them 'not looking just now, but i know where to find you if i need you'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah, i messaged a bunch last week, got no replies :x
Does make me want to copy and paste, rather than write each one.
And yeah, i messaged those im suitable too, and didnt say wanna fuck.
:p
There is nothing wrong with copy and pasting, more people should do it.
HOWEVER
sit down and write a general part of the message, what you like, how you can travel or not, about accommodating (overnight etc) basic general things that you think the person your contacting may want to know about you.
THEN
copy and paste that into your messages but having read the persons profile add a personal touch to the mail, show that you have read thiers and tell the person why you think it might be a good idea to get to know each other better. "
precisely! hey if i had to trawl for meets i'd do exactly this
what really pisses me off is i currently have on my profile here to chat only, but guys think i'll still be tempted by a cock pic and a copy paste message about how much pleasure they can provided
its tedious but the same story every time - read the feckin profile!
sorry, rant over! |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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But hey we get 10-15 mails a day from people who "won't meet smokers" and people who are looking for couples 15-20 years below my age so they are just as guilty."
How many!
We seriously need to do some more public profile photos.. The privates are too pervy to give the right impression!
We block those who we are not profile compatable with when we trawl profiles, we only do this to take them out of the "who looked at me" search
Shame it doesn't work on the other searches..
Profile checking is almost a full time occupation |
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